premature ejaculation

[voxbacchus]

i have the most sensational relationship with my wife,we have awesome sex but have not been able to achiev orgasm due my ejacualation on penentration,we can make love for a long time with her achieving multiple orgasims every time,she enjoys cunnilingus.Whenever i enter her after she achieves orgasm i cum within a very short time,how do i go for longer times without cumming??

 

[wickedlady31]

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Jack off before sex....
Pull out and pinch off before it gets too close...
when you feel close..think of something not so sexy to wane the urge

 

[yoshimitsu]

Any chance of getting it back up after a little rest after you cum?
Or maybe cum but stay in side her moving slowly and making a cumback?

 

[NoLeafClover7]

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[Zeppo]

If you ever find an easy cure for premature ejaculation, please post it here.
MANY guys would love to know.

 

[Zen_Life]

Jerk off right up to but the including the point of ejaculation.

Give yourself a minute or two to calm down.

Repeat.

Do this every day for a while and you'll start to notice that you take longer and longer to ejaculate. It all depends on your body as to just how long this could take. Could be a few days, might take weeks.

To make it more fun, have your wife do the jerking off for you. Make a game out of it.

The key is to stop before you cum. And then start again.

 

[snake0067]

When you feel youself getting close say you had sex with her mother, that should temper the mood a little.

 

[Lucifina]

Zen_Life has the right idea...it's the start-stop technique in which you are training your body to respond to you not the other way around. Having your wife do it is a lot of fun and it also "pampers" you, which will take your mind off of the situation at hand. Have you ever tried to give her cunnilingus, stopping, penetrating, give a few strokes, cunnilingus, stop, etc? Yes, it's a lot of work, but maybe a worthwhile try?. Most importantly, it's very very important for YOU not to feel overwhelmingly pressured because, as I'm sure you know, can cause more problems. Good luck, I hope it works out...I'm sure it will .

 

[NippleMuncher]

If you ever find an easy cure for premature ejaculation, please post it here.
MANY guys would love to know.

Bring yourself to the edge and stop, wait until the feeling fully passes, then start again. Another way is to go ahead and have at it, but at that critical moment, squeeze it off until you've stopped coming, then resume you actions. Most of the time you can keep your erection long enough to get back "to business", which kind of keeps the mood going and helps you maintain your erection. Sometimes you'll need to stop for a short time before continuing, but after a while you should be able to control it better without stopping to squeezing it off.

Something I don't have experience with, but have on good authority is to develop your PC muscles with kegel exercises.

 

[ombligo1]

Medical help is coming...

http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/medicalnews.php?newsid=18419

ALZA Corporation has submitted a new drug application to the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) for dapoxetine hydrochloride a new treatment for premature ejaculation (PE).

 

[guy4utoo2009]

Delay spray

I use delay spray .... works for me. I spray my self and start cunnling after about 10 minuites I wear a condom and penetrate. because of the condom and the delay spray you dont feel the penetration. you can go on on on till she screams to stop.

guy
ps. if you dont wear a condon the delay spray may numb her.

 

[tanyachrs]

Are you enjoying that at all?

 

[Evil Kirk]

Be there for her.

 

[tryptamine]

I use delay spray .... works for me. I spray my self and start cunnling after about 10 minuites I wear a condom and penetrate. because of the condom and the delay spray you dont feel the penetration. you can go on on on till she screams to stop.

guy
ps. if you dont wear a condon the delay spray may numb her.

That doesn't sound like very much fun...

 

[hereford50]

I've been here recently..

My wife and I have recently split up..one issue amonst several was our awful sexual/intimate relationship, following what used to be a very energetic and (for me, anyway) fulfilling sexual relationship.

There were various issues (come back to me if you're interested) *and* the menopause, the upshot of which was our sexual relationship went down the tubes. I started to suffer from PE (premature ejaculation, you'll know this, others won't). And we went to psychosexual counselling for 18 months..
very good organisation in UK called Relate.

The meesage , in my case, was that, subconciously, I wanted to get the anxious interlude of sex with my wife over with as soon as possible,and hence I came very quickly. If you have your teeth filled by a dentist, you want it to happen (so your tooth ache stops) but you want this over as soon as possible. Since my marriage failed I have had an incredibley fulfilling sexual relationship with my partner.. and PE is not an issue.


Just think, whether there is some anxious element in your relationship that makes you subconciously want to get it over with asap.

Post me again if this helps.
HB50