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I'm just curious about the phonesex. My boyfriend has just taken a job out of state and has suggested this as a option for those lonely nights. I've never done it.
have you?
have you?
I admit it...I have. I think it can be enjoyable if you know there person on the other end of the phone. Then it is easy to imagine what they are doing..are what could be happening.
While I much prefer the real thing...it was erotic knowing that the woman on the other end was masturbating because of what I was saying or how I was reacting.
I say give it a try. If you don't like it...don't bother. WHo knows...might be a nice distraction while he is gone.
While I much prefer the real thing...it was erotic knowing that the woman on the other end was masturbating because of what I was saying or how I was reacting.
I say give it a try. If you don't like it...don't bother. WHo knows...might be a nice distraction while he is gone.
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Hell, I'll gladly admit it. I do it and I enjoy it. BUt then, I can't exactly compare it to the real thing, either.
However, I will say this...
First, it is important to have a guy that isn't afraid to talk! Kinda defeats the purpose otherwise. I have actually had silence on the other side, which is not much fun, as you can imagine. It's also a bonus if you're turned on by your guy's voice. I know some men that can, ahem, create quite the temperature rise just by saying hello.
I would say that if you get off on hearing him talk dirty to you in bed, then phonesex might just work for you. If not, well it never hurts to try either.
I've found that most men enjoy vocal women. I tend to be quite loud, and am not afraid to let him know what's going on. So, if you decide to do it, don't be timid, jump right in, and don't just get your feet wet-get it ALL wet
Good Luck! and many a happy cummings to you!
However, I will say this...
First, it is important to have a guy that isn't afraid to talk! Kinda defeats the purpose otherwise. I have actually had silence on the other side, which is not much fun, as you can imagine. It's also a bonus if you're turned on by your guy's voice. I know some men that can, ahem, create quite the temperature rise just by saying hello.
I would say that if you get off on hearing him talk dirty to you in bed, then phonesex might just work for you. If not, well it never hurts to try either.
I've found that most men enjoy vocal women. I tend to be quite loud, and am not afraid to let him know what's going on. So, if you decide to do it, don't be timid, jump right in, and don't just get your feet wet-get it ALL wet
Good Luck! and many a happy cummings to you!
try it, it's great; used to do this in the 80s when I travelled a lot; it was incredibly erotic
But not pre-planned - usually conversation would start as "hi, how was the day, where are you tonight, what's the hotel room like," sort of thing, and go on from there into, "God I miss you, was thinking about you earlier and had a huge stiffy and damn, you weren't there, What did I do about it? You want me to describe in detail? If you're lying down now I can imagine you, hey why don't you tell me what you'd have done with the bulge in my trousers" .... and off you go.
Need phone foreplay before you get onto the phone sex!
Now of course you can try cyber too - private chatroom on Literotica and off you go ... Did this recently and it was absolutley mega.
(Despite finding that typing with one hand and masturbating with the other was harder than playing the piano! Phone sex is easier...I struggle to walk and chew gum!
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But not pre-planned - usually conversation would start as "hi, how was the day, where are you tonight, what's the hotel room like," sort of thing, and go on from there into, "God I miss you, was thinking about you earlier and had a huge stiffy and damn, you weren't there, What did I do about it? You want me to describe in detail? If you're lying down now I can imagine you, hey why don't you tell me what you'd have done with the bulge in my trousers" .... and off you go.
Need phone foreplay before you get onto the phone sex!
Now of course you can try cyber too - private chatroom on Literotica and off you go ... Did this recently and it was absolutley mega.
(Despite finding that typing with one hand and masturbating with the other was harder than playing the piano! Phone sex is easier...I struggle to walk and chew gum!
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RAOTFLMAO @ Golden
I just want to say that if you are going to cyber it does have more effect on you if you know the person on the other side (or at least it does for me) I can't cyber unless I feel for the person on the recieving end
By the way it is hard to type with one hand while getting yourself off
umm of course not saying that I ever do that
I just want to say that if you are going to cyber it does have more effect on you if you know the person on the other side (or at least it does for me) I can't cyber unless I feel for the person on the recieving end
By the way it is hard to type with one hand while getting yourself off
umm of course not saying that I ever do that
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Nicole
Hmm I've heard about the problem with one hand typing before. Maybe this could help you out ;-)
http://www.remotecontrolsextoys.com/home.htm
ShyGuy
Hmm I've heard about the problem with one hand typing before. Maybe this could help you out ;-)
http://www.remotecontrolsextoys.com/home.htm
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Originally posted by golden:
[But not pre-planned - usually conversation would start as "hi, how was the day, where are you tonight, what's the hotel room like," sort of thing, and go on from there into, "God I miss you, was thinking about you earlier and had a huge stiffy and damn, you weren't there, What did I do about it? You want me to describe in detail? If you're lying down now I can imagine you, hey why don't you tell me what you'd have done with the bulge in my trousers" .... and off you go.
Golden...my number is 555-SEXY...call me!
