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hey me and my g/f want to have phone sex but we dun know how can somebody please tell me
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Hello,
I have only recently experienced this and it is definitely worth trying.
The thing which makes it so good for us is that we have never met - we actually met in the literotica chatroom. So hearing his voice, and paritcularly his breathing as he gets aroused is out of this world.
I also love hearing his reaction to me. If I moan or tell him what I am doing I can hear his sharp in-breath - that is so sexy.
As for actualy words or what to say, I guess it's up to you. He loves me talking dirty to him, I love him telling me exactly what he's going to do to me when we meet.
Hope this helps, I'm no expert by any means!
Good luck,
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Hello,
I have only recently experienced this and it is definitely worth trying.
The thing which makes it so good for us is that we have never met - we actually met in the literotica chatroom. So hearing his voice, and paritcularly his breathing as he gets aroused is out of this world.
I also love hearing his reaction to me. If I moan or tell him what I am doing I can hear his sharp in-breath - that is so sexy.
As for actualy words or what to say, I guess it's up to you. He loves me talking dirty to him, I love him telling me exactly what he's going to do to me when we meet.
Hope this helps, I'm no expert by any means!
Good luck,
Smiley
All I can say is be spontanious... don't plan it out that way it'll feel naugtier & end up being more fun... start off by some teasing & work your way to saying raunchier things... depending on what you & you GF like... My BF got me in to phone sex just about 3 months ago & we've been haveing a blast with it & when we get together the sex is always better because we're remembering what we said to each other over the phone... Just go slow & you guys should be fine. Tel her what you'd like to do to her & what you'd like her to do to you... tell her how you think it would feel to have you inside of her... things like that...
Hope it helps
Good luck
Hope it helps
Good luck
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please help...
can some one please write an example of what i can say to my bf on the phone to turn him on b/c i dont know how and i dont know what to say during phone sex and he wants to do it but i dont know how...help!
can some one please write an example of what i can say to my bf on the phone to turn him on b/c i dont know how and i dont know what to say during phone sex and he wants to do it but i dont know how...help!
Re: please help...
tell him what turns you on.. what you want him to do to you..
ie: " I want us to fuck on the kichen table & feel you dick slideing in & out of me"
tell him what you're doing to your self at that moment thinking about what you two could be doing....
"my fingers are sliding over my wet pussy just thinking about it"
in no time you'll both be so worked up you won't even think about feeling wierd
michi said:
tell him what turns you on.. what you want him to do to you..
ie: " I want us to fuck on the kichen table & feel you dick slideing in & out of me"
tell him what you're doing to your self at that moment thinking about what you two could be doing....
"my fingers are sliding over my wet pussy just thinking about it"
in no time you'll both be so worked up you won't even think about feeling wierd
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Well, this is kinda hard to do because each person is individual. Some people like to get a little kinky, others have a definite "don't go there" zone.
A good start might be to describe to him, in detail, what you would do to him if you were there. And what would that be? Would you start off with a hug? A kiss? Crawling into his lap and wiggle around? All this builds things up, sets the scene, so to speak.
As to actual "sex", just describe - again in detail - how you would give him a blowjob. Or what position you would like to try and why. If you have toy with you, tell him what you are doing with it.
Don't try to be scripted. Just be yourself. It helps to have just a normal conversation first, with a little flirting thrown in. You flirt with him, he with you, and the words will just flow.
And a big thing to remember is that phone sex, as in person sex, is not a one way street. You should not do all the talking, nor should he. It should be mutual, both of you talking of your desires together. Don't expect to have to describe an entire sex scene from start to finish, but do expect to contribute to the conversation.
But, most of all, just have fun!
michi said:
Well, this is kinda hard to do because each person is individual. Some people like to get a little kinky, others have a definite "don't go there" zone.
A good start might be to describe to him, in detail, what you would do to him if you were there. And what would that be? Would you start off with a hug? A kiss? Crawling into his lap and wiggle around? All this builds things up, sets the scene, so to speak.
As to actual "sex", just describe - again in detail - how you would give him a blowjob. Or what position you would like to try and why. If you have toy with you, tell him what you are doing with it.
Don't try to be scripted. Just be yourself. It helps to have just a normal conversation first, with a little flirting thrown in. You flirt with him, he with you, and the words will just flow.
And a big thing to remember is that phone sex, as in person sex, is not a one way street. You should not do all the talking, nor should he. It should be mutual, both of you talking of your desires together. Don't expect to have to describe an entire sex scene from start to finish, but do expect to contribute to the conversation.
But, most of all, just have fun!
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Wow, you all are putting a lot into phone sex. Honestly, it's a little complicated for me.
Probably because I'm a guy, and I'm a little bit simpler. Here's what I do.
Just masterbate!
That's one.
And Two, be very loud. Moaning, groaning, that low deep gutteral thing that women do to just drive us wild. Don't forget to hear. The best phone sex I ever had, not a single word was said.
Well, of course, in the end she asked me to cum with her, which I gratefully obliged.
Hee hee.
Honestly though, don't make it this big erotic story you have to read to him before you two can get off. Just remember to be loud, and let your fantasy be your guide. Close your eyes and pretend he's right there beside you, breathing and groaning right next to you.
One thing, this girl did to me. I had helped her orgasm, and then she was helping me. It was really hot, she kept urging me on. Let me tell you, there is nothing more erotic for a man than a woman urging him to orgasm.
Probably because I'm a guy, and I'm a little bit simpler. Here's what I do.
Just masterbate!
That's one.
And Two, be very loud. Moaning, groaning, that low deep gutteral thing that women do to just drive us wild. Don't forget to hear. The best phone sex I ever had, not a single word was said.
Well, of course, in the end she asked me to cum with her, which I gratefully obliged.
