roseanne208
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I would love to have phone sex with my boyfriend who lives far away but I do not know how to. Any ideas on this or where I can find info and practice before I attempt it?
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asian_princess said:Currently in a long distance relationship (*sigh*) i empathise with the importance of phone sex...and even more importantly..GOOD phone sex...and its easier than you think.
first read ^^ suggestions. they're very helpful.
asian_princess said:3. The Hot Fantasy You Will Never Live Out Role Play. - characters - whoever the hell you wanna be.
You wish you were Princess Leia and him Luke Skywalker and up for a fuckfest like no other? (sorry was going through the incest story thread before lol) Go all out.
Be limited by your imagination.
mcopado said:Teasing is important also...like foreplay in real life don't jump into the sex in a single call...build it up. If you can, call your playmate at an in opportune time, like when s/he is in line at the coffee stand, describe something really, really nasty...then tell them they'll have to wait til later for the rest....Get the person so keyed up in "forplay" then when the actual time to "play" happens, your partner won't even notice is the actuall sex is "bad" (though is there ever such a thing as bad?)
asian_princess said:this can also be called, "exacting revenge in return for you partner having talked dirty to you while your were at work all day, unable to get relief"..use at your own peril!!
mcopado said:The corolary to that is the "I'm haveng dinner with my parents whilst talking to you...and your on speaker phone" After you describe what you'd be doing with your hands while having dinner with her and her parents
slipfreak46 said:Thats a riot. Ranks right up there with the guy being taken blindfolded by his female neighber to his bedroom, thinking he's gonna get laid. So he strips, still wearing the blindfold, and begins playing with himself. The blindfold comes off and he is in the room with 30 friends and neighbors who are singing "Happy Birthday" (or were singing).
slipfreak46 said:I dunno if its true or not but its an old joke that has been around for years
I think you can even find it on Urban Legends, along with the story about the Biology teacher discribing that sperm is mostly made up of sucrose (or whatever natural sugar we have), and a girl in the class then asks, "Then why does it taste so salty?"
asian_princess said:Currently in a long distance relationship (*sigh*) i empathise with the importance of phone sex...and even more importantly..GOOD phone sex...and its easier than you think.
first read ^^ suggestions. they're very helpful.
Don't go straight into some complicated scenario that is both too detailed and that you both have never done nor discussed before...five seconds after you've picked up the phone and he's still trying to tell you about his shit day and take off his shoes.
Relax into it, soften your voice (not too soft because then he'll keep thinking you hung up (LOL sadly i am still a regular offender)) and like other posters have suggested just start by saying things like "i really miss you" or..."i've been thinking about you all day"...or to get things hot fast "I've been thinking of you sliding your _____ (insert preferred word for preferred body part) into my ______ (insert preferred...location) all day". Personally i always love the odd oral sex here and there so I tend to start with how much I would love to do that to him.
Don't be afraid to show your arousal. breathe heavy. trust me. its a winner.
Once you hear him start to go quiet... spin your web.
There are three types of scenarios you can go with...
1. The Play by Play - simply painting a picture of what you're doing to your own bodies at the time (with the odd addition of what you WISH could be happening). Here is the place to go into excruciating detail...ie "I've sucked my finger and now I'm rubbing my clit" vs "I'm slowly sliding my index finger in and out of my mouth, wishing it was your hard cock, my lips feel so good sliding up and down my tongue flicking over the skin, now my hand is sliding down down down into between my breasts....mmm my finger's so wet, leaving a wet trail over my tummy, my hand is running lightly over my pussy lips, they feel so soft, oh god i'm so wet already *moan*...god i wish your lips were rubbing againt me now...i'm parting my pussy lips, i have to touch my clit...*insert moan* oh i'm rubbing my finger in slow wet circles around my hard clit, slow. so wet. i wish it was your tongue, baby"...etc
2. The Self Role Play- characters played by self
This is where you spin a fantasy but still are yourselves..but in a sexual scenario that gets you hot...these are good for good, trusty, old tried out positions and when you want slow languid love making and you need the intimacy of the bond that already exists between you.
3. The Hot Fantasy You Will Never Live Out Role Play. - characters - whoever the hell you wanna be.
You wish you were Princess Leia and him Luke Skywalker and up for a fuckfest like no other? (sorry was going through the incest story thread before lol) Go all out.
Be limited by your imagination.
