Phone Sex

[HoneyRyder62]

My 8,000 mile lover choses to live in 1970 and has yet to get a computer resorting to phone sex. Am I the only one left doing this? Does anyone have phone sex anymore?

 

[dangermoose007]

i love phone sex and cyber sex, but phone sex is way more risque. there's something wholey arousing listening to a female voice as you play with yourself. i've only done it i think about twice though, where as cyber sex i've done many a times. i think it's easier to convey what you want to do to the person via cyber, but it's easier to convey exactly what your feeling as far as sensations go over the phone


sooooo you live in toronto eh? me too

 

[HoneyRyder62]

Yeah Toronto's pretty cool, really cool though. I just moved here for school

 

[midwestyankee]

There is something incredibly intimate and powerful about the human voice that cannot possibly be duplicated with any other means. Most of us respond to aural cues far more readily than we know or imagine until we give ourselves the chance.

 

[Bobmi357]

I met my wife online. With a distance of 2400 miles between us, we engaged in phone sex for several months before we met face to face for the first time.

Oh the phone bills!!!

The funny thing is AFTER we met, and turned fantasy into reality, phone sex lost most of its appeal.

It took us another couple months after we had met before we could arrange to get together permanently. And phone sex after that point seemed bland, dull, tasteless compared to the real thing.

I guess if its all you have available, it will do in a pinch.

 

[sheath]

I love phone sex.

I had a habit of dating men who were always on the road...so the only way we had to stay close on a sexual level was through lots of creativity, and that included lots of phone sex.

I absolutely LOVE to hear a man enjoying himself.

S.

 

[devoman]

Huge, huge fan. Huge.
Metaphorically speaking.

 

[Vixandra]

With the Pacific between us, hubby and I had little choice when I first came to Japan. Now he's here though- I prefer the real thing to phone sex. But it'll do in a pinch if need be.

 

[Distortion]

I just tried it for the first time last weekend
I had tried with her before that, but I was kinda embarrassed. She started out trying to keep me calm doing small talk, but that turned out to make it worse somehow, lol. Second time we warmed up online and then just continued on the phone, very awesome. I'm not very noisy though, so all she probably heard from me was gasping breaths. But she said that's all she needed to know I was enjoying myself.

Her on the other hand... Having someone screaming my name and moaning - good times =)

 

[SlowGuy]

The funny thing is AFTER we met, and turned fantasy into reality, phone sex lost most of its appeal.

I had the pleasure of dating a woman in NY. And after a vigorous weekend, she'd take the train home and call me for some phone sex. She was incredibly horny and with her rabbit buzzing in the background, I'd try to work out the best fantasy for her in my best Barry White voice. She *really* liked the idea of other couples getting off watching her have sex. It wasn't something she was ready to do and we were too busy to discuss it while we were together, but it was perfect material for phone sex.

The phone sex was definitely better after we had met and I could refer to things we had done and picture the expression on her face, etc. It was another dimension that we explored to make up for not being together.

As always, YMMV.

 

[freddyandeddy]

We tried phone sex while I was on a trip to Angola for two weeks. It was a bit awkward and it just made me long for my wife more, causing a near-nervous breakdown (avoid war-torn starving countries if you can help it). Not only that, but our phone bill was $600.00 for the 51 minute call! Have not had it since. We're determined to try again at some point, though. Her voice is TOO darned sexy not to.

 

[College_geek]

Never really tried phone sex. I've had quite a few propositions from guys on Lit about trying it with them, but that's one thing I don't do. I do cyber sometimes with guys online, but phone sex is way more intimate, to me. Phone sex with my boyfriend, though, now that is a possibility, since he is back at home and I'm at college across the state.

 

[Zen_Life]

Phone sex is fun. It has to be with someone you can talk to though. Cant' just be moaning and groaning. That's no fun.

 

[lovelylisa]

I haven't done it in a loooong time, until this past weekend. And then I talked to this lovely gal & can't wait to do it again! I had so much fun!

It's something you need to practice with though, to get really good at it.

 

[Sienna]

Phone sex is fun. It has to be with someone you can talk to though. Cant' just be moaning and groaning. That's no fun.

I do phonesex with my partner sometimes...it's a lot more better visualising that person as you know them and their personality is much more clearer...if you know what I mean...

Hi Zen_Life

 

[Zen_Life]

Oh I do know what I mean. If you know the person it's sooo much better.

 

[Zen_Life]

And hi, Sie!

 

[SlowGuy]

It's something you need to practice with though, to get really good at it.

It's definitely harder than you might think. Grunting and saying, "Oh baby" will only take you so far...

There was a woman on Lit who did phone sex for extra money, she had some great stories. (I don't know if she talked about it on the boards, I heard them in person.)

 

[highconcept]

dig it

When done right i love it. Hard to get a partner sometimes. I sometimes stumble on one on the boards late at night. They are usually very forward women who are comfortable with it and can be discrete and hot. Bad phone is the worst I recommend it. But it's not for everybody.

 

[Noor]

I am rather fond of phone sex, with some partners more than others. It helps a lot of you have had rl sex or cyber with them first, although I can think of a couple people on lit who were just fine without any previous sexual interaction, and one in particular who just blew me away, a one shot deal so far...

I am a very aural person so phone sex is great in that sense, it also has allowed me to have and hear a couple men I would never be able to have sex with in real life.

Phone sex is nice because you can hear your partners breathing, excitement, little or loud noise. You can tell what they like easier than in cyber. It is more exciting for me and less work, don't have to type or spell.

There is one man's voice that simply turns me as soon as I hear it, and when I hear him come, I come again. I love to hear him, the changes of his voice & his breathing, his words, I love to hear him come.

With phone sex is is easier to drown out the outside world, the distractions. I can wear my headset even a sleep mask, lie under my duvet, and nothing exists for me but the voice on the other end of the phone. The only draw backs are that sometimes I end up wrapping the cord around my neck or disconnecting them

 

[Honey123]

I had phone sex for the first time in my life about a month or two ago....It was so much fun. It was with this guy I work with - who is younger than me and absolutely gorgeous.. Just hearing his voice saying "yeah, baby" to the things I was saying to him got me extremely wet - I came pretty quick -- Knowing that he was in the office and I was at home was a bit of a turn on as well...it felt naughty and right all at the same time.

This guy brings out a very naughty side of me.. I love it.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I said "All the time", but not because I have phone sex all the time. In fact, I have it rarely. Very rarely. But your options left me no other choice. It's something I've done often in the past, and I enjoy the hell out of it. You left no such "I enjoy it immensely" option.

 

[Filbod]

MMMmmmm I love phone sex... I started during my first year of college and just can't get enough... bad phonesex can be pretty bleak though, you just have to find the right partners I suppose...

 

[HoneyRyder62]

I am getting use to the phone sex now, it was akward at first but have yet to keep up the rythem. I find that when I get really hot it becomes hard to keep talking


Any tips on great phone sex?

 

[SlowGuy]

The only draw backs are that sometimes I end up wrapping the cord around my neck or disconnecting them

A case of auralerotic strangulation?

Be careful Noor, or you'll make the nightly news.