Hee hee.
Honestly though, don't make it this big erotic story you have to read to him before you two can get off. Just remember to be loud, and let your fantasy be your guide. Close your eyes and pretend he's right there beside you, breathing and groaning right next to you.
One thing, this girl did to me. I had helped her orgasm, and then she was helping me. It was really hot, she kept urging me on. Let me tell you, there is nothing more erotic for a man than a woman urging him to orgasm.
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I agree on the suggestions posted a few replys up. Something I like to do when I have phonesex with a special somebody is to tell her to hold back as she's on the edge of her climax, but she aren't allowed to stop playing with herself. It works like wonders on her, and she have those explosive climaxes!
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Phone sex is very hard for me,so I just masturbate for my part and let him hear it. He likes it, he says,and to hear him masturbate is impossible to describe. Just to hear him start to breathe that way and I am instantly ready for another one and I get myself off again.
When he wants me to talk to him,he just tells me what he wants. That makes it alot easier,let me tell ya. The very first time I was so scared,but he has made it a part of our relationship. The best advice I ever got about doing it was that my partner would let me know what he wanted to hear,and that was true. Just ask him or tell him you are nervous and he should make it easier for you.
ahh after reading the above post I had to edit this answer...
He tells me when to touch myself,how to,and whatever else he wants. It is a massive turn on,even if it does,at face value, sound wierd.
When he wants me to talk to him,he just tells me what he wants. That makes it alot easier,let me tell ya. The very first time I was so scared,but he has made it a part of our relationship. The best advice I ever got about doing it was that my partner would let me know what he wanted to hear,and that was true. Just ask him or tell him you are nervous and he should make it easier for you.
ahh after reading the above post I had to edit this answer...
He tells me when to touch myself,how to,and whatever else he wants. It is a massive turn on,even if it does,at face value, sound wierd.
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I have to agree with ShyGuy - most certainly! (and, no, lovetoread, it doesn't sound weird 
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Of course, being submissive in nature has a lot to do with it, but having him tell me which toys to use, how to use them, hearing that I am so VERY close to orgasm and then telling me to stop - all winds up with me having the most explosive orgasms I've ever known!
Just the thought! Damn, I have a phone - but can't call! TOTAL frustration!
)Of course, being submissive in nature has a lot to do with it, but having him tell me which toys to use, how to use them, hearing that I am so VERY close to orgasm and then telling me to stop - all winds up with me having the most explosive orgasms I've ever known!
Just the thought! Damn, I have a phone - but can't call! TOTAL frustration!
I love this
Myself and my boyfriend love to do phone sex as he lives far away from me its all we have to keep each other satisfied! I just love to hear him masterbating I can hear the lubrication of his pre cum and when he starts to tell me wher and what he wants to do it for me well I can nearly cum without touching myself!!
If you feel wierd about it just listen let him talk to you it wont be long before you get into the swing I know I didnt! It is so erotic!!
Trust me! enjoy it all you can
Myself and my boyfriend love to do phone sex as he lives far away from me its all we have to keep each other satisfied! I just love to hear him masterbating I can hear the lubrication of his pre cum and when he starts to tell me wher and what he wants to do it for me well I can nearly cum without touching myself!!
If you feel wierd about it just listen let him talk to you it wont be long before you get into the swing I know I didnt! It is so erotic!!
Trust me! enjoy it all you can
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My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and for me the best way to masturabate is when he describes in full details what he will do to me and then vice versa. I really like using harsh words such as "fuck dick pussy" that really gets me going...the more words and creative ur ideas get the better the phone sex.
And remember things that can be said on the phone are much more easier then in person and sometime it opens ur mind to other things
My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and for me the best way to masturabate is when he describes in full details what he will do to me and then vice versa. I really like using harsh words such as "fuck dick pussy" that really gets me going...the more words and creative ur ideas get the better the phone sex.
And remember things that can be said on the phone are much more easier then in person and sometime it opens ur mind to other things
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship as well.
Our first phone sex experience happened by surprise, but it was wonderful and we do this now on an extremely regular basis.
I guess my issue is that we are both actually really shy and both tend to not use the harsher words. We just talk about the sensation of touching and kissing and then talk about the feeling of him being inside me. About sliding up and down on him. We have a few trigger words that tend to get us going, He likes to listen to me moan over the phone too. Sometimes I worry that I say the same things over and over each time and I don't want him to get bored, but you have to stick with what you are comfortable with. That is the only way it can really be good.
And the sound of his breathing getting more labored as he gets close to climax sends me over the edge so easily. Mmmmmmmm...
Our first phone sex experience happened by surprise, but it was wonderful and we do this now on an extremely regular basis.
I guess my issue is that we are both actually really shy and both tend to not use the harsher words. We just talk about the sensation of touching and kissing and then talk about the feeling of him being inside me. About sliding up and down on him. We have a few trigger words that tend to get us going, He likes to listen to me moan over the phone too. Sometimes I worry that I say the same things over and over each time and I don't want him to get bored, but you have to stick with what you are comfortable with. That is the only way it can really be good.
And the sound of his breathing getting more labored as he gets close to climax sends me over the edge so easily. Mmmmmmmm...
Well, I have experienced a roleplay situation over the phone today and that very good! Think of a scenario that gets you both going and take it from there. Talk in the present tense and allow pauses for the other person to join in telling the action if they want to, or simply to say how good they feel.
It can be any scenario, when you're not aroused it will feel a bit weird and self conscious but as soon as you start sharing ideas you will get into it!
Enjoy it!
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It can be any scenario, when you're not aroused it will feel a bit weird and self conscious but as soon as you start sharing ideas you will get into it!
Enjoy it!
Smiley
