phone sex
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cellis
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one of my memorable and shortest lived jobs was as a phone sex operator.... it was very enlightening and educational and i am hoping to use some of what i learned in a story at some point... anyway back to your question.... if you have been talking with your friend for sometime.. i would think that you might have an idea of what you would both like... be natural and just let things happen... don't be afraid to participate or masturbate for your friend... personally the sound of a man coming is very much a turn on for me... and i have been told that men find this very erotic as well... i hope this helps... 
MissTaken
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Relax and Enjoy! That is my best advice. Even if you don't "offer" much in the way of conversation during the first phone call, he will be sure to enjoy the call if you have enjoyed yourself fully!
Then, as you feel more comfortable, you will know what things make him happy. For some, it is a detailed description of what you would do for him if you were together. For others, it is more a game in a sense. i.e. Him telling you what to do to yourself or you describing what you are doing to yourself.
If he has more experience, follow his lead and only do what is comfortable for you.
Good luck and enjoy!
Then, as you feel more comfortable, you will know what things make him happy. For some, it is a detailed description of what you would do for him if you were together. For others, it is more a game in a sense. i.e. Him telling you what to do to yourself or you describing what you are doing to yourself.
If he has more experience, follow his lead and only do what is comfortable for you.
Good luck and enjoy!
cyndiesweet
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If you use a cell phone or a portable phone know that other people can pick up your conversation on their scanners. If you have nosy neighbors it is something to keep in mind. FYI. Have fun.
Rambling Rose
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mmmmm
phone sex~the next best thing to being there!
phone sex~the next best thing to being there!
Ice Princess
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Have your chats so far been sexual in nature? and you've had some experience with cybersex with this particular man? I'm sort of guessing that you have, but if you haven't, that's a good way to start and to find out what the other person might like.
Once you start talking, you've got lots of options, and don't be afraid to start slowly. Even pants and moans tell the other person you're enjoying yourself when words fail you. If he has more experience, MissTaken is right, just lean on him for a while. Let him talk to you while you masturbate and see how that feels.
This will also sound like a strange suggestion, but you might try recording yourself having an orgasm. You might feel braver if you knew how erotic that sounds and be more comfortable sharing that with him over the phone.
Once you start talking, you've got lots of options, and don't be afraid to start slowly. Even pants and moans tell the other person you're enjoying yourself when words fail you. If he has more experience, MissTaken is right, just lean on him for a while. Let him talk to you while you masturbate and see how that feels.
This will also sound like a strange suggestion, but you might try recording yourself having an orgasm. You might feel braver if you knew how erotic that sounds and be more comfortable sharing that with him over the phone.
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The first time I tried phone sex ... I was a little nervous and was unsure of what to say and how to respond to some of the things he was asking me...
But the whole phone sex thing just sort of happen which was a nice surprise... while I did get aroused ... I was like so caught up on what he was doing and when he climaxed I was like " whoa"...
I love to hear when a man climaxes.
But the whole phone sex thing just sort of happen which was a nice surprise... while I did get aroused ... I was like so caught up on what he was doing and when he climaxed I was like " whoa"...
I love to hear when a man climaxes.
Mmmmm.... It's so erotic...
To hear a woman's passion on the other end of the phone... Describing my touch... my kisses... what it's like as I begin to slowly penetrate her... tongue tip... wet fingers... bringing her to orgasm... the first time... ; )
I love the challenge of using my words... and sensual descriptions... to keep a partner riding from one orgasm to the next... And always making it a strong personal connection... feeling each other's energy across the distance... feeling the touch and warmth of one another... and the wild passion of it all...
What was that song by Blondie... "Call me, anytime, call me, call me, we can share the time... Call me!"
Lick,
Pan
To hear a woman's passion on the other end of the phone... Describing my touch... my kisses... what it's like as I begin to slowly penetrate her... tongue tip... wet fingers... bringing her to orgasm... the first time... ; )
I love the challenge of using my words... and sensual descriptions... to keep a partner riding from one orgasm to the next... And always making it a strong personal connection... feeling each other's energy across the distance... feeling the touch and warmth of one another... and the wild passion of it all...
What was that song by Blondie... "Call me, anytime, call me, call me, we can share the time... Call me!"
Lick,
Pan
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StevenWill
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Be Natural
Just be yourself. It's ok to say you are nervous; honesty never hurts. I have found it exciting when a woman admits that she wants to but doesn't know where to start--because I feel that way too. I have only had phone sex a few times, but I found it incredibly exciting just to admit to each other that we wanted to masturbate together.
Remember, he is your friend and partner. Parnters work together, and you never know where you might go working together.
Steven
Just be yourself. It's ok to say you are nervous; honesty never hurts. I have found it exciting when a woman admits that she wants to but doesn't know where to start--because I feel that way too. I have only had phone sex a few times, but I found it incredibly exciting just to admit to each other that we wanted to masturbate together.
Remember, he is your friend and partner. Parnters work together, and you never know where you might go working together.
Steven
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Re: Mmmmm.... It's so erotic...
Curiousity killed the cat but satisfaction brought her back
Pan718 said:
Curiousity killed the cat but satisfaction brought her back
Enjoy!
If you've been chatting for a while that helps a good deal. And it is okay to be nervous! Everyone is the first time - what do I say, what will he say, what do I do, what does he expect, etc.
Just let whatever comes naturally happen, and you'll both enjoy! And the best part about phone sex? Practice really does make perfect - the more you do it, the better it gets. There are times when I would rather talk a man to orgasm and not even have to have one (or several) myself. Just knowing my words are driving him crazy enough to hear him explode over the phone is such an incredible turn on!
Enjoy!
If you've been chatting for a while that helps a good deal. And it is okay to be nervous! Everyone is the first time - what do I say, what will he say, what do I do, what does he expect, etc.
Just let whatever comes naturally happen, and you'll both enjoy! And the best part about phone sex? Practice really does make perfect - the more you do it, the better it gets. There are times when I would rather talk a man to orgasm and not even have to have one (or several) myself. Just knowing my words are driving him crazy enough to hear him explode over the phone is such an incredible turn on!
Enjoy!
