Pierced Nipples

[Guest]

Hey, I was hoping I could get some advice. I'm 18, female, and just started going out with a really conserative guy. He realized today (our second date) that I have my tongue pierced, and he was very...suprised. He said he "doesn't like piercings in general, but it looks cute". The thing I am worried about is I just got my nipples pierced, and afraid he will get really freaked out when he sees them.
I'm not into tons of piercings and pain or anything, I just think nipple rings are the cutest, so I just had to do it. And my tongue ring..well...they usually explain themselves So I was just wondering, # 1, if I should take them out for our dates? I would still keep them pierced, just not have rings in when I see him. And #2 would you be turned on or freaked out if your partner had their nipples pierced? Thanks in advance for your advice!

 

[dancinvixen]

Don't take them out. If he freaks, oh well. His loss.

 

[Maniac]

Hey, if he doesn't like it then move onto someone who does. That's apart of you and he should except you for who you are piercings and all.

#2 I think nipple piercings are damn sexy. They would definetly turn me on if my girl had hers done.

 

[morgainefairy]

yup. i think that's the general consensus,huh?
don't ever, ever be someone other than yourself for somebody. there is a person out there who will love you and just eat you all up. yummy.

and to think-- you will do it w/o trying!

 

[ShyGuy68]

Hi

If he don't like your piercings, it's his problem, at least in my opinion.

And I find nipple piercings EXTREMLY sexy!! Hope to meet a woman with it some day!


ShyGuy

 

[Sonora]

Gotta agree with everybody else

a month ago I was debating about getting my eyebrow done. I knew that I liked it and wanted to do it, but I was nervous about what others would think of me. People in here convinced me that it didn't matter and that if I liked it, I should do it. Well, I did and I love it!! I'm thinking of getting more and my nipple will probably be one that I get. I think that it's a total turn on.

How to approach the subject with the conservative boyfriend?? I'm not sure what tho tell you about that (do you let him find out on his own or tell him aheaad of time?--I don't know), but are you sure that he's as conservative as you think he is?? People that I know thought the same about me; that I was the last person that would be getting a body piercing. He may surprise you!

 

[Gingersnap]

Man all I can say is OUCH!! It has to hurt or is that part of the piercing thing.

 

[Guest]

Jstagrl - you should maybe try and find a way of telling him first, or at least find out what his attitudes really are. That's probably better than trying to conceal your piercings or him just finding out for the first time when he sees them.

You might find that he's been conditioned, by his family or whoever, into thinking he doesn't like piercings but he might change his mind when he realises you've got them.


Gingersnap - haha. Shouldn't you be at work, naughty girl?

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Endorphin Rush

well my b/f has both his nipples and his tongue pierced .. i love it and so does he .. endorphin rush he calls it .. lmao .. in fact our first date was coincidentally on the same evening he got his nipples pierced and he was just bouncing off the walls ..

but i don't think you can take your nipple piercings out and put them back whenever you want .. the piercings will grow over .. surely they must have told you that when you got them done.

 

[Expertise]

Hi. I guess i'm a little indifferent on nipple rings. They are kinda neat I guess. Facial piercings with the exception of the nose look kinda' silly. But a navel piercing with a small gold hoop.... OH MY GOD! I love em', love 'em, love 'em

 

[SeXy ReDHeD]

Jstagrl--

I've had my nipples pierced for about a year and a half, and even now if I were to take them out, they'd be closed after about half an hour.

If you really like him, and are WILLING to make that kind of a compromise to be with him, then just take them out. If, on the other hand, you don't think you guys are going anywhere, and that he's going to end up being too conservative for you, you might as well tell him now and see how he reacts or just break it off and not even bother with it.

In any case, though, I don't think you should just let him "find" out. He may say something out of surprise or whatever that could be interpreted as mean, and in that situation (getting it on) you could end up really hurt... you could feel rejected, if you know what I mean.

Trust me, I have learned from experience.

 

[jaylips69]

Tell him on Jerry Springer

You could go on Jerry Springer and show him your pierced nipples for the first time. I am sure he would go for that.

Just kidding.

I would hope he would want you and not worry about them, but I definitely would agree that you should let him know up front.

 

[Skitten]

Who's body is it yours or his? don't remove something that you like if he doesn't that is his loss. He can either get over it or move on. It is his own insecurity you are secure with yourself as a person.

Don't worry what other think as long as you are happy with yourself that whould be all that matters. Don't let others influence your decisions. You know what is right for you.

And if you let him tell you what to do now he will think he will always be able to tell you what to do, what to wear, and what to think. So be yourself and leave them in and be yourself and be happy.

 

[Rosebud]

Don't remove them...shit it is not like you run around with your shirt off...Do you? That would be a stupid reason for someone to not like you.