Some suggestions (lol no not role play ones, just scroll down the stories list if you need ideas)
- you don't have touch, sight, smell...all you've damn well got is SOUND, so damn well use it. Yesterday my man let me hear the sound of his fist jacking his cock and i came on the spot...and we'd only just started. Saying that, as skilled a vagina as i'm sure you have, it probably can't talk (we should all be so lucky), so don't spend the whole conversation with the phone to your pussy. but moaning, groaning, swearing, breathing...its all good IMHO
- words: don't use words that turn you or him OFF. If you don't like to be called dirty slut, don't use it, and if he uses it, mention it to him sometime sensitively that maybe he can call you baby, or something else that you're comfortable with.
- USE words that give you/him an orgasm on the spot. easy to tell, the breath will catch in his throat, he'll moan, or he'll make you deaf with his yells of "i'm cumming" eg..Dick...for me, is ok, lukewarm, COCK? gives me an instant girlie hard-on.
- ...oh and remember descriptive writing in yr 10 English?...your teachers weren't bullshitting, you can use it in real life. hot, hard, throbbing, wet, smooth, pulsing, trembling, quivering, massive, tight, tiny, black, white, pink, purple..whatever! remember a picture's worth a thousand words...on the phone you're sadly on the wrong end of that saying...
- he can't see you...if you cum, you have to tell him lol "did you cum?" can be a mood killer, especially if you haven't and he's already mentally reaching for the cigarette lighter...so help him, if not for this time, for next time.
All that ^^ means nothing if you're not comfortable, but please, god, PLEASE trust me on this, don't record yourself and listen to it. you will be put off talking dirty for life or, keel over from laughing so hard at yourself that you hit your head on the corner of the table and knock yourself into a coma.
Just pick up the phone...the first few times might be a little weird, laugh over it together, nothing will turn you on more than sharing a giggle with your man.
mmmm, i seem to have distracted myself with all this phone sex talk.
wonder if he'll mind if if i wake him...
"I'm sliding my hand under the blanket while you lie sleeping...my hand wrapping around you semi-hard cock...you must know i'm writing this post as you lie sleeping...i slide my body between your legs and lower my mouth down to your........"
SweetErika said:This is one of the best "How To" things I've EVER read, AP! It's seriously bookmark, How To stories, and Blank Manual worthy. I don't have tons of opportunites for phone sex (well, except for with those zero-post yahoos who send out mass PMs), but I'm going to study this well and implement all of your suggestions in the future!
Thank you!
SweetErika said:This is one of the best "How To" things I've EVER read, AP! It's seriously bookmark, How To stories, and Blank Manual worthy. I don't have tons of opportunites for phone sex (well, except for with those zero-post yahoos who send out mass PMs), but I'm going to study this well and implement all of your suggestions in the future!
Thank you!
Originally Posted by eudaemonia
Here's one to keep on your nightstand:
The Fine Art Of Erotic Talk:
How To Entice, Excite, And Enchant Your Lover With Words
by Bonnie Gabriel
Best $17 I spent in 1998.
I really dislike the words "fuck" "dick" and "cunt" and discovered therein quite a few new-to-me terms that were far more to my taste, not to mention a few phrases that I've modified to suit my own style.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/055337396X/103-7449401-9342233?v=glance&n=283155
throbbin bob said:Asian Princess has some awesome tips (not to mention an extremely sexy voice, check her audio stories out), anyway
throbbin bob said:ya gotta a good one mate! cheers, Bob
Thank you both so much! You have a PM, a_p.asian_princess said:SWEETERIKA!!! oh god, LOL and mcopado will back me up on this...
I loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee youuuuuuuuuuuu!!! so that ^^^ just has me floating floating floating!! All your advice is always so sweet and thoughtful and goddamn helpful that i'm always in awe. i'm honoured you read my post let alone commented on it...hehe look baby! SE wrote sweet stuff! LOL
PS enjoy ur next phone sex outting on me
PPS er...we love ur AV ...and jus as merry xmas was looking kinda sucky this year too hehe
TBKahuna123 said:You know, my wife and I pretty much started our relationship over the phone. We dated just a couple of weeks before I left for three months. We not only fell in love over the phone, but we learned a great deal about each other sexually through phone sex. It's a great opportunity to communicate about your sexual fantasies and what turns you on. I really can't add anything about technique, because A P has pretty much written the quintessential how-to in a nutshell. What I would like to add though is that both parties also need to listen, especially the guys!