Please call and fuck me silly.

[cutie pie]

For those of you who participate in phone sex, how do you go about getting it? Do you have a roster of partners? If you're approaching someone new, do you jump right in? Or do you need a few warm up calls first?

I know this has all been done before. But, a friend and I were chatting about this last night and were wondering what the best approach would be to use.

If I wanted to proposition you for phone sex, what approach would work best?

Inquiring minds want to know.

 

[Ezarc]

With most guys, just asking is enough warm up. We are just that shallow. If you ask most guys that are unattatched would say yes.
Take Care and Lust Always,
Ezarc

 

[metal_minx]

For those of you who participate in phone sex, how do you go about getting it? Do you have a roster of partners? If you're approaching someone new, do you jump right in? Or do you need a few warm up calls first?

I know this has all been done before. But, a friend and I were chatting about this last night and were wondering what the best approach would be to use.

If I wanted to proposition you for phone sex, what approach would work best?

Inquiring minds want to know.

well most of the time i get propostioned...i chat w/ the person, cyber them ususally, then we talk on the phone a bit before getting to it...i have a pretty regular roster of partners and i dont really go looking but if i happen to find someone i have some chemistry with i go for it...if i make the first move they ususally follow along nicely...only once i've been turned down *sigh* by a guy i really liked who wasnt into it

 

[Georgia Girl]

Pardon me, I was just stopping in to perv on your breasts, so so lucious.

If it is someone that you have cybered with tell them you prefer phone (I love the sounds).

At times I can be totally tactless but there is something to be said for being straightforward as well.

Dawn

 

[QuickDuck]

Personally, I never take it for granted that a phonecall to someone will lead to sex, no matter how the question is asked or the conversation beforehand.

I ask if i can call the person (saving them money on the phonecall *lol*) and ring with the intention of chatting.

From there, if it happens, then it happens... but it definately is not expected.

I guess it comes back to my real life shyness and lack of confidence in myself at times.

/wave
QuickDuck

 

[cybergirly]

Personally, I never take it for granted that a phonecall to someone will lead to sex, no matter how the question is asked or the conversation beforehand.

I ask if i can call the person (saving them money on the phonecall *lol*) and ring with the intention of chatting.

From there, if it happens, then it happens... but it definately is not expected.

I guess it comes back to my real life shyness and lack of confidence in myself at times.

/wave
QuickDuck

That's a wonderful approach! If it's gonna happend I prefer that it happen naturally. I don't want to feel pressured.

 

[QuickDuck]

That's a wonderful approach! If it's gonna happend I prefer that it happen naturally. I don't want to feel pressured.

Well thats definately part of the plan as well.

 

[cutie pie]

With most guys, just asking is enough warm up. We are just that shallow. If you ask most guys that are unattatched would say yes.
Take Care and Lust Always,
Ezarc

So. . .if I've never interacted with an unattached male, and I'd like to have phone sex with him. . .all I have to do is ask? Interesting. I may need to test this method.

 

[Georgia Girl]

So. . .if I've never interacted with an unattached male, and I'd like to have phone sex with him. . .all I have to do is ask? Interesting. I may need to test this method.

What if it were a female who was unattached and had a skill for creating certain stirrings within you. Would you ask?

 

[Nigel]

I think it's kind of an organic progression - conversation on the boards leads to PMs...which lead to chat...which will, if all goes well, lead to a phone call. And if it happens during that aphone call, great....there's a certain flow of conversation and "testing of the waters", so to speak that happens....

At least that's what usually happens for me....

 

[cutie pie]

What if it were a female who was unattached and had a skill for creating certain stirrings within you. Would you ask?

In all honesty. . .I rarely, if ever, instigate conversation off the boards. When I do instigate, it's usually in a non-sexual manner. So, to answer your question. . .I may approach her (or him, as the case may be), but it would only be to test the waters, not ask for anything specific.

Would you, Dawn?

 

[Vilac]

Would you, Dawn?

I'm guessing she would. lol

And...I have to say the direct method usually is the most effective. Although I'm not a fan of phone sex in general, I find that honesty and being straightforward usually does the trick.

V~

 

[Rambrat]

It is rare that I do...actually I have never had phone sex with anyone here.

But I imagine I wouldn't jump right into a sexual conversation. We would be talking...getting to know each other...some innuendoes...


you know...I got to like the person...I'm not into jerking off at anothers expense...

 

[PepperminTrish]

I've only had one sex phone partner and we already had quite a connection. We'd spoken several times and 'danced' around the whole thing. He didn't want to feel like he was pushing the idea of it onto me. I finally just said that I wanted to change the direction of the conversation and we took it from there. Now we're at the point I can tell him to just stop talking and fuck me.

 

[trex18]

I've had phone sex a few times. Only once though have I been called especially for sex. Mostly its just talking, flirting, and then eventually leading to sex. That appears to be the norm I guess. If you do decide to do anything cutie pie, make sure its on your own terms.

trex

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I think it's kind of an organic progression - conversation on the boards leads to PMs...which lead to chat...which will, if all goes well, lead to a phone call.

Ummm was something missing from our phone call. lol

 

[sabbathstorm]

I've only had phone sex with one person and they weren't from this board. We met on another site and exchanged a few emails over some time. We were teasing each other online one night and he more or less dared me to call. I did and was not disappointed!

Usually I like to talk to someone a bit first, whether it be online or on the phone. Best way to get it is to ask

 

[Carl East]

It's only happened to me once, and a very memorable once it was too. As to the question, I think just asking out right is the way to go.

Carl

 

[cutie pie]

<snip>...actually I have never had phone sex with anyone here.

we gotta pop that phone sex cherry. . .and soon. . .

 

[trex18]

we gotta pop that phone sex cherry. . .and soon. . .

LOL, way to be cutie pie.

 

[Todd-'o'-Vision]

If I wanted to proposition you for phone sex, what approach would work best?

Private message me and ask for my phone number

 

[Georgia Girl]

In all honesty. . .I rarely, if ever, instigate conversation off the boards. When I do instigate, it's usually in a non-sexual manner. So, to answer your question. . .I may approach her (or him, as the case may be), but it would only be to test the waters, not ask for anything specific.

Would you, Dawn?

I love to talk to people, learning from them so I do initiate conversations quite often.

I don't normally just pounce on people with demands though, normally it is more vague than that. Somewhat like a wandering pathway, one thing leading to another.

Realistically looking at it, with cyber you get to read about the touch and imagine what your partner is feeling while with phone you can hear it, hear the changes in their voice, the escalation in breathing, and the excitement.

To answer the question, yes I would.

Vilac ~~ you are due a spanking.

Dawn

 

[Vilac]

Vilac ~~ you are due a spanking.

Ahhh...I'm due to give or receive? The giving I have no problem with.......



V~

 

[Georgia Girl]

Ahhh...I'm due to give or receive? The giving I have no problem with.......



V~

Where would you like me?

 

[teddybear4play]

The two times I've had phone sex just developed out of a normal phone call.

Just like it sounds silly to just blurt out and ask someone if they want to have sex with you, it's also kinda weird to just blurt out to someone that you want to phone-phuck them.

Best bet is to just roll with the conversation. It's harder to judge reaction over the phone than real life because you don't have body language or eye contact. But if you hit a point where the other person feels uncomfortable, they'll let you know.

TB4p