Positions

[jman900]

I am wondering what is the best position that is going to make it less sensitive for me (a man) and be able to last longer. Me and my girlfriend have had sex about 6 or 7 times now and its always the missionary position and i can stay in that position for about 10 minutes before cumming. I would really like for her to have an orgasm! So what are some good positions for lasting longer? Aslo i mean is it a good idea to go down on her after she finishes me off from giving oral?

 

[hotkittykitty]

my sweetie and I have found that the best position for helping him lasting longer is me on top.

 

[Eilan]

I am wondering what is the best position that is going to make it less sensitive for me (a man) and be able to last longer. Me and my girlfriend have had sex about 6 or 7 times now and its always the missionary position and i can stay in that position for about 10 minutes before cumming. I would really like for her to have an orgasm! So what are some good positions for lasting longer?

Well, I'm not a guy, but I know that my ex never lasted very long in the missionary position.

Keep in mind, too, that a lot of women don't have an orgasm through PIV sex, or if they do, it takes a bit of experimenting to find out what works best.

Aslo i mean is it a good idea to go down on her after she finishes me off from giving oral?

Why wouldn't it be?

 

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[YMS]

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www.malemultiple.org

 

[phoenix1224]

FYI: The "average" man only lasts 2 1/2 minutes... So, if you're lasting 10 minutes, you've got a good start.

I would suggest that you at least double the time that you're spending on foreplay... The more aroused she is, the more likely that it'll happen for her.

Keep in mind that, just because she isn't having an orgasm with you, it doesn't mean that you're doing anything wrong.

How old is she? Many woman in their late teens/early twenties are unable to have an orgasm at all (even when by themselves) let alone through intercourse... So, she should experiment more on her own (preferably NOT using a vibrator... you'll NEVER be able to reproduce that sort of stimulation) to find out what gets her off so that she can help you to help her.

 

[longtimerod]

If she doesn't have an orgasm before you come, bring her to one after you come. Just because you (individually) are done doesn't mean you (collectively) are done.

If you get too tired to help her to orgasm after you come, then do it before you start intercourse.

 

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[Grizzman]

And don't forget to STOP! and catch you're breath. It's amazing what taking a deep breath will do to bring you down just a bit.

But yeah I favor the preemptive oral O's. Then I can be as greedy as I want

 

[bobsgirl]

Try having her on top. This is a good position to provide the direct stimulation she may need to orgasm. Works for me.