Poll ,,,, Ladies and Giving Oral

[skitzoid]

There has been an ongoing discussion on women giving their husbands/boyfriends blow jobs. Now, I know this is a sexually minded forum, but a truthful answer will go along way to answer the debate.


Do women do it because they like it?


Do women do it because it pleases their man?


Do women feel obligated to do it?

 

[SweetNatasha]

How about these questions instead:

As a woman...

Do you do it because you like it?

Do you do it because it pleases your man?

Do you feel obligated to do it?

 

[SweetNatasha]

Do you do it because you like it?

Yes I like doing it. It really turns me on, especially hearing how much the guy is enjoying it. I like being in total control of his pleasure and I don't find it submissive.


Do you do it because it pleases your man?

Yes that's another good reason


Do you feel obligated to do it?

No

 

[Silly_Goose]

Do you do it because you like it?

Yes, I enjoy it very much. I love having the control over a man's pleasure, and like SweetNatasha, I love hearing how much the guy is enjoying it. =)

Do you do it because it pleases your man?

Of course. Why else would I do it?

Do you feel obligated to do it?

Absolutely not. I do it because I want to. Nobody has ever asked me to give them a blow job, I just do it. ^^

 

[KaeyMee]

On my knees because ...

How about these questions instead:

As a woman...

Do you do it because you like it? Absolutely. Isn't that what the mouth, throat and tongue with all those tactile nerve endings was designed for?

Do you do it because it pleases your man? Well if it didn't please him I guess I wouldn't be doing it. Unless he was tied down and I did it anyway.

Do you feel obligated to do it? Only when I'm being submissive ... different mindset ... not for my pleasure.

While you're down there ...

 

[ElegantlyElle]

Do women do it because they like it?

I definitely enjoy doing it. I don't think it has anything to do with being submissive or not. I like doing it, because I know that he likes having it done.

Do women do it because it pleases their man?

I want to do everything in my power to please him and that's just one of many things. He does everything he can to please me, too.

Do women feel obligated to do it?
That's a double edged sword, because the answer is both yes and no. Yes, I feel obligated to do it, because to me it's part of a loving, sexual relationship. Hoever, I wouldn't do it though, if I didn't want to.

 

[AnitaMann]

Do I do it because I like it?

Yes, absolutely yes! I love sucking cock. I don't just like it. I crave it!


Do I do it because it pleases my man?

While it isn't the main reason I do it, it certainly is a nice benefit! I'm glad that I've found a man who loves receiving as much as I love giving, and one who fulfills me in the ways that I crave.


Do I feel obligated to do it?

Not obligated. Honored, happy, and excited to do it. I think it is a selfless thing to offer pleasure to another person, with NO expectation of a return. I consider it a gift I give him, happily, freely, willingly, and lovingly.

 

[Beth87]

I do it because I like it. Well I love it

Sometimes I haven't been in the mood for my own stuff so I do oral because it pleases him. And in general I love pleasing him.

I have felt obligated in the past and I have given oral when I had no taste for it...pardon the expression. I've felt obligated because the guy was a jerk about not getting oral. And I have felt obligated because I was too young to know I could say no because I just didnt feel in the mood - it never felt a good enough reason.

 

[Emerald_Lilly]

I absolutely do it because i love it. I actually think i like giving more than hubby likes receiving. So, do i do it because it pleases him? Sometimes, but more often he is the one indulging me. Don't feel obligated at all.

 

[SweetMystery]

Do you do it because you like it?
Absolutely! I love it. There is nothing like feeling a cock in my mouth, the throb, the pulse...pressing it against the roof of my mouth...feeling it in my throat. *ahem* Sorry, got a little distracted there.

Do you do it because it pleases your man?
Well, yes, that is part of it but that isn't the only reason. I think it is a wonderfully intense feeling for both people involved. Of course, I have no idea what it actually feels like to him but it is obvious from the reactions...the sounds, the touches, the movement...that it pleases him. By the same token, he can tell the same from me.

Do you feel obligated to do it?
Never. Well, maybe when I was younger and didn't know any better but not now. I've actually been told, "You don't have to." Now, that confuses me...and confused him when I told him that I wanted to. Unfortunately, I think some men have never experienced a woman who truly loves to give a really impassioned blowjob.

 

[switchbitch]

these questions seemed to infer that it's all about him, no no no.

Do you do it because you like it?

I do it because I not only like it, it is one of my prime fetishes, cock in mouth is not only my favourite security blanket, it makes me cum.I like it so much I have been known to do it in my sleep.

