Planning for some sex?

[TonyG]

Ok, it's common belief that most men go for sex at the drop of a dime and most women do not. But, according to Stuff magazine (part of Maxim) when sex is planned for an upcoming time it's the men who are better at it than women. Men's plans rarely go awry while women's usually get interrupted or never get started. The reason is that women think too much of the romantic details while men think of the actual details.

What's your opinion? The last time you/your's planned a sex event did it happen or not?


These opinions are not mine so don't yell at me.

 

[Ambrosious]

I'm going to get you a subscription to something other than Maxim.

The only time I plan on sex, is when were trying to make the kid. She has to. HAHAHAHAHA!

 

[Juliangel]

Ok this may be only true in my house not everyone elses so no flaming ok.

In my house when I make plans yes they often get interrupted because I am in charge of everything in the house and have to take care of things when they come up, even if it interrupts my plans.

When my husband makes plans the house could fall down around us and he wouldn't care at all.

 

[Ambrosious]

Juliangel

Seems fair to me.

<ducking>

 

[Countess DeWinter]

I don't like to plan sex, but the way our lives go, if we don't, sometimes I don't get any. Oddly enough, planned sex is not as good as when he bends me over the computer chair, pulls my pants down and rides me right before he has to leave for work. Don't know if he planned to have sex tonight, but we're gonna...if I have to tackle him and rape him!

 

[Scott Montgomery]

I could have sex right now, but I know my wife wouldn't. BUT, there have been times when she surprised me, like when she vistited me at work and we hade sex in my back room....

I dont think we have planned sex, except maybe when she'll say to me: "baby, lets fuck tongiht" and I'm like "ok"...and then we have sex. Ummm, I am not sure if I contributed to this thread but, yeah. Sex rocks!

 

[teresafannin]

I have planned sex & it has always worked out well for us. Due to several things, we are only together on the weekends. Due to family, job, etc, it sometimes takes planning for us to have a romantic evening. I have the day off today. I cleaned my little house, bought everything to make his favorite meal & got out my sexiest undies. Once he gets over here, we are not leaving until tomorrow morning. In our case, I am the better planner. I have a more detail oriented mind & am very organized, right down to the candles.

 

[Thumper]

Every Time!

When I try to plan sex my wife throws a monkey wrench into the works..

She makes me stay home...

then I have to spank the monkey wrench.

 

[Siren]

Hahaha Thumpie you are so bad !!!

 

[teresafannin]

I am in a pouty, whiny mood. My sweetie has to work late tonight, so much for plans I made. I shouldn't complain since he hardly ever works nights & this is a very important client. I guess I will save dinner & the sexy undies for tomorrow night. What is it they say about the best laid plans.....? What are we drinking tonight?

 

[romanticgal]

My husband and I plan romantic evenings for each other on a fairly regular basis. For his birthday a few months ago I planned something I knew he wanted but neither of us had ever done. I had very elaborate plans that I didn't follow through with. We went through with the actually event and it was great! But now looking back it would have been even better if I had overcome my nervousness and followed through with the plans.

 

[*Jennifer-In-Flares*]

dont plan it just do it. plans are for picnics not sex *jenny*

 

[cheekyminx]

ok I live by a rule....plans are good, especially when both of you lead busy lives....*grins wickedly*....but surprises are better!!

 

[*Jennifer-In-Flares*]

ok I live by a rule....plans are good, especially when both of you lead busy lives....*grins wickedly*....but surprises are better!!

the best sex is when you think you're getting ready for work but you end up with your panties at your ankles, your lipstick smeared across your cheek and your boss phoning up, wondering where you've been the last 4 hours.

 

[KillerMuffin]

We planned some sex. I dwelled on it all day and stressed myself out over it and fucked everything up. I got bitchy and he didn't get turned on. What can I say, he's not able to overcome my moodiness, and I was really bitchy.

 

[*Jennifer-In-Flares*]

dont be hard on yourself honey. maybe you were bitchy cause you didn't really feel like doing it today. it's like i say..... these things are better when you don't plan them. if you feel like it in the morning why dontcha give him breakfast in bed? *jenny*

 

[wild_jay]

I never 'plan' sex, I just try to arrange the circumstances where it is likely to happen.

That way, it's spontaneous...or is it? She'll never know and that's the secret.

P.S. Doesn't always work, but when it does, WOW!

 

[M]

My wife really has to plan to have sex with me ----- like going to the bedroom !! Well any where really !!! well to be truthfull just stay in the room for more than a couple of minutes after I wink at her.

 

[CRaZy]

Panned sex - good grief!!!

Plan sex with Panadolboy? Give him time to THINK about getting a headache? Put all that pressure on him? Good God no!!! If Panadolboy even THINKS he might be forced to service me that is the end of it. The only answer is a surprise attack, usually very late at night when he's too inarticulate to mutter about headaches and reach for the analgesics. If he came in the bedroom and found candles or me in sexy undies or well...anything that hinted at sex really, he might run away and never come back. Then who'd feed the bloody cats and put out the garbage?

 

[Stormy]

planned sex is ok......

...especially when my schedule is so hectic. But, I am awaiting the day that planning sex is history.