phone sex?

[even21odd]

anyone know how to have phone sex?

 

[deliciously_naughty]

Exactly what are you looking for?

How to do it? Does something in particular have you confused? If you clarify what you're looking for help-wise, I'd be happy to give some advice.

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

I tried it. It was the wrong shape and hurt like hell. I stay with the real thing now. Sorry.

 

[Eilan]

I tried it. It was the wrong shape and hurt like hell. I stay with the real thing now. Sorry.

Use more lube.

 

[midwestyankee]

I tried it. It was the wrong shape and hurt like hell. I stay with the real thing now. Sorry.

Use more lube.

Eilan's right, as usual. I've tried the old fashioned kind with the speaking tube and it's a fairly good fit. It just drives me a little nutty that the damned bell goes off every time I do.

 

[bobsgirl]

I tried it too but I got a busy signal. Everytime I sneezed, it hit the redial button.

 

[even21odd]

what to say and how to initiate it

 

[bobsgirl]

what to say and how to initiate it

Yes, of course. Some of us just can't resist the opportunity for a little fun.

As to how to initiate it, I would think it would just naturally follow, as the conversation gets hotter and more explicit. That's my experience anyway. It also could be a continuation of an exchange of sexy e-mails or PMs.

 

[even21odd]

is it just masterbating while talking to somebody on the phone

 

[deliciously_naughty]

is it just masterbating while talking to somebody on the phone

Not really.

Phone sex (when it's well done) is an erotic experience. Both partners should contribute, and share what they'd be doing to the other person. But you have to do it sensually and descriptively. It doesn't work to say "I'm fucking you now," becuase that's not going to actually turn your partner on.

When my husband is out of town, we usually do the phone sex thing.

The cliched (but tried and true) way to get things started is to ask them what they would do to you right now.

You want to describe it as if you were actually there.

Masturbation is a natural progression as you describe more and more intimate things. You're not going to double click the mouse when your partner says "I undo the top button and kiss the skin I just uncovered" but you need that to build to the point where you're saying "I'm teasing your balls with my hands, stroking them and rubbing them" at which point you probably are masturbating.

 

[even21odd]

so its a lot like cyber sex then

 

[midwestyankee]

so its a lot like cyber sex then

Yes, but you and your partner can hear yourselves think. In a lot of ways, phone sex can be a much more intimate experience than cybering. The voice has a remarkable range to create mood, feeling, and intensity.

 

[bobsgirl]

Yes, but you and your partner can hear yourselves think. In a lot of ways, phone sex can be a much more intimate experience than cybering. The voice has a remarkable range to create mood, feeling, and intensity.

I agree. For me, the voice is one of the biggest turn-ons. Hearing the words is so much sexier than reading them. I always wondered, in cyber, when things get to the crucial point, how do you write that? How do you even think clearly enough to see the keyboard?

I will say that e-mail and PMs are great for foreplay. Oh my...

 

[deliciously_naughty]

I agree. For me, the voice is one of the biggest turn-ons. Hearing the words is so much sexier than reading them. I always wondered, in cyber, when things get to the crucial point, how do you write that? How do you even think clearly enough to see the keyboard?

I will say that e-mail and PMs are great for foreplay. Oh my...

Effectively one person is typing and one is getting off. I usually got screwed (metaphorically not cyberwise) in this respect, because they'd pop and then wouldn't make the effort to get me off. Which is why I stopped cybering.

 

[BillRogerBill]

Effectively one person is typing and one is getting off. I usually got screwed (metaphorically not cyberwise) in this respect, because they'd pop and then wouldn't make the effort to get me off. Which is why I stopped cybering.

That does happen a lot lol. I usually try to type and get the girl off, then I usually get off from the whole experience afterwards. And the best part of phone sex are the moans :-D.

 

[wickedlady31]

how can I play with this?

If you have to ask how to fuck on the phone, you should consider reading a dirty book or two to broaden your imagination.

1) Get a beer or glass of wine
2) empty your mind
3) make the call
4) use your imagination. LEt the thoughts flow from your mind and through your lips. Don't use crass words, use descriptive words like " I am laying down on my velvet love seat, legs slightly spread and my fingers are dancing over my love pearl. mmmm I smell nice."
5) breath heavily when appropriate and allow your phone partner to take lead.
6) don't have expectations, allow their sounds and descriptions to take you to 'their zone'
7) manually play with yourself and allow climax

 

[deliciously_naughty]

Don't use crass words, use descriptive words like " I am laying down on my velvet love seat, legs slightly spread and my fingers are dancing over my love pearl. mmmm I smell nice."

Descriptive is good, but being crass in the right moment is what gets me off.

Everyone's different-figure out what works for you and your partner(s)