phone sex tips?

[belladonna40]

My b/f has been out of the country for almost a month....he was supposed to get home last week but coldn't. We've kind of hinted around at phone sex but I always get a bit uncomfortable and start giggling.

Can anyone give me any advice on how to go about it? I'd like to give him a call tomorrow and really surprise him.

Thanks (in advance)

 

[Monazwx]

Don't be nervous.
Tell him what you would like to do to/with him.
Once you hint, he'll pick up on the message you're sending.

(It helps to sound horny too.)

 

[skitch]

My ex and i did the phone sex thing and even had detailed discussions ABOUT phone sex.

I think that if a person is really really good at phone sex..it means that they have incredible potential with actual sex. It's the whole active imagination thing...of course that's not a problem for you i'm guessing.

What i always did..was turn off all the lights...except for maybe a lava lamp or something with a soft glow...turn on some Maxwell..the song CocoaCure is a good song..and it all helps you get in the mood..keep your eyes closed...and use your imagination to its fullest. always worked for me anyway

skitch

 

[joolushko]

The first time I surprised my husband with some phone sex, I started playing with myself fist. When I got close to my first orgasm, I would call him and then let him hear it all. It helped to break the ice for the first time. He got wildly horny.

 

[ilovewriting]

If you are quiet during sex in real life make sure you are not quiet during sex on the phone lol. When i used to do it with my gf i often went quiet (except for breathing) and had to remind myself that she isnt here with me so you gotta make a lot of noise!

 

[His_kitty]

My b/f has been out of the country for almost a month....he was supposed to get home last week but coldn't. We've kind of hinted around at phone sex but I always get a bit uncomfortable and start giggling.

Can anyone give me any advice on how to go about it? I'd like to give him a call tomorrow and really surprise him.

Thanks (in advance)

Realizing that I might be a little late with advice here it is anyway lol

Telling him what you'd like to do to him is good advice, but you should do that in great detail. Like this ~

"Right now I would love to push your back onto the bed, slide all the way up your body... holding your thick cock in my hands... sliding it between my wet lips..... my tongue flicking over your hard nipples before I begin sucking and biting them. Tapping the head of your cock against my clit ..... I "

Kinda like that ...... just close your eyes and imagine doing all those things to him, with him. After the first few minutes, it won't be so hard, you'll quickly be caught up in the moment and start enjoying yourself.

Also describe to him what you're doing to yourself at that moment, if your using toys or just your fingers. How your using them, where they are, how it feels.

Ask him to describe to you what he's doing, how he's feeling, how wet he is.

Another thing that I love doing in phonesex is making a game. He tells me what to do to myself, how many fingers to fuck myself with, how hard I should squeeze my breasts, if and when I should taste myself, what toys to use, etc etc. I tell him when to massage his balls, press his bridge, lightly squeeze the tip of his cock, run a thumb across the head spreading the pre cum, etc etc.
Then giving the other 'permission' to cum.

Encourage your partner in his climax, let each other know when your hitting that peak of excitement. Ask/beg him to cum for you, tell him to fuck his hand harder, faster. Tell him to imagine it's your tight pussy.

Sometimes men (or woman) just enjoy hearing their partner get off first, and that's enough. (I know that I love listening to my partner climax)

Even if you have already given him his phone sex surprise, maybe the few things I've told you, will give you some ideas for your next time.


kitty

 

[eric123550]

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