 

[Sonora]

Question for Jstagrl and SeXy ReDHeD

If you don't mind me getting a little personal--it's just that I'm thinking about getting mine done.....I've been wondering if your nipple rings can be seen through your clothing? I guess what I want to know is will everybody know that I have them? Does it depend on how tight/loose the clothing is? Is it the same with or without a bra? What if your nipples are erect, do the rings show through?

Thanks for indulging me a little.

 

[Angelique]

Ok, I fucked up...ignore this post.

 

[Golden]

you leave them in and you are being yourself; you take them out and you are trying to be the woman you think he wants you to be. The first is strong and safe territory, the second is real dangerous shit. No contest, eh?

 

[asphaltangel]

Personally I wonder why your with this guy at all?

I would think you would have known enough about him and his

likes and dislikes before you agreed to go out with him.

If he is that conservative you would be better off with someone who you know likes the same things you do.

I have both my nipples pierced and my inner labia. And no

I am not into pain or self torture. I am a professional

woman and I don't think that has anything do with it either.

I think(just my opinion) that body modifications of any kind weather it be piercings or tatoos. If it done tastefully it is all SEXY and enhances that person.

I have been with other people sexually besides my husband and not only does he love to see peoples reactions to them but usually it a real turn on for them.

Asphaltangel

 

[Guest]

Well........he likes them! We were in his apartment watching Strangeland (perfect movie, the main character has tons of piercings)and we just started talking...so I brought it up, showed him, and he was practically drooling! Hehe, I just had to share the good news. Thanks to everyone who posted, I'm really really glad that I didn't take them out, or break up with him. It's definitely a fun point in our relationship.


And for Sonora....
I would definitely recommend getting your nipples pierced. As for pain...it hurts for the 3 seconds it takes for the needle to go through, and then it's over. It was sore to touch for the first day, but now it's fine. By the second day I was already playing with it and showing people, hehe.
The rest of your questions.....people can only see the ring if you want them to. If you're wearing a padded bra or a sweater then it's pretty unlikely someone would see the ring. But if you're not wearing a bra, or a thin t-shirt, it is pretty easy to see. Now that I got them pierced, my nipples are constantly erect, so that isn't really a variable when it comes to seeing the rings. The only awkward part of the piercing was walking into the room and having the scary tatooed guy tell me to take off my shirt and play with my nipples to make them hard. Lol, but it was over soon enough. It's a very unique feeling, and now I know that I'll never ever take them out for someone else..

 

[Carl East]

And for Sonora....
I would definitely recommend getting your nipples pierced. As for pain...it hurts for the 3 seconds it takes for the needle to go through, and then it's over.

God I whinced when I read that, but it wasn't the most tender spot I've seen it performed on, I also witnessed it done on a woman's pussy lips. Now that's got to make one jump.LOL

Carl.

 

[Sonora]

Hey that's great news that he liked them. I'm really happy for you. Not so much that he liked them but for what you found out about yourself.
"I know that I'll never ever take them out for someone else.."


"having the scary tatooed guy tell me to take off my shirt and play with my nipples to make them hard."
What, you couldn't get him to do it for you?? LOL

Thanks for the other answers. That's pretty much what I thought about being able to see, but I don't usually go around looking at women's breasts...well, not THAT closely anyway!

ROTFL at Carl.

 

[Thumper]

..a bit nipply in here...

Holy shit!!!

I been thinkin' about a career change...

That's what I wanna do....I wanna be the nipple erector at the tattoo/piercing establishment....

How 'bout it, any youse ladies want to help me with my vocational training?

*my luck the first client will be a 297 pound hairy longshoreman wanting to "do something wacky"*

 

[Sonora]

LOL Hey Thumper, I'll let you know when I get up the nerve to get mine done. (I'm gonna do, just have to prepare.) And I guarantee you that I'm NOT a 297 pound longshoreman! (And after I get my Nad's, I won't be hairy anymore. )

 

[Mensa]

For pity's sake don't visualize it

A question. Do women who have pierced whatever, have them removed at some point?

I keep seeing a 80 year-old woman with pierced nipples hanging to her knees. It's not a pretty sight!!

Boy tells his friend that his grampa has a hummingbird tattooed on his chest. Little does he know that fifty years ago it was a bald eagle.

OMG how am I going to get those pictures out of my mind!!LOL

 

[Sonora]

Re: For pity's sake don't visualize it

A question. Do women who have pierced whatever, have them removed at some point?

I keep seeing a 80 year-old woman with pierced nipples hanging to her knees. It's not a pretty sight!!

See, that's the beauty of it! We'll just throw a chain around our necks, like for eyeglasses, only we'll hook the ends through our nipple rings. Voila, no drooping!!