fursmoke11
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Not a lot that can be done about that I know; but my first votes were 5's on my stories and these have dropped suddenly. Probably because someone found something offensive and voted with prejudice.
This is sad. A little pathetic even.
My stories have several fetishistic elements including furs and smoking. So yes, there are antis on both of those; and my suspicion is one or two voted on the stories with prejudice against one or other of them for being politically incorrect or a turn off for some. A shame. I often read stories here that are badly written but arousing; then some I may find a little unnerving; also those which have fetishes that do not really interest me. But better not to vote than be prejudiced against them surely? We aren't voting for political reasons here surely?
Still; I have some great private feedback from ladies which helps .
Here are two:
"Thankyou thankyou!
Twenty years ago I could sit at a bar and get attention from a man simply by wearing a fur or a beautiful dress, crossing my legs and lighting a cigarette. It was nice that I knew most men could be aroused in this way. Now it seems that young women get attention by showing acres of fat flesh and drinking pints of beer and lobbing their breasts out in a bar.
Reading your stories returned me to a gentile age of more subtle, but possibly more exciting seduction."
"Very classy and erotic thankyou...I love furs...and I love to smoke. I am glad to know that some men still apreciate ."
So on the one hand subjective criticism can be a downer, but on the other hand it can be a boost!
Of course what a writer would really like to know is about the quality of the writing not the subjective assessment of the content; but now I know not to take any notice of voting; and certainly not the one foul mouthed anti that sent me a message. I suggest he goes and burns some books in his Nazi uniform.
Anyway, I wondered also if anyone else had had some of the best feedback anonymously and privately, and wished people felt confident enough to express it in public?
Alo a message to those whose stories may be the butt of prejudice. Always remember that whist everyone is entitled to their own opinion; not everyone's opinion has equal value. The sad thing is that the story which appeals to everyone means it has probably pandered to the lowest common denominator; in the same way that inoffensive weightless pop music makes money and better stuff, or more specialised cultural stuff (bangra or songwriters like PJ Harvey say), stays underground.
A sad reflection on democracy is we get the bland culture we deserve rather than the quality and richness of culture we crave.
This is sad. A little pathetic even.
My stories have several fetishistic elements including furs and smoking. So yes, there are antis on both of those; and my suspicion is one or two voted on the stories with prejudice against one or other of them for being politically incorrect or a turn off for some. A shame. I often read stories here that are badly written but arousing; then some I may find a little unnerving; also those which have fetishes that do not really interest me. But better not to vote than be prejudiced against them surely? We aren't voting for political reasons here surely?
Still; I have some great private feedback from ladies which helps .
Here are two:
"Thankyou thankyou!
Twenty years ago I could sit at a bar and get attention from a man simply by wearing a fur or a beautiful dress, crossing my legs and lighting a cigarette. It was nice that I knew most men could be aroused in this way. Now it seems that young women get attention by showing acres of fat flesh and drinking pints of beer and lobbing their breasts out in a bar.
Reading your stories returned me to a gentile age of more subtle, but possibly more exciting seduction."
"Very classy and erotic thankyou...I love furs...and I love to smoke. I am glad to know that some men still apreciate ."
So on the one hand subjective criticism can be a downer, but on the other hand it can be a boost!
Of course what a writer would really like to know is about the quality of the writing not the subjective assessment of the content; but now I know not to take any notice of voting; and certainly not the one foul mouthed anti that sent me a message. I suggest he goes and burns some books in his Nazi uniform.
Anyway, I wondered also if anyone else had had some of the best feedback anonymously and privately, and wished people felt confident enough to express it in public?
Alo a message to those whose stories may be the butt of prejudice. Always remember that whist everyone is entitled to their own opinion; not everyone's opinion has equal value. The sad thing is that the story which appeals to everyone means it has probably pandered to the lowest common denominator; in the same way that inoffensive weightless pop music makes money and better stuff, or more specialised cultural stuff (bangra or songwriters like PJ Harvey say), stays underground.
A sad reflection on democracy is we get the bland culture we deserve rather than the quality and richness of culture we crave.
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