Phone sex tips?

[sheath]

I know I will get dozens of responses about different types of phones to use to fuck yourself with...that is NOT what I'm looking for, thanks. This is a serious question...

I'm asking for tips to make phone sex better. My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship and the phone