Porn Stash -- some questions

[fortytwodd4you]

I'm a newbie here, and also in a new relationship -- I was wondering how people first shared their porn stash with their partners when the relationship was new. Also, how was the introduction received? (upset?, excited?, hesitant at first but enthusiastically embraced later?)

Thanks!

 

[lobito]

well, you see, I bought my first VCR when I was 18.... WAY back when VHS was new, my step father rented a pron movie,a dn I was the one with a VCR, and as uncomfortable as it was, we sat and watched Debbie Does Dallas together.

OH WAIT! PARTNERS. SHIT I'm SO stupid sometimes. Um it's called stash for a reason.

 

[fortytwodd4you]

Lobito -- that's funny! I can't imagine watching porn with either parent/step-parent!

 

[Shockdoctor]

Before you think about telling your partner about your porn stash you might want to find out their views on porn. My SO doesn't care for porn (unless it's homemade) so she was reasonably upset when she found my stash (I got careless ) I was able to convice her to let me keep it, but it would have been a lot easier on me if she had never found out about it....

 

[lobito]

well, it was ONLY watching, nothing more. I made him leave my room immediately after the tape ended, so I could, um clean my room, yeah that's it.

The best part? It's a totally true story.

BTW, welcome to the big board, both of you.

Lo

 

[SexyChele]

Actually, I always like to hunt around and see if I can find his porn stash - and then not tell him when I've found it! I've usually enjoyed it for quite some time before I "allow" him "catch" me at it! Oh, the look on most men's faces when they walk in from taking a shower to discover me sitting on their bed going over their porn is priceless! And the excuses they come up with!

I usually let them sweat for a few minutes, before I tell them I've known about it for quite some time.

Well, I suppose you can guess that porn doesn't bother me...

 

[Shockdoctor]

Thanks for the welcom Lo.

SexyChele, I know that look you are talking about all too well. Too bad my SO didn't share your views though.

 

[SweetCherry]

Bah, nothing wrong with a little porn. I've shared porn mags with partners before, looking at them together. I may razz 'em a bit about it, but I don't care. After all, we are only human and we're gonna look. What's the big deal anyhow?

Draco, you better not try to hide YOUR porn folder from me, you deviant kiwi.

 

[perks]

I patented the line "I'll show you my porn stash if you show me your"s....after the shocked looks they usually cough it up. Then, by seeing theirs, I can usually tell what part of my stash I can share. My porn stash is way bigger than your porn stash.

perky

 

[Pokerman]

I patented the line "I'll show you my porn stash if you show me your"s....after the shocked looks they usually cough it up. Then, by seeing theirs, I can usually tell what part of my stash I can share. My porn stash is way bigger than your porn stash.

perky

and what kind of stuff is in your stash? titles/genre.....

 

[perks]

you're supposed to show me yours first ....

and don't you remember hearing about the lucky13?

 

[fortytwodd4you]

Lobito - Thanks for the welcome!

The thing is that I wouldn't mind sharing but the porn that I have is the total opposite of what my partner has (physically, not in the amount of porn!) So I guess that I'm just wondering if I share, I might offend. I know that my partner has no objections to porn but it's the content that might be offending.

BTW, thanks for the replies -- I'm learning a lot!

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

I had little porn when I was married, but my ex-wife eventually didn't like it. beyond that I have never exposed my stash to the people I dated. My ex-wife is now comfortable with soft porn movies you see on HBO, but I think she wouldn't be comfortable with anything more.

I think that were I to get into another relationship the porn would probably go away. I use porn to keep sane when I am not having sex. If I were to be having good sex on a regular basis (at lesat 5 times a day ), then I wouldn't need porn and it would just get in the way.

Now if I were to meet someone who was comfortable with porn, and wanted to watch porn movies with me for enjoyment then that would be okay, but I can do without porn - the real thing is so much better anyway.

So, I guess what I am saying is that I would not hide a stash from a lover - I would either get rid of it, or I would share it.

 

[Guest]

My hubby doesn't have a stash. He peeks at mine, instead.