Pregnancy and BDSM

[Triplexxx717]

What are some safe ways my husband and I can continue to do this? Any suggestions because I like the very rough stuff and I don't think he feels comfortable doing this any longer. Anything would help. Thanks.

 

[s'lara]

How far along are you?

lara

 

[redelicious]

I've done a little looking into this, and I'll share a few of the links that I've found. There are also one or two threads here and on the how to board if you do a search. However, you might find that some of the info is contradictitory or incomplete. The main thing I would say is to pay attention to what feels good, and what seems like common sence.

And I'll throw in a few opinions: Nipple play may be a little difficult throughout your pregnancy, and it's probably not advisable in your last month unless you are trying to induce labor.

Being on your hands and knees is a good thing! It helps the baby stay head down, and it will also relieve some pressure from your back.

Having said that, you don't want to be in any position for too terribly long, especially I would think as you start to show. And you definetely don't want to be reclining or flat on your back (bad for baby's position and interfers with oxygen supply).

Anal sex is ok, so long as you aren't having hemorroid issues.

I have a Dom friend who SWEARS that pregnancy is a good time to try fisting, but frankly the idea scares me.

Ok, now for some links:

http://www.bdsmlife.net/alandra/bdsman.html (kind of a rambling thing)

http://www.mastersandsubmissives.com/pregnancy.html

http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/autumnpregnancy.htm

http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/powereroticspregnancy.htm

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=112849&highlight=pregnant


Good luck!!!

Edited to add a Lit. link

 

[s'lara]

Great links redelicious (leathernroses).

i would suggest find[ing] (edited text) a Kink Aware Professional (KAP) in your area and having a discussion re the activities you wish to engage in and whether they are safe for your baby.

Please see the link below for a listing of KAP's which may cover your area:

http://www.bannon.com/kap/doctor.htm

Good luck to you Triple and safe play with your baby in mind.

lara

 

[Justina123]

Having had six kids (!), here are some of my suggestions. Remember, these come from a healthy, non-medical person!

As mentioned above, being on hands and knees (keep back straight, don't let it dip down) is a highly recommended pregnancy position (check out some natural childbirth exercises), very good for you. There is no reason in the world your bare bottom cannot be spanked or flogged at the time, same for your back as long as the Dominant is well versed in not "wrapping."

Also recommended during pregancy is any kind of stretching exercise for the inner thighs, where you splay the legs, as it prepares those muscles for some of the unusual stress/position of childbirth.

Also, nipple play can be a great way to prepare for nursing, if that is your intent. Actually, La Leche League and many others tactfully suggest having a partner help to "prepare" your nipples to toughen up for nursing.

Doctors will tell you that sex throughout pregnancy for an otherwise healthy woman is fine, but personally, though I've never asked a professional about this, I'd be careful of any kind of invasive play in the vaginal or anal area.

As you get towards the end, the pressure of the baby on the arteries taking blood to your legs can cause circulation to be less than optimal, so bondage, at least of the lower half, would most likely not be a good idea, nor would maintaining any one position for more than 5 or 10 minutes at a time.

So those are my "from experience" but, remember, non-professional opinions, hope it helps! And remember, a happy and sexually fulfilled mom-to-be is always the best thing or the baby, ha!

-justina

- justina

 

[redelicious]

Also, nipple play can be a great way to prepare for nursing, if that is your intent. Actually, La Leche League and many others tactfully suggest having a partner help to "prepare" your nipples to toughen up for nursing.

Just to clarify . . .

This was true at one time. Now it is thought that nipple soreness during breastfeeding is largely due to incorrect positioning or improper sucking techniques. La Leche League no longer considers toughening up the nipples necessary. On the other hand they see gentle breast massage and nipple sucking during sex as natural ways of getting ready to nurse.

But heck, if you aren't having nipple soreness due to your pregnancy do it anyway! Just be aware that later in pregnancy nipple stimulation can induce labor.

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[redelicious]

But it's a nicer way to induce labor than other methods... same goes for sex.

Absolutely! Been trying that method myself.

(sigh, to no avail, but it's been fun anyway )