Post cuckold anxiety

[B0bbyshaft0]

We have been together over 40 years. We are a good team. There is respect and some affection but love is a very distant memory. I have never been faithful. In retaliation my wife had several affairs. I really got off on her accounts of her encounters. But she won’t tell me the details of one of them. It drives me to distraction that she won’t satisfy my curiosity. She says she can’t remember but she can she can remember what she was wearing but not where she met ‘Terry’. How many times? How it ended. I try to sweep it out of my mind but can’t. Anyone else have a similar experience.?

 

[mywife4othermen]

We have been together over 40 years. We are a good team. There is respect and some affection but love is a very distant memory. I have never been faithful. In retaliation my wife had several affairs. I really got off on her accounts of her encounters. But she won’t tell me the details of one of them. It drives me to distraction that she won’t satisfy my curiosity. She says she can’t remember but she can she can remember what she was wearing but not where she met ‘Terry’. How many times? How it ended. I try to sweep it out of my mind but can’t. Anyone else have a similar experience.?

Very much so!

My first wife was very reluctant to even entertain my fantasy of an MMF until she admitted, one evening, after a party when she'd had too much to drink, that she had had an affair with a man she had met through work. She only told me his name and that he would visit from "out of town". She would describe the sex, often in very graphic detail, turing herself and myself on but she never ever gave me details of how often they met, where they met, how they met and when ( or if ) it ended. She knew she was driving me crazy with arousal and jealousy.

 

[screwher]

My wife’s first tryst with another man. This guy took her to a hotel and fucked her! Found out right away and confronted her. I was of a totally different mindset then and it almost ruined us. But we got past it and we moved on. But soon after the idea of her having Sex with another man started to arouse me. I started fantasizing about it and secretly hoped she’d do it again. Many years later, she did do it again! This opened up our marriage to other men as it’s something we both wanted.

My wife now knows that initial tryst turns me on and I’m happy she did it. But at the time it caused a lot pain so she doesn’t look at it very fondly. So she won’t talk about it. But I want to hear all about it.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

We have been together over 40 years. We are a good team. There is respect and some affection but love is a very distant memory. I have never been faithful. In retaliation my wife had several affairs. I really got off on her accounts of her encounters. But she won’t tell me the details of one of them. It drives me to distraction that she won’t satisfy my curiosity. She says she can’t remember but she can she can remember what she was wearing but not where she met ‘Terry’. How many times? How it ended. I try to sweep it out of my mind but can’t. Anyone else have a similar experience.?

Yes... I have had ALMOST the exact situation happen.

 

[RipRespon]

My wife had a one night stand with a guy during a snow storm and a canceled flight. She liked him enough to invite him to stay with us for a week. He was nice enough just very private. He wasn't interested in sharing my wife with me or even having me around when they got hot and heavy (which was all the time). I began to realize he was getting off on the domination dynamic between the two of us. Anyway, they were always sneaking off, either in the house or out on the town so I didn't see them much that week. However, she'd come to bed every night, no matter how late, to suck me off or fuck me and tell me about what they'd been doing. And this guy was kinky so I really loved hearing about what he'd made her do that day (and trust me, he was into sharing).

However, every morning she'd sneak naked into his room and stay for over an hour. I wasn't told what they did, other than her joking how specifically he liked to woken up, and, because it was so intimate and he really didn't want anyone, especially me, to know, she'd not break her promise to him.

To this day I'm desperate to know what the fuck they did every morning, but now that I'm long divorced that will never happen.

 

[screwher]

My wife had a one night stand with a guy during a snow storm and a canceled flight. She liked him enough to invite him to stay with us for a week. He was nice enough just very private. He wasn't interested in sharing my wife with me or even having me around when they got hot and heavy (which was all the time). I began to realize he was getting off on the domination dynamic between the two of us. Anyway, they were always sneaking off, either in the house or out on the town so I didn't see them much that week. However, she'd come to bed every night, no matter how late, to suck me off or fuck me and tell me about what they'd been doing. And this guy was kinky so I really loved hearing about what he'd made her do that day (and trust me, he was into sharing).

However, every morning she'd sneak naked into his room and stay for over an hour. I wasn't told what they did, other than her joking how specifically he liked to woken up, and, because it was so intimate and he really didn't want anyone, especially me, to know, she'd not break her promise to him.

To this day I'm desperate to know what the fuck they did every morning, but now that I'm long divorced that will never happen.

Wow! That’s so hot! I have been thinking about a scenario like this for my wife and I. Where another man spends a week with us. To which he’s having sex with Mrs. Screwher. They share our bedroom and marital bed and screw every night! I’d like to watch a few times but I know they’d want their privacy most of the time.

 

[elishwats]

This happened as well to my wife and me. Even though I was saying that I was okay with it and didn't care about her affairs, they somehow hurt me. And, from what I learned later, she was in the same situation as me. It would be best to talk to your wife about it and see how you both feel. If you can't get everything out on your own, I suggest going to relationship counseling. That's what my wife and I did, and it has been fantastic for us. We did our counseling at https://www.counsellinginmelbourne....-the-best-option-to-deal-with-grief-and-loss/, and we highly recommend it.