Phone Sex

[Guest]

What do you usually do during phone sex?

My girlfriend and I(when we can't be together) have phone sex, and what we usually do is, she gets out her toy and plays with it while I tell her what to do with it pretending that it's me, all the while listening to her moans and "OH MY GOD"s and masterbating. Although I would love it if she did, she doesn't say much. I do all the talking. Here are a couple of questions I've got. Feel to add anything else you'd like.

Do you usually masterbate during phone sex?
Do you just listen to each other moan or do you tell the other what you'd like to be doing to him/her?

 

[Guest]

I love phone sex! I'm a chick who loves to get off over the phone...I also love to get a guy off! I just happen to be very verbal and maybe your gf isn't, but she can learn to be...she just needs to get over the awkwardness. Do you do it when it's dark?...maybe she needs to slip into the fantasy of it all by doing it at night or with her eyes closed.

ask her how she's feeling...maybe tell her how you'd love to hear her tell you about what she would do to you...evn start describing it for her...like how you'd like to feel her warm mouth on your cock...sucking you deep etc...maybe she'll get the gist...just keep doing it and eventually she'll get into it...itmay take some time though...just keep telling her how hot she makes you and how it turns you on when she does _______ to you.

And yes i do masturbate when i have phone sex..how can i not

 

[Guest]

Yes, we only do it at night in the dark.

Yes, she really gets right into it, in that when I ask her to suck on me, she'll take her toy out of her hole and suck on "me"

I've done that, and I've asked her to talk to me, but she just doesn't say anything. Well, she did say she doesn't talk during sex, and thats the only relpy I ever get.

 

[Quiet Smiles]

teach her how to do it...

Ask her questions that help her to become more verbal during it. Ask her to describe what she is wearing, what sensations she is feeling as you are doing various things to her body, what she is doing to your body...

Example:
You: I'm cupping your breasts in my hands now. How does that feel? What are your nipples doing? What do you want me to do to your nipples?

Just coax the answers and descriptions out of her, leading her by asking questions.

 

[ericred50]

Phone sex, I was addicted cost me a fortune in telephone costs. So I found the internet and AOL, and know I get all the sex I need,
To be good at phone sex you both have to have an imagination and fantasies that you need to fulfil. Other wise every time will be the same, I love and enjoy making a woman cum over the phone. I can tell if they are faking, cause once I start I do not stop until they beg me to, I try to make them cum, over and over again. I like to hear the cry of complete satisfaction. It is the same when I cyber, I do not stop until they are fulfilled.

 

[Guest]

Wow, I got quiet smiles to register and post his/ her first message

To QS, yes I've done all of that... but I'm not completely sure she can hear me through her screaming. She does answer some questions though... but I think she might start to get pissed if I keep asking her so many questions during lovemaking

Eric, we actually used the internet first, but decided that even though the phone is WAY more expensive, we'd use that instead... when we're not on the webcam

Another question:
Asking someone what he/she is wearing while chatting on the internet, if someone asked you that, would you consider it flirting? I told my gf to not ask that question... because she asked my own little brother that and that that's a flirting question but she says its not flirting.

 

[Guest]

Phone sex

I work in the phone sex industry, and love to have recreational phone with my gf. I find the best phone is when both partners are into it....usually masturbating or very playful. Its all about imagining what can be....and talking about it.



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[MissTaken]

Phone sex

Initially, when I participated in phone sex, I didn't add a lot of conversation. Certainly, I added a bit of noise

As your girlfriend gets more comfortable, you may find that the phone erotica evolves with your relationship. Comfort levels will increase and you should both learn more about how to enjoy one another.

Enjoy!

 

[SteamyChik]

I was in the phone sex industry for several years. I loved it! Also, women can call many phone sex lines for free. I liked doing it for free a lot more than for money.

You might try coaxing her to say things, tell her to repeat things for you. That might get her use to talking.

 

[ericred50]

Like cyber sex, email sex stories, phone sex, self gratification, etc it is all in the mind. If you are not tuned in to each other, then it will not work. You both need to want to do it, and you have to describe what you want to do, the way, how you feeling and what you are doing. You make your minds fantise, you think sex, talk sex, make each other want sex, to the point of no return. Only problem is you do not know if the other person is faking. The way to find out is to ask them to put the phone on to there heart, you will then be able to tell. My heart beats fast and loud, with a big thump, thump any body like to try me out?