Please think before you post.....

[yesYesYEsYES]

I just want to give a word of advice to everyone here, hopefully you will not learn the hard way...as I have.

I went and did something stupid when I came here and posted things I never should have without thinking of the consequences. I feel I've lost a person I care about alot and that has become very dear to me because of this. I truely hope I haven't. But please...take my advice...think very carefully before you post, I know I will.

I've totally enjoyed meeting all of you and wish you all the best in finding what it is you are looking for. I won't be comming back except to check my PM's as there are some I'd like to stay in touch with...take care everyone.

 

[Missingmeds]

You will be seriously missed Yes. I have often enjoyed your posts and I hope that you don't end up losing that person.

But I have to agree with you about what people post. There are times when both good sense and discretion seem to go right out the window. This is something that I find very disturbing in a way. Especially when it involves people posting about meeting other people, not understanding what the consequences might be for that other person.

Best to keep the details of meetings quiet unless it has been agreed to by all the parties involved.

 

[omahaman2]

I just want to give a word of advice to everyone here, hopefully you will not learn the hard way...as I have.

I went and did something stupid when I came here and posted things I never should have without thinking of the consequences. I feel I've lost a person I care about alot and that has become very dear to me because of this. I truely hope I haven't. But please...take my advice...think very carefully before you post, I know I will.

I've totally enjoyed meeting all of you and wish you all the best in finding what it is you are looking for. I won't be comming back except to check my PM's as there are some I'd like to stay in touch with...take care everyone.

Dont go! You are human and a quality of humans is making mistakes. No one is perfect! If your friend knows you, they will know you would never do anything on purpose to hurt them! So, when I ask you to stay, please say

YES! YES! YES!

 

[Cathleen]

Yes, I wish you'd stay too. I wish there was something I could do to help you. You are such a lovely woman.

 

[WantonWitch]

You can't go Yes, you'll be missed too much

We're all human and we all make mistakes, no one's perfect, don't care what they say.
Learn from it and then carry on with your life and Lit, you have friends here who will be sad to see you go, I'm one of them.

So please think again and stay ?

 

[jazey_43]

You will be seriously missed Yes. I have often enjoyed your posts and I hope that you don't end up losing that person.

But I have to agree with you about what people post. There are times when both good sense and discretion seem to go right out the window. This is something that I find very disturbing in a way. Especially when it involves people posting about meeting other people, not understanding what the consequences might be for that other person.

Best to keep the details of meetings quiet unless it has been agreed to by all the parties involved.

You bring up alot of very good points Meds. If details have not been agreed to by BOTH parties....details should not be talked about. It's amazing at how fast one can lose thier privacy with just a few wrong words from someone else. I know from past experiences that I am very careful in what I do and do not post. Theres so much stuff I'd like to say, so many different threads I'd like to play in, but fear of losing my own "personal" space keeps me from doing this. I play much more carefully now, and tend to not trust anyone.

Yes.........I am so sorry to see you go hon, I wish you would reconsider!!!

 

[Quoll]

yes Yes YES stay Stay STAY please Please PLEASE

 

[Denae]

Yes, I also want you to stay. I haven't had a lot of interaction with you, but I read your posts when you happen across them.

I agree with everyone's postings above mine--good advice and you are human. Your friend should understand and you can go from there.

I hate to learn the hard way, but sometimes those lessons stay with me the longest.

I hope you reconsider and stay with us.

If not, I wish you the best away from Lit.

 

[Abner Devereaux]

Everyone is right. I have never spoken to you personally. I know you are very well liked..by what I've read. I hope you don't leave...because I may want to say hello sometime. I said something stupid to someone once...but it all worked out over time. I wish you the best. I feel you should do what's is best for you...your friends will still be here no matter what you decide.