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[thegothprincess]

I am really interested in plugging myself and then going to work and having a dildo inside of me all day. Does anyone know of a good way to keep a dildo in my ass and/or pussy without it slipping out? Also something very comfortable to wear all day long without it grinding into my crouch. I am at a desk most of the day typing away and just the thought, makes me crazy...

This would need to be very discreet.

 

[sunandshadow]

Ben wa balls, while not exactly a dildo, would probably be the most comfortable for extended vaginal wear. I discommend the smartballs though, get ones which do not have a solid connection between the two balls.

 

[thegothprincess]

always nervous that they are going to go to far up, where I won't be able to push them out. Any other suggestions?

 

[SweetErika]

You'll likely have to train yourself to wear it for many hours. Doing so uses muscles we don't normally use, and obviously you'll want to make sure it's secure and comfortable for many hours before wearing it out.

If you're wearing one in your pussy for any length of time, you'll want to make sure it's made of something that doesn't leech chemicals and won't harbor bacteria. Silicone and stainless steel are pricey, but they're also safe for longer-term wear. Steer clear of jelly, rubber, plastics, and if you're using ben wa-type balls, string/cording; these materials can't be cleaned well and/or are likely to contain chemicals that could irritate you or screw w/ your natural balance enough to cause infection. Sanitize the toy (via dishwasher, boiling or a bleach solution - whatever the manufacturer recommends) daily and make sure your vagina has plenty of time to "breathe" and you watch for signs of infection closely.

You really want something that can be sanitized and won't give off chemicals for anal use, too. Also remember that any time we plug our asses for a while, there's going to be a build up of gas, so you're probably going to want to take the plug out periodically throughout the day.

Comfort and security wise, I'd avoid anything that is large, heavy or has a large base. I have seen some plugs with a thinner, more oval-shaped base, and that kind of thing might nestle between your labia or cheeks better. You might want to wear snugger, heavier panties, too, just in case it does slip out. Experiment at home and see what ends up working best for you.

 

[SweetErika]

always nervous that they are going to go to far up, where I won't be able to push them out. Any other suggestions?

What, the balls? If you have any vaginal muscle tone, you should be able to push them out, no problem. Even if you don't, you should be able to reach in and pull them out while you bear down. The vagina isn't that long, and your cervix will stop anything of any size from going too far up. Even when your cervix is at it's highest (mid-cycle, if you're not on hormonal birth control), you should be able to reach in and touch it with the tips of your fingers, especially when you're sitting on the toilet or squatting. You can develop your muscles with kegel exercises, and the balls will also help develop them over time, so they'll get easier and easier to push out. Can you push a tampon out on pussy power alone? If so, the balls will be no problem.

You DO have to worry about things going up too far your ass and not being able to retrieve them. That's why you'll want a plug with an hourglass kind of shape and good base that fits very securely and is easy enough to remove with a push and tug.

 

[sunandshadow]

Yeah, ben wa balls do not get lost up there. Generally they are heavy and slippery enough that they come out almost too easily. And they are too big to actually go through your cervix. They do make ones one a string with a ring designed to stay permanently outside the body http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2030&utm_source=nextagppc&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=nextagppc but as Erika says these are harder to clean, and the string also might chafe if you wear them for a long time.

 

[Yang4yin]

Most butt-plugs are not designed "correctly" for long-term use. If you're willing to spend the extra money for one of these - or a similar version - you'll be able to keep it inserted without a problem. Look for one with a rectangular or smallish base that won't pinch or spread too much, a long stem to pass through both sphincters, and a large enough bulbous end to "anchor it" in place.

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