Oh...and btw...do you stutter by chance? <hehe>
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Oh my! <fans self with phone book>
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I too find phone sex a blast. I found it works best though if both partners are willing to talk and listen. If only one is getting off while the other talks him/herself dry in the mouth, it isn't any fun. But, if it is going well, and the mood is right, I have found it to be quite enjoyable, gratifying, and satisfying (When I can't have the real thing, of course).
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Phone lines Eyyy, I wonder (pondering for a minute)no that wont work, live is better than prerecorded. I know maybe I should just start up a phone company that is just dedicated to live phone sex, no that is already done. If I call up people I know and start, no that wont work either, they'll just hang up on me, they do that anyway! Damn. I'll have to get back to this one. sorry Currious(f). may be you call me I might get a better idea. call @ 1800 2fuck me
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LOL@Lasher!
That phone receiver isn't too damn comfortable for us either! Yow!
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That phone receiver isn't too damn comfortable for us either! Yow!
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You bring the Windex, Hung...and Renee and I will bring the the squeegie and paper towels!
I once met a phone sex operator. She had the voice for it, and she gave me an excellent sample, but to be honest... If she is any indication of the looks of the girl on the other end of the line... maybe I'll just stick to soloing and save my cash!
It's Good business though - A Phone sex company charging Australian $5per minute [Like $3.99P/M US), makes a profit of AU $3.50 per minuite!
MADDOG
It's Good business though - A Phone sex company charging Australian $5per minute [Like $3.99P/M US), makes a profit of AU $3.50 per minuite!
MADDOG
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Well, I don't know about phonesex operators. I have only ever done it with some guys off the net, and some friends from school. Cheaper and more intimate, I think. The other just has too much of a prostitution vibe for me. I would think that you men would like to know that women are purely interested in talking to you for sex and not money.
(proceeds to walk off laughing)
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(proceeds to walk off laughing)
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I tried it once and got a stutterer! (a net friend, not a "pay for phone sex" type)
he was seriously weird.. when he answered the phone he literally fell off his chair... the crashes and bangs were not good for my tender ear-drums.. then since he'd broken his chair he went and lay on his bed.. and laughed for a solid two minutes.. I am not kidding.. I hadn't said more than 5 words.. just "hi there", followed by "are you ok?" and he was laughing........ I should have hung up on him, but I wasn't raised that way.. then he tried to get me off and that did not work with a stutter and the laughing and falling and all..... all I could do was try to make him cum as quickly as possible..
God.. I hope I am not turned off of phone sex forever....
Firesprite
he was seriously weird.. when he answered the phone he literally fell off his chair... the crashes and bangs were not good for my tender ear-drums.. then since he'd broken his chair he went and lay on his bed.. and laughed for a solid two minutes.. I am not kidding.. I hadn't said more than 5 words.. just "hi there", followed by "are you ok?" and he was laughing........ I should have hung up on him, but I wasn't raised that way.. then he tried to get me off and that did not work with a stutter and the laughing and falling and all..... all I could do was try to make him cum as quickly as possible..
God.. I hope I am not turned off of phone sex forever....
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Phonesex can be so hot in my opinion.
What I find a turn on, is that it's possible for me to turn a woman on only with words, and my imagination.
My first experience was with a woman that I met on-line from the states, and since that I've done it with a few other women. One is on regular basis!
The most interesting one was the time with an australian friend. She sat in her car, in a secluded corner on a parking lot, and I got her off via her cell phone!
ShyGuy
What I find a turn on, is that it's possible for me to turn a woman on only with words, and my imagination.
My first experience was with a woman that I met on-line from the states, and since that I've done it with a few other women. One is on regular basis!
The most interesting one was the time with an australian friend. She sat in her car, in a secluded corner on a parking lot, and I got her off via her cell phone!
ShyGuy
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golden and Lovely Latina,
If you're curious about how phone sex really works, I suggest that you read my story "Talk Dirty To Me". And for god sakes use the speaker phone!! That way you can keep both hands free.
BTW Lovely Latina, you seem to live nearby in the San Fernando Valley. Give me a call sometime and I'll see what I can do to fan your hot latin fires.
If you're curious about how phone sex really works, I suggest that you read my story "Talk Dirty To Me". And for god sakes use the speaker phone!! That way you can keep both hands free.
BTW Lovely Latina, you seem to live nearby in the San Fernando Valley. Give me a call sometime and I'll see what I can do to fan your hot latin fires.
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Hmm - phone sex .. I never did it "on purpose" ... it just happened - as golden did say, the conversations started on a completely innocent level and without either of us intending they just went the erotic way.
The men involved were always guys I was having a relation with, so I knew how to turn them on - knew how to push their individual "buttons"... and it was a great feeling to know they wanted me that bad that I could with my voice and my images make them hot enough to masturbate.
I remember only one time it was the other way round and he made me cum while on the phone... *winks* and it was great too.
The men involved were always guys I was having a relation with, so I knew how to turn them on - knew how to push their individual "buttons"... and it was a great feeling to know they wanted me that bad that I could with my voice and my images make them hot enough to masturbate.
I remember only one time it was the other way round and he made me cum while on the phone... *winks* and it was great too.
