Luv70sfords
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- Jan 24, 2003
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Holy crap! I had typed this once and lost it....
Ok so heres the deal. When I met my wife, she was a bordeline nymph. She wanted sex 3 times a day, everyday, and once or twice at night as well. She was the most orgasmic woman I had ever met. Things were great for a long time. PIV orgasms were the rule, not the exception. She even had a few nights of multiple orgasms on the nights her screams didnt make me cum much earlier than I wanted
Then came the pregnancy. Her libido dropped, save a for a few days a month when she'd get incredibly horny, and then it was a bit of work to get her off. We figured (and read in several books) that it was normal pregnancy issues do to the extra flow of blood in the area, and never really gave it a second thought.
When she finally had our son last november (7 weeks early if it matters) we were very eager to get things rolling again. After the stiches came out, and things got more into a norm, we were back at it like bunnies. And slowly but surely her libido was warming back up. Although the problem was starting to rear its ugly head, and we never realised it then. After she had an orgasm, she would go completely numb. Im talkin she could have birthed another baby and not known kinda numb.
Again, we thought it was probably normal, and things would get better. We were horribly wrong. It has gotten to the point now that she in almost completely numb, her orgasm is only attainable by some very vigorous oral sex marathons, in which Im damn near chewing on her clit in order to get the right sensations up. Her g-spot is also on the fritz, as touching it gives her the sensation of getting ready to puke.
Our sexlife had degraded to the point that although Im sure she meant well, it felt like my wife was giving me an oil change. I'd even catch her watching TV or something, just politely waiting till I was done. I found myself watching more and more porn, not so much to see the sex, but just to hear the sound of a sexually satisfied woman (even if she was faking it, I didnt care).
We've decided to actively pursue this problem, and yall wonderful people are one of those steps. Figured someone might have an idea on whats going on, or a suggestion of what to do.
As soon as my wifes insurance kicks in, she'll be doctor bound with this problem as well, but untill then, were kinda stuck with what we can learn and such on our own.
Ok so heres the deal. When I met my wife, she was a bordeline nymph. She wanted sex 3 times a day, everyday, and once or twice at night as well. She was the most orgasmic woman I had ever met. Things were great for a long time. PIV orgasms were the rule, not the exception. She even had a few nights of multiple orgasms on the nights her screams didnt make me cum much earlier than I wanted
Then came the pregnancy. Her libido dropped, save a for a few days a month when she'd get incredibly horny, and then it was a bit of work to get her off. We figured (and read in several books) that it was normal pregnancy issues do to the extra flow of blood in the area, and never really gave it a second thought.
When she finally had our son last november (7 weeks early if it matters) we were very eager to get things rolling again. After the stiches came out, and things got more into a norm, we were back at it like bunnies. And slowly but surely her libido was warming back up. Although the problem was starting to rear its ugly head, and we never realised it then. After she had an orgasm, she would go completely numb. Im talkin she could have birthed another baby and not known kinda numb.
Again, we thought it was probably normal, and things would get better. We were horribly wrong. It has gotten to the point now that she in almost completely numb, her orgasm is only attainable by some very vigorous oral sex marathons, in which Im damn near chewing on her clit in order to get the right sensations up. Her g-spot is also on the fritz, as touching it gives her the sensation of getting ready to puke.
Our sexlife had degraded to the point that although Im sure she meant well, it felt like my wife was giving me an oil change. I'd even catch her watching TV or something, just politely waiting till I was done. I found myself watching more and more porn, not so much to see the sex, but just to hear the sound of a sexually satisfied woman (even if she was faking it, I didnt care).
We've decided to actively pursue this problem, and yall wonderful people are one of those steps. Figured someone might have an idea on whats going on, or a suggestion of what to do.
As soon as my wifes insurance kicks in, she'll be doctor bound with this problem as well, but untill then, were kinda stuck with what we can learn and such on our own.
