pissing to order

[pandoravampire]

Hello peeps, a quick question:
tips for overcoming my dilema.....
want to piss, bursting to piss, but cant? I go into urinary retention and no amount of more fluid helps.
Im not worried about doing this, im not worried about the piss on the furniture aspect and its soooo annoying that my body wont let me do this.

Tried so far; drinking gallons of water so that i feel im bursting- until he's outta there, i cant.
Relaxing: still nothing

But get him to withdraw his cock and sit me on the loo, even with him watching and viola! grrrrrr.

I want to be able to pee whilst he's inside me, not much to ask is it?

suggestions other than drink loads and try to relax would be appreciated?

edited to say, yes, ive checked the library threads allready.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Can't offer any wisdom except relax, self talk for as long as it takes, and most of all accepting it might take some time. Seems once you accept that, take the pressure off, it is easier to achieve the final goal. Mostly I think it is a matter of deprogramming all those subconscious messages burned into our brains over a lifetime lived. Good luck.

Catalina

 

[dolf]

perhaps the pressure is squashing the tube shut? have you tried putting all the pressure back towards the anus?
just a thought
xx

 

[snowy ciara]

Eek.. Pissing on command.

As for him pulling out and setting you on the stool, no ideas here. On one hand, my first thought was no problem, as I've been doing sports related drug tests for YEARS. So I can usually pee in a cup in front of anyone female. But then again, it's a whole 'nother ball game when it's messing around with a lover or PYL.

As for the other, going while you're going at it. It seems if you're doing missionary position type stuff, his body is going to be working against you. Pushing up and squishing your urethra. Maybe you need to be on top, so you can lean back and let it go. Er, flow. Or maybe you need to be going at it from the other direction. Doggy style; that way, if his body parts are pressing upwards it won't be squishing your urethra. Like what Dolf said.

Which leads to another question. PYLs, those of you into watersports, how do you encourage elimination?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Perhaps trying what worked for me might help...sit astride him on the loo, and then try.

Catalina

 

[Etoile]

Eek.. Pissing on command.
[ ... ]
Which leads to another question. PYLs, those of you into watersports, how do you encourage elimination?

*raises hand*

From our very first days together, Daddy trained me to piss into a cup. It took many, many sessions, building up in steps. First, I was allowed to do it behind a chair, so Daddy couldn't see. Eventually I worked my way up to letting em hold the cup, but it took a long time; now I can piss just about anywhere, anytime, as long as I have a cup or can squat on the ground. (Well, assuming I'm fully hydrated, but I frequently forget to drink enough.)

It's a matter of changing your mindset, I think. When we're potty trained as children, we learn to pee alone (when we're old enough) and always, always into a toilet. It is DAMN hard to break that mindset, but it is possible. I would think that pissing into the toilet while sitting on his cock would be the same way (though this is not something I've had to try). You have to get around the inability to associate piss and sex. As long as there's not a biological barrier (urethra being compressed, as was mentioned), it should be possible...but I suspect your block IS a mental one at this point. I like Catalina's idea of sitting astride him, facing away, but another idea is to remain standing, bent over, and direct your piss into the bowl. (Yes, like a guy!) This does take some practice, but it is possible. I actually used to do this when I was a kid in the shower! I would aim for the drain hole and I got pretty good at it. That's a good way to practice if you want to try that.

I'm curious, pandoravampire, why do you want to do this? Is it something he suggested for you, or is this a fantasy of your own?

My only experience with pissing during sex was while I was on my back being fucked. I had to pee, and Daddy wouldn't let me go. E didn't try to fuck me while I was doing it, but I wasn't allowed up to get my cup. E had already put the vinyl sheets down on the bed, and e told me to just do it right there. E then continued to fuck me in the puddle of piss. It was fun!

 

[Arles]

I think Etoile is right about your having to reorient your mindset--almost like potty re-training for some. Baby steps ... baby steps!

With my last pyl, for instance, it was a long, slow process that began just with having her keep the door open when she took a piss. That was hard enough for her to manage.

 

[CasperTG]

If it's mental, you're going to have to work up to it slowly. You say that as soon as he takes his cock out, you can piss all you like? Well next time that happens, keep pissing and let him try and enter you again - see if that works.
Otherwise, a bit of trial and error might help to get to the root of the mental problem. Can you piss with a dildo or finger inside you? That would suggest the problem is a definite mental thing about him being inside you. Otherwise, it could be a physical obstruction like the urethra being compressed.

Oh - and stop thinking about it! The more we try and try and try to do something sexual, the harder it gets to do!

Good luck,
CasperTG

 

[sigsauerprinces]

i would say practice alone, over the toilet, with a dildo inside you...practice that until you're good at it and can go no problem with the dildo inside...then when its time to piss with his cock inside, close your eyes and pretend you're alone, with the dildo inside you.

good luck tis something i wan to be able to do too...

 

[Lloyd2004]

I hope you have success, I love pissing and that is so lovely!
Good luck
Lloyd

 

[KramB]

Guys Pissing in Gals??

Haven't seen a lot of chat on guys pissing in gals during sex. I would like to do that to my wife, but we're not sure if there are any "health" issues. Anybody done that? I'd love to get her bent over in the shower with that hot water spraying over us. Then place my cock into her and fuck her til she starts to cum then just let loose with my built up pressurized piss flooding her insides... Doable?

 

[LadyNatasha]

Re: Guys Pissing in Gals??

Haven't seen a lot of chat on guys pissing in gals during sex. I would like to do that to my wife, but we're not sure if there are any "health" issues. Anybody done that? I'd love to get her bent over in the shower with that hot water spraying over us. Then place my cock into her and fuck her til she starts to cum then just let loose with my built up pressurized piss flooding her insides... Doable?

Feels fabulous. I haven't heard of any related health issues, but that doesn't mean none are out there. Hasn't affected Me adversely, however.

 

[Lloyd2004]

Re: Guys Pissing in Gals??

Haven't seen a lot of chat on guys pissing in gals during sex. I would like to do that to my wife, but we're not sure if there are any "health" issues. Anybody done that? I'd love to get her bent over in the shower with that hot water spraying over us. Then place my cock into her and fuck her til she starts to cum then just let loose with my built up pressurized piss flooding her insides... Doable?

Check out "Peeing" pinkstarfish is an expert on this topic!
Lloyd
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=10848164

 

[AvaAdore]

A great way to pee during sex without getting all worked up over it: sneeze while being fucked really hard.


Yea... that was unintentional. Most embarrassing moment during sex? yea...