Do you do it because it pleases your man?

of course I enjoy the enjoyment of my partner, but that is not my primary enjoyment of it.

Do you feel obligated to do it?

obligated? NO!compelled by my own desires?YES YES YES!

 

[Sensualdreamer]

Kinda sucks that the "non-expiring" option on the poll wasn't selected.

I don't give head b/c I merely like it...I fucking love it, b/c I get so damned turned on...well 95% of the time I do.

I don't give it b/c it pleases him...I just like the texture in my mouth and sucking on stuff in general...can't explain it aside from the friction it produces in my mouth.

I never think I'm obligated. Crazy as it sounds, I tend to think if I cause a guy a hard on, and I'm able to do so, well I'm not gonna leave him w/ a hardon.

 

[deskuser]

Has to be 1 and 2 for me. I'd only feel obligated if I was being paid. Hmm now theres a thought!

 

[lianita]

Nothing gets me a new pair of shoes better than a nice blowjob.
So that's the main reason I like it

 

[PassionateStars]

great thread

About to go read it all!!!

Thanks

 

[cassieh]

Do you do it because you like it? Of course. If I didn't enjoy it I wouldn't do it.

Do you do it because it pleases your man? Both. I enjoy the soft smoothness of his cock, and how hot it feels. I enjoy the feeling of feeling his dick growing from limp to hard with my lips wrapped around him. I enjoy how hard it grows right before it explodes and sends several streams of cum shooting down my throat. I also enjoy seeing, feeling and hearing how happy he is with my mouth wrapped around his cock.

Do you feel obligated to do it? When I was younger I would have to answer yes. Now, the answer is no, although I'm sure I wish my husband thought I felt obligated.

 

[skitzoid]

I would like to thank all of the ladies that responded. I think an over-whelming vote was for their enjoyment. A close second was to please their man. This settles the ongoing debate between my wife and I. She may not agree with the results, but the numbers don't lie.
All the girls enjoy themselves, I know their men will.

 

[NorthernTigress]

Do you do it because you like it?
Yes, it fells nice in the mouth though I don't really like the cum in my mouth so try to judge it just right.
Do you do it because it pleases your man?
yes, I love giving pleasure and it's a fair swap don't you think?
Do you feel obligated to do it? No, i wouldn't do it for that reason.

 

[PassionateStars]

hi

Hi

Bumping this thread -- Was one I'd enjoyed while it was active. Surely there are folks with new experiences to tell us about, or who've not been here before.

All: Say hi!

D

 

[cliteatingman]

Nothing gets me a new pair of shoes better than a nice blowjob.
So that's the main reason I like it

Want some shoes?

 

[DirtyLaura]

This is an interesting question...its tough to honestly choose one answer...its definitely not the third...but I think I like it because it drives him crazy, makes him an animal...shocks him out of his shyness, makes him a wild brute ready to take me HARD...and I like doing all things that result in that....

 

[liv21]

I'll do it to please him. I don't like doing it myself. I enjoy it for about five to ten minutes. I love teasing and just playing with a hard cock, watching it twitch and grow. I love sliding it in and out. It's fun. It's a great way to get him super hard for sex.

However, we're talking about blow jobs here, not foreplay. Half an hour later, with my jaw cramping and drool and pre-cum mixing in my hair and running down my chin, I've had quite enough. And of course, every time I *need* to take a break, it's when he's "so close--" meaning that I just condemned myself to another ten minutes by closing my mouth for a few seconds. I find it too difficult to finish my fiance off. He needs very intense stimulation to finish which becomes very unpleasant for me. I feel very helpless and decidedly unsexy for being unable to get him off, despite how much I know he loves it.

Who knows? I might like giving head to a guy who was more sensitive than my fiance, but that hasn't happened yet.

 

[Lilac_Sky]

I love sucking cock and do it entirely to please my man and myself ... never feel obligated. I get so turned on with a cock in my mouth!

 

[TanyaH]

All three! There are times when I really enjoy giving head, when I really feel like sucking and licking a nice hard cock, there are times when I do it just because I know how much guys like it, so I do it for their enjoyment. There have also been times when I have felt obligated to do it, when I really haven't been in the mood, but to be honest, I kind of like the sense of having to do it more or less unwillingly when a guy insists on using my mouth.

 

[Money1969]

Do you do it because you like it?
- yes. I love to suck cock

Do you do it because it pleases your man?
- yes. I love to make my guy happy. That's part of what makes sex into GREAT sex

Do you feel obligated to do it?
- no. I don't feel obligated to do it, but there have been times when he would lick me and I would feel like I should return the favor.