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poppy1963 said:
Hello Playgrounders! As a relative noob, I have some questions...and some regrets for my misunderstandings of things.

Literotica is a site that caters to those who seek...the erotic. LOL. Yet, to my utter misunderstanding, there seem to be places here that don't like that. LOL!

Why would people make a place here and then kind of shun the idea of the site? Or perhaps it's just my style...I tend to be flamboyant more and more.

I think I lost some buds tonight because of that...or maybe I'm just overreacting. I don't know because they won't tell me their hearts...silence is the way so far and it's been some hours.

Thoughts? Comments? Ideas?

I am old enough to know better but still have many lessons ahead of me...and so I ask for counsel.

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Question #1. . .Did you post in the General Board forum?
 
RedHairedandFriendly said:
Question #1. . .Did you post in the General Board forum?
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LOL...nope. I learned my lesson there early on. :) I tend to avoid that...unless there is a thing I must MUST respond to...which is infrequent. :)
 
RedHairedandFriendly said:
*chuckles* ;) :kiss: *thinks to self... if I suck on a popsicle, could I volunteer to be a cold shower*
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You look like you're thinking over there Red, care to share your thoughts? ;) :p
 
I wanna watch you, RED with that popsicle!

Poppy, depending on where you are, there are many mean spirits on the forum. As above, were you on the GB? The PG is a happier place. Hope you enjoy your time here! :)
 
poppy1963 said:
Hello Playgrounders! As a relative noob, I have some questions...and some regrets for my misunderstandings of things.

Literotica is a site that caters to those who seek...the erotic. LOL. Yet, to my utter misunderstanding, there seem to be places here that don't like that. LOL!

Why would people make a place here and then kind of shun the idea of the site? Or perhaps it's just my style...I tend to be flamboyant more and more.

I think I lost some buds tonight because of that...or maybe I'm just overreacting. I don't know because they won't tell me their hearts...silence is the way so far and it's been some hours.

Thoughts? Comments? Ideas?

I am old enough to know better but still have many lessons ahead of me...and so I ask for counsel.

:rose:
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Most on here do enjoy erotica, just at varying levels, least it seems like that to me. Secondly, I'd give it a day or two, I know from experience, its easy to over react with friends on this site LOL, third, if they don't come around, don't sweat it, they were not meant to be your friends, there are plenty of others around here
 
limiwa said:
I wanna watch you, RED with that popsicle!

Poppy, depending on where you are, there are many mean spirits on the forum. As above, were you on the GB? The PG is a happier place. Hope you enjoy your time here! :)
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Thank you, limiwa. These are not mean spirits by any sense and a place that's well established. Perhaps there in lies the key...when someone new comes into the mix, after the "honeymoon", the realities become more clear. The relationships are complex and longstanding...and I played a vixen too much I think. Bad Poppy...lol. But I was sincere.
 
poppy1963 said:
LOL...nope. I learned my lesson there early on. :) I tend to avoid that...unless there is a thing I must MUST respond to...which is infrequent. :)
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Oh okay (puts paddle away)

Some folks get burrs up thier... I mean in their... I mean... they sit on a tack and it hurts, so they feel it is okay to hurt others. :kiss: :rose: If you lost a friend because of posting here, then please ask yourself. . . where they your friend?
 
jushorny said:
Most on here do enjoy erotica, just at varying levels, least it seems like that to me. Secondly, I'd give it a day or two, I know from experience, its easy to over react with friends on this site LOL, third, if they don't come around, don't sweat it, they were not meant to be your friends, there are plenty of others around here
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Sounds good counsel to me, jushorny. I may be overreacting in a very self-centered way. I know some issues started way before my time here. But still...I'm sad...as these are valuable new buds to me. In so many ways. I'll just sit tight and see how things unfold. *sighs*
 
poppy1963 said:
Thank you, limiwa. These are not mean spirits by any sense and a place that's well established. Perhaps there in lies the key...when someone new comes into the mix, after the "honeymoon", the realities become more clear. The relationships are complex and longstanding...and I played a vixen too much I think. Bad Poppy...lol. But I was sincere.
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No, not bad Poppy. Sad for the others, not understanding or making things too real. It's Literotica not Literally. (Did I spell that right?) Bad limi, can't spell!
 
RedHairedandFriendly said:
Oh okay (puts paddle away)

Some folks get burrs up thier... I mean in their... I mean... they sit on a tack and it hurts, so they feel it is okay to hurt others. :kiss: :rose: If you lost a friend because of posting here, then please ask yourself. . . where they your friend?
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LOL...the paddle thing cracks me up...:)

You're right...if it's not a good mix, it's not a good mix. I need to relax and see what happens...thanks to all who responded. I was feeling so forlorn. You know when things go awry and you're not sure why or if you made it so in some way.

Eh...lol. Life is life no matter where you go. :) :( :confused:
 
limiwa said:
No, not bad Poppy. Sad for the others, not understanding or making things too real. It's Literotica not Literally. (Did I spell that right?) Bad limi, can't spell!
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Watch out...I can become a fierce Spelling Nazi...lol.

I know...it's supposed to be a fun place...to explore new things...right? "Supposed to be"...why haven't I learned the folly of such words. :)

Perhaps I'm taking things a bit too literally as well. Again, thanks for your attention. I feel better now...not so...uncertain.
 
poppy1963 said:
LOL...the paddle thing cracks me up...:)

You're right...if it's not a good mix, it's not a good mix. I need to relax and see what happens...thanks to all who responded. I was feeling so forlorn. You know when things go awry and you're not sure why or if you made it so in some way.

Eh...lol. Life is life no matter where you go. :) :( :confused:
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Lit life can be more real like than one would assume, but usually its all good :D
 
poppy1963 said:
LOL...the paddle thing cracks me up...:)

You're right...if it's not a good mix, it's not a good mix. I need to relax and see what happens...thanks to all who responded. I was feeling so forlorn. You know when things go awry and you're not sure why or if you made it so in some way.

Eh...lol. Life is life no matter where you go. :) :( :confused:
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I have this same problem. .. I don't want to cause strife or offend... ask Jus, he knows this is a big issue for me and there are many times he has to remind me I'm overanalyzing again. :rose:
 
jushorny said:
Lit life can be more real like than one would assume, but usually its all good :D
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I think that's very true...and in part why it's so compelling. Phew!
 
poppy1963 said:
Watch out...I can become a fierce Spelling Nazi...lol.

I know...it's supposed to be a fun place...to explore new things...right? "Supposed to be"...why haven't I learned the folly of such words. :)

Perhaps I'm taking things a bit too literally as well. Again, thanks for your attention. I feel better now...not so...uncertain.
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Spelling Nazi or no, I hope you have smiled atleast once in the past 20 minutes. :)
 
RedHairedandFriendly said:
I have this same problem. .. I don't want to cause strife or offend... ask Jus, he knows this is a big issue for me and there are many times he has to remind me I'm overanalyzing again. :rose:
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Makes me laugh...In trying to get clarity of perspective tonight in a humorous way I said to someone:

Don't you know that I am the Queen of the Universe and everything revolves around what I say and do...LOL. But still...my worries lingered that I went too far...and perhaps I did but not so far as to stir up this much strife! So...I leave this issue and will just wait and see what happens. The most disturbing thing is few respond to my questions about what's happening and how much responsiblitily I hold for the discord. :(

Doh..I still obsess...LOL!!!!! NO MORE! Done. :catroar:
 
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