Praising my Goddess

[mindswirler]

I'm writing this post because I want to tell the world how wonderful my Goddess is, and literotica is a good place to start!

We met on here after she posted about her desire to explore bdsm play. I'm her first worshipper but I hope there will be others: her eroticism is too delicious to be hidden away. I count myself very fortunate she's taken me into her service.

What is it she does that makes my mind swirl so? It's her fierce curiosity, her confident ownership, and the scope of her desires. She wants to know every detail of her slave's desires, which gives her domination a lovely warmth. At the same time though, she's not a nervous Domme or a service Domme. Her focus is fully (and rightly) on her desires and the effects she evokes in me she does so for her pleasure. And she's aroused and intrigued by so much that i can never be sure how she'll use me next. She's also funny, sexy, smart and horny... *grins* ...but as I say, it's the flavour of her dominance that most impresses me, considering she hadn't had the chance to explore this side of herself until now.

By way of example, just today she's had me edge five times, give up my orgasm so i could hear a secret about her, write an email discussing what it feels like when a slave fails at a task, admit to my friend that i belong to her, shiver as she hinted at possible future mindfucks she might use on me, and pray to her as soon as I woke in the morning. I can't wait to talk with her again. She owns me.

Reflecting on what I love about submitting to her, I'm curious to hear others' answers to the following questions:

* Do you prefer warm domination (where you know the Dom/Domme cares about you even if s/he's doing cruel things to you) or cold domination where he/she views you with indifference, disdain or even contempt?
* Do you prefer free-form play, heavily ritualised play, or a blend of the two?
* What appeals to you most about your own Owners?

 

[KoPilot]

1. I fantasize about both pretty equally, but I think, as a married couple, we've got to work on the latter.

2. Generally free-form. But, like I said, we're still in the heavy experimenting stage, so it's going to be a while before he decides if he's like to do one or the other.

3. He's my best friend, and we're in this together for the long haul. We have the same sense of humor, very similar tastes in media, enjoy each others' boring moments, and aren't afraid to dutch oven each other.

 

[heavypetting95]

Do I Pefer warm domination or cold domination? Definitely the former. I need my Master/Mistress to show me how happy my submission makes Him/Her. Nothing turns me on more than pleasing my Dom/me.

 

[roreywhorey90]

I It's her fierce curiosity, her confident ownership, and the scope of her desires. She wants to know every detail of her slave's desires, which gives her domination a lovely warmth. At the same time though, she's not a nervous Domme or a service Domme. Her focus is fully (and rightly) on her desires and the effects she evokes in me she does so for her pleasure. And she's aroused and intrigued by so much that i can never be sure how she'll use me next. She's also funny, sexy, smart and horny... *grins* ...but as I say, it's the flavour of her dominance that most impresses me, considering she hadn't had the chance to explore this side of herself until now.

Interesting thoughts, my own pet feels many of these same things. Though he hasn't posted anything like this...I wonder what that says about him?

To answer your questions

1. Warm domination is more intimate.
2. A blend is delightful.
3. Being loved by him, being told how proud he is of me when I do something right.

 

[Anonymaso]

* Do you prefer warm domination (where you know the Dom/Domme cares about you even if s/he's doing cruel things to you) or cold domination where he/she views you with indifference, disdain or even contempt?
* Do you prefer free-form play, heavily ritualised play, or a blend of the two?
* What appeals to you most about your own Owners?

1. Cold. He can go from one to the other with so seamlessly that it's like a backhand to the face. Verbal humiliation in particular is like air to me. It's also something he can do anywhere, at any time, often just with the curl of his lip. When he belittles me quietly, somewhere I can't react - like his fucking parents' house - that goes right through me. If I so much as flush I'm a dead woman.

2. Free form. We don't go in for a lot of rules or equipment and I don't call him 'Sir' or 'Master' because I categorically cannot keep a straight face. We've known each other since primary school (when he was an obscene 9 years old to my 6) but we've only been together a couple of years. He can be the world's most attentive partner one minute and evil incarnate the next. Keeps me on my toes.

3. Um... the above. For all our shenanigans we're really solid as a vanilla couple. We were both so astonished when we finally realised we were perfect for one another that we waited another six months before moving in together. We were waiting, basically, for the punchline. To wake up one morning and realise the whole thing was madness. When I broached the subject of kink to him he had never done it before. I was terrified it would ruin everything, or that he would hate 'abusing' me and I'd have to choose whether to stay vanilla or leave him. I was very upfront about what I had tried and what I fantasised about. It took him a little while to get into that headspace and be able to enjoy it. He needed a lot of reassurance that I did need it, wasn't psychologically maimed by it and could still see him as the guy I've always known but recently fallen for. Once he saw how I responded to that kind of treatment he was hooked, so I've corrupted him. There aren't many men who wouldn't be, given a free pass to use their girlfriend virtually any way they wish to, any time they choose and to be able to really pound the shit out of her. His intelligence and inventiveness have really kicked things up a notch though. I would crawl across broken glass to get throatfucked against a wall while he laid into me verbally and he knows it.