Poppa Rod

[LargoKitt]

Just read another story or two where a character is fretting about folks seeing his erection, and ladies are noticing his woodie.

In the name of accuracy, but recognizing the role of hyperbole and fantasy, a question for both men and women: For men, personal experience says that men very rarely get stiff to the point of visibility in public, though trousers can deceptively give the appearance of erectitude. So, dudes, have you rarely, occasionally or frequently 'risen to the occasion' in public without you or someone else having 'encouraged you'?

To women: I know you are talented surreptitious crotch watchers, but how ofen have you seen a dude, not at 'is he...' but rather at 'OMG he's totally....' stage?

I realize that gay men may have an entirely unique tilt on this. But it might be instructive to note if you see straight dudes in obvious arousal.

I don't think this trope is going to go away anytime soon. Any more than women 'getting wet' is. Of course guys get wet and women get erect, but those are used less in stories. "I knew she wanted me because under that silk blouse her nipples were rock hard."

 

[MrPixel]

"Is that a banana in your pocket, or are you just glad to see me?"
-Mae West, in "My Little Chickadee"

It may be a trope, but there is an element of truth to it. A couple of instances in my life, "Oo. Is that for me?" Girlfriends, of course.

 

[SinclairGroupLLP]

Not since I was a teenager and couldn't control myself. That was the only time I can remember it happening in a public setting. Once I hit my twenties, I could go to strip clubs, make out with girls on the dance floor, among other things and never had an unwanted erection that was visible.

Maybe I'm just too good at seeming nonchalant when I'm turned on, lol.

 

[Britva415]

have you rarely, occasionally or frequently 'risen to the occasion' in public without you or someone else having 'encouraged you'?

Happened all the time when I was 14.

Never, since I became sexually active.

Except for the time I decided to go on a bike ride in San Francisco with nothing on below the waist and above the knees but a cock ring, a pair of rubber rain pants, and lube. That was weird, funny, fun and oddly exciting.

 

[TheRedChamber]

No, but then I rarely have things that are worth writing down in a Literotica story happen to me.

 

[alohadave]

For men, personal experience says that men very rarely get stiff to the point of visibility in public, though trousers can deceptively give the appearance of erectitude. So, dudes, have you rarely, occasionally or frequently 'risen to the occasion' in public without you or someone else having 'encouraged you'?

No, it rarely happens. And less so as you get older. Most situations are not at all erotic and random hard-ons don't really happen, IME. Maybe it happens to other guys, but it's more of a porn trope than anything realistic.

And, based on my experience, even watching porn, or back when I frequented strip clubs, I rarely, if ever got a hard-on from watching the dancers. Funnily, strip clubs really aren't that erotic to me. They can be fun, but it's kind of a weird space that is very performative and openly transactional.