Please describe what DP feels like

[peesweetie]

I expect this to be a short thread... but I'm just interested in any ladies that have enjoyed two or three cocks at once describing what this feels like. My husband and I are talking - FINALLY! - about trying this with a second man. And I'm actually pretty nervous that it won't be worth it...

Please let me know your experience? PM is fine if you don't want to share with an audience. Thanks!

 

[ldlarry52]

I was the guest cock in a DP years ago. If you enjoy anal you will probably like a DP if you are planing on pussy ass DP. If you are wanting two in your pussy Size is important. The husband and I couldn’t both get into his wife’s pussy. We tried no joy. But it was fun trying. Like anything sexual talk about it, be in agreement and use lub

 

[peesweetie]

I was the guest cock in a DP years ago. If you enjoy anal you will probably like a DP if you are planing on pussy ass DP. If you are wanting two in your pussy Size is important. The husband and I couldn’t both get into his wife’s pussy. We tried no joy. But it was fun trying. Like anything sexual talk about it, be in agreement and use lub

Thanks! Yes, my ass and my pussy. We've never been with a third, but my husband is toying with the idea. He really likes the idea of watching another man fuck and cum inside me. Just the idea though, and he would want to fuck me, too. He's got a friend that he trusts, so we'll see. It probably won't happen, but I can hope...

 

[Veeweewee]

Ditto the above, if you like anal, you will love DP! Try it with your husband's cock and a toy first.

It can be awkward at first, getting everybody in the right position and timing between the three of you. But it's next level awesome, not just the feeling of two cocks moving in you (or three, if you're giving head as well ) but the whole extra intimacy etc

 

[Bamamama1990]

I expect this to be a short thread... but I'm just interested in any ladies that have enjoyed two or three cocks at once describing what this feels like. My husband and I are talking - FINALLY! - about trying this with a second man. And I'm actually pretty nervous that it won't be worth it...

Please let me know your experience? PM is fine if you don't want to share with an audience. Thanks!

From experience lol try with toys and your partner first before letting another person enter into the situation. See if you actually find it enjoyable before it’s the real deal

 

[peesweetie]

From experience lol try with toys and your partner first before letting another person enter into the situation. See if you actually find it enjoyable before it’s the real deal

Ditto the above, if you like anal, you will love DP! Try it with your husband's cock and a toy first.

It can be awkward at first, getting everybody in the right position and timing between the three of you. But it's next level awesome, not just the feeling of two cocks moving in you (or three, if you're giving head as well ) but the whole extra intimacy etc

Thanks to both of you. I have enjoyed him in my anus while I toyed my vagina, and I like that 'big' feeling. We could graduate to some kind of strap on to get a better sense... but I think I'm more worried about the emotional impact. Assuming one of your male partners was more your permanent fella, was it awkward for you to express desire for the guest? I think my husband wants that, but he also wants to be included. And huge issue for me, anal requires a lot of patience until I'm really open... do you think that will be a mood killer?

This is all speculative until he talks to his friend, which may never happen. I just want to be as prepared as possible.

 

[georgerb]

It might be a good idea just to have a threesome without the DP to start. Sometimes the goal can overlook the journey to get there.

Get comfortable with a threesome from all of the regular aspects, then start adding more intricate things. A big difference between some handcuffs and being hog tied and suspended.

 

[peesweetie]

It might be a good idea just to have a threesome without the DP to start. Sometimes the goal can overlook the journey to get there.

Get comfortable with a threesome from all of the regular aspects, then start adding more intricate things. A big difference between some handcuffs and being hog tied and suspended.

I think you make a good point, but I'm super worried it's going to be a one time thing if it happens at all. I don't want to miss the chance... but I don't want to ruin future chances either.

Ugh, I don't know what to do? This whole thing just makes me so hot, I can't think rationally!

My pussy has all the power now. I'm merely her puppet.

 

[ldlarry52]

Do a lot of talking about this first so both of you know the others expectations. If you want a DP make sure he knows and is UP for that. One and done may be all you need to satisfy this fantasy or you may want to hook up with this friend a few times to satisfy all aspects of your fantasy. You need to talk so all your fantasy desires are known.

 

[blade_rocknut]

To start; my wife and I are DP curious, as well, but do have done experience with having others in the bedroom. The constantdilemma in bringing in others is the total stranger versus someone you know debate. Each way has its merits. However, if you guys are thinking enjoying someone else's bodily fluids as you describe...you pretty much have to go the trust route.
I echo the advice above, which is to get your feet wet with a threesome first, and develop that requisite level of comfort, because anal demands comfort and relaxation, or you're guaranteed to have a bad time.
Other thing is a lot of anal practice with the hubby, and let him be the backdoor man, because you will have that level of comfort with him. That's our rule; should the situation ever take a turn toward DP. Her ass is reserved for me.

 

[peesweetie]

To start; my wife and I are DP curious, as well, but do have done experience with having others in the bedroom. The constantdilemma in bringing in others is the total stranger versus someone you know debate. Each way has its merits. However, if you guys are thinking enjoying someone else's bodily fluids as you describe...you pretty much have to go the trust route.
I echo the advice above, which is to get your feet wet with a threesome first, and develop that requisite level of comfort, because anal demands comfort and relaxation, or you're guaranteed to have a bad time.
Other thing is a lot of anal practice with the hubby, and let him be the backdoor man, because you will have that level of comfort with him. That's our rule; should the situation ever take a turn toward DP. Her ass is reserved for me.

I’ve been talking to folks privately, and everyone strongly suggested a relaxing, low pressure threesome first. (Is there such a thing?? I’m going to be giggling like a fucking idiot). But it’s advice I’m going to take. Thanks everyone for being so supportive.

 

[Dangerous_Curves27]

To start; my wife and I are DP curious, as well, but do have done experience with having others in the bedroom. The constantdilemma in bringing in others is the total stranger versus someone you know debate. Each way has its merits. However, if you guys are thinking enjoying someone else's bodily fluids as you describe...you pretty much have to go the trust route.
I echo the advice above, which is to get your feet wet with a threesome first, and develop that requisite level of comfort, because anal demands comfort and relaxation, or you're guaranteed to have a bad time.
Other thing is a lot of anal practice with the hubby, and let him be the backdoor man, because you will have that level of comfort with him. That's our rule; should the situation ever take a turn toward DP. Her ass is reserved for me.

We’re that way when we bring in someone else, my ass is just for my SO. I haven’t had an actual DP, yet. Just used a toy in my ass while he fucked me.

 

[sub2femdom]

I think you make a good point, but I'm super worried it's going to be a one time thing if it happens at all. I don't want to miss the chance... but I don't want to ruin future chances either.

Ugh, I don't know what to do? This whole thing just makes me so hot, I can't think rationally!

My pussy has all the power now. I'm merely her puppet.

You really need to talk with your man about this.. these are the types of details that make or break successful sharing. If he wants to see you with someone else then he needs to understand what that really means... He will watch you being pleasured, and watch your pleasure happen. Believe me, I'm very experienced in this and it is a very difficult mixture of feelings for the man to process. I get that he wants to be a part of it, and that's a good thing. But what does he want to get out of it? What fantasies of his are being fulfilled by this, other than seeing you with another man?

You need to tell him every one of your concerns, and include the why. If you aren't completely as open with him as you've been here, then you won't have as good of a time (or repeats) as you could.