Phone Sex

[tupak187]

hello all.... I was wondering if you all could help me with this question.

My significant other and I are involved in a long distance relationship, and don't get to see eachother quite often.

And lately when we talk at night over the phone, it eventually starts to lead towards phone sex and we both start going at it... And honestly, it is great!! relieves a lot of stress. But its getting to the point where talking on the phone with her starts to turn me on. What should I do??? And is it normal???

 

[exvitermini]

Ummm, yep. Of course it's normal! Haven't you heard of Pavlov? If a ringing bell can make a dog drool, then talking with your babe on the phone can get you horny if you guys usually end up getting hot and heavy.

Phone sex was a major part of my long distance relationship with my wife. Now that we live together, we don't need it, but I've thought about doing it again - just to bring those memories back =). Sometimes on the phone you tend to say things you are too inhibited to say in person

 

[WhiteRose]

Phone sex is GRRRRRRRRREAT! And you don't have to be long distance to enjoy it. Say you're at the office and no one's around, give her a call. It makes for really wonderful foreplay for when you do get home

What's wrong with getting turned on when you're on the phone and talking to someone you care about? Perfectly normal. You should only begin to question it when you start masturbating with the phone...and there's no one on the other end

 

[tupak187]

Thanks for the reply guys.. i really do enjoy the phone sex.. just getting a little worried that i was liking it too much.

 

[MissTaken]

Well, when you get turned on, get off!

It is okay and normal to enjoy phone sex. I can only repeat what has been said, but go for it!

 

[SexyChele]

And the problem is? (Only joking!)

I think you've found that most people feel the same way. For me, I've discovered that if you spend the initial time enjoying the phone sex, it sort of "settles things down" so you can then engage in a more normal conversation. At least that is what has worked for me.

Good luck and ENJOY!

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Had to chuckle a bit Tupak at your worries. I think at one time or another, many of us have had the same thoughts. I know in my situation, I get turned on by hearing MY-Sir's- voice on the other end of the line. Perverted? No, Longing for him? A BIG YES THERE!. Being so far from each other puts one hellofa strain on our relationship, so if I get turned on by HIS voice, I can relieve those tensions that have been built up by being separated from HIM. I think HE likes the knowledge that HIS voice alone makes me so very randy.



Looking forward to talking to YOU Sir soon!

 

[AttentionWhore]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being turned on by talking on the phone with you S/O. On the other hand, there would be something wrong if that was the only way you could get turned on, and I don't see that happening. A warm body is so much more fun than a hard piece of plastic.

just my 2 cents

 

[jenni248]

Hello everyone,
Ive recently met someone online,we email each other frequently and have talked to each other on the phone a couple of times.I really enjoy talking to him and he has expressed an intrest in phonesex, which i think may be a good outlet for the both of us.The thing is im a phonesex 'virgin'...and i don't want a bad phone experience to ruin what we have. I'm sure that some of you out there have some experience in this feild, any advice/tips would be greatly appreciated..any thing i should steer clear of?
Thanks in advance~

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Hello everyone,
Ive recently met someone online,we email each other frequently and have talked to each other on the phone a couple of times.I really enjoy talking to him and he has expressed an intrest in phonesex, which i think may be a good outlet for the both of us.The thing is im a phonesex 'virgin'...and i don't want a bad phone experience to ruin what we have. I'm sure that some of you out there have some experience in this feild, any advice/tips would be greatly appreciated..any thing i should steer clear of?
Thanks in advance~

.
Hiya Jenni; I too met MY-Sir- via the "net" and conversed with HIM for several months before we actually heard one another's voices. During that time, we got to know each other quite well. We chatted about our personal desires/fantasies, and past experiences. Once we started talking on the phone, things progressed naturally. We had already come to know what the other liked and so it was easy to give each other the phone sex that would satisfy. One great thing I can say for phone sex is; when HE and I finally met, We were ready to explore all of the things we had shared over the net and phone. WOW! The sex was fantasatic! Not only that, but we are much closer than many people because we opened up to each other using the phone and net.
So don't worry, dear; allow for your relationship to grow naturally. Follow your instincts/heart and all will be fine.

My is with MY-Sir- 24/7

 

[jenni248]

Thanks for your response MY-Sir's-k- WOW it sounds like you and your Sir have a great thing going! I wish you two the best. Well I totally agree with you about needing to get to know each others likes and dislikes before you go and jump into a steamy phone conversation, we've been talking to each other for about a month and I think I'm going to follow your advice and let things progress naturally, hopefully when the time is right I will know...~Thanks

 

[Technocat]

I used to be in a LD relationship myself so I definately know how you feel. Don't stress. Just relax..let the mind take flight and enjoy.

And now we live together and the phone bill has gone down
....A LOT!

Take care!

 

[Guest]

I have found....that phone sex..... calms me...and I have better convos afterward..

dunno..just me

 

[DreamingAngel]

Tell her that talking to her is becoming a turn on for you, tell her why, and explain that you still love having "normal" conversations with her, but her voice is such a turn on to you, that way she knows where she stands with you.

Phone sex is a great reliever for those of us that are in a long Distance relationship, and there is nothing wrong with it at all. Enjoy it while you can, and express as much as you can to her, it makes it so much more thrilling.