Poll for Married Men

[Anuml2017]

This is a poll for those men who have been, or were married for ten years or more.

Did you at any time during your married life lose interest in having sex with your wife. Was it in the first five years, five to ten years or after ten years. Or do you still desire your wife sexually?

Be honest, folks.

 

[screwher]

27 years and we still have a fantastic sex life. Just last night we gave our mattress quite a workout.

 

[albertaboy]

31 year for me, still going strong.

Love her and love fucking her more than ever.

 

[CindyCD478]

I answered that I still love to fuck my wife which I do. I also love to fuck other men and women and get fucked by other men. That includes my Mom and our Son and Daughter.

 

[hilton1958]

Married 28 years, still love her, we still have regular sex, but she's bordering on vanilla, so I enjoy my online distractions where I can be myself, or more of myself at least.

 

[Jordan42]

Love teasing married men...

Stacey

 

[pplwatching]

This is not a question with a clear cut answer without really knowing what you really want to know. There was a time in my marriage when my wife didn't want sex due to a combination of birth control, a toddler and an infant taking up all of her energy, and a mutual lack of understanding of the role that sex played in our marriage.

During that time I wanted to have sex with her, but she had no sex drive. That created an unbearable tension in our marriage. Without going into boring details, I will just say that at that time porn and masturbation were a welcome relief from the effort that it took to seduce her and the string of rejection that almost always came from trying. During that time I wanted to have sex with her, but began to avoid it. It is more accurate to say that I didn't want the emotional drain of trying to have sex with her. Most of that took place between 5 and 15 years.

Many things have changed in our marriage that have led us back to having a much better sex life. At the 22 year mark she makes an effort not to refuse sex often. I look forward to having sex with her, and don't rely on porn as a substitute much any more.

True love travels on a gravel road.

 

[TomBoner]

Always have loved sex with my wife. Just enjoyed an awesome oral sex episode last night. 30 years of marriage and it never has gotten old although it's not as frequent as when we were younger.

 

[Davesmith42]

Love teasing married men...

Stacey

Well you can tease me anytime you like

 

[Spenser41]

In my first marriage I never stopped, but she stopped and didn't desire me any more and so it ended.

The second marriage, I was treated like crap. Her family always came first before me and I was the last in everything. I was talked down to and treated like crap, so yea that killed it for me.

So there you go.

 

[MileHighBound]

34 yeas and we still have a very healthy sex life together.

 

[J1biboi]

In my early 60s after 35 years of marriage, I started to think more about sucking cock.

 

[Jordan42]

Well you can tease me anytime you like

You should unwrap that present for me...

Stacey

 

[vintage69]

Still doing it

I have been fucking my wife for about 44 years. We started very young. She still enjoys it but is very passive in bed now. Did not used to be. I am 63 and seem to be wanting more and varied sex so even though we screw about twice a week I want more. Frustrating

 

[SCcouple1990]

Been together for 26 years, and I still want to get in her panties almost every day.

 

[Anuml2017]

Been together for 26 years, and I still want to get in her panties almost every day.

And do you?

 

[justherhusband]

Been together 28 years, married 25, and I still love to fuck her as much as I did when we first met.

 

[PaulS44]

Early-mid forties. Married 16 years. Still can't fuck her or eat her enough..and we do plenty.

..and she's fucking hot..still. That ass and those tits..are wow.

 

[Anuml2017]

Bi-sexual and bi curious men

From the responses here it looks like most men love fucking their wives. I am wondering if bi curious and bi sexual men have responded here?

 

[carlsnake]

Married 40 years and still enjoy fucking my wife. Now it's only twice a month instead of twice a night.

 

[npanxx]

We will be married 21 years in November.

I would love to fuck my wife, but she seems to have an unrealistic concept of what marriage is, so she has been withholding sex for 10 months.

You know... because.

Frustrating is an understatement.

 

[PrymeNumeric]

Sadly, my former wife really struggled with sex. She changed the moment we were married. From being a passionate girlfriend she became a prude and took almost more than a decade before she would wear any lingerie. Nothing but vanilla sex in the same positions.. once she became pregnant, she declined all sex whatsoever except to have a 2nd child.

After nearly 20 years, I had to leave her... really quite sad tale.

If you are in a "dead bedroom" marriage and are not satisfied, I recommend you deal with it head on. A slow, steady patience and love does not work if your partner is unwilling to take small steps. I had to learn an expensive life lesson in not abandoning myself... I encourage others to be fast learners.

 

[Kitschshaman]

would still love to, but

she, sadly has lost interest. Not her fault, her body has betrayed her. Her nerve endings do not sent signals to the pleasure center in her brain. Physical problem, but it's pretty much put the kabosh on anything. Hence my presence here.

 

[techiedude71]

Sadly, my former wife really struggled with sex. She changed the moment we were married. From being a passionate girlfriend she became a prude and took almost more than a decade before she would wear any lingerie. Nothing but vanilla sex in the same positions.. once she became pregnant, she declined all sex whatsoever except to have a 2nd child.

After nearly 20 years, I had to leave her... really quite sad tale.

If you are in a "dead bedroom" marriage and are not satisfied, I recommend you deal with it head on. A slow, steady patience and love does not work if your partner is unwilling to take small steps. I had to learn an expensive life lesson in not abandoning myself... I encourage others to be fast learners.

Wow.. It's like I typed this.. I have given up myself. Just can't leave my kids. They are my everything!

At least I can switch hands from time to time. Thinking about a fleshlight maybe.

I am a very sexual person even at 45, even after 25 years together and almost 20 married. She's a good person and a great mom and wife, but we haven't even made out in 10 years and sex for her is a chore. She will do it, but sometimes I would rather jerk off.

Meh. I still dig her body and find her sexy but there is no intimacy. No romance. I've tried everything too. Please don't judge me poorly. I am a good man. A good date and a good provider. Spend all my time with her and the kids. I just can't leave.

Is this what they mean by cheating saves a marriage?

 

[Iwantitnowpleas]

My wife tried to act interested for a few years the. Just gave it up. Claims to have no interest. She was physically abused in a previous relationship maybe that is part of it. I do love being with her, we have been good friends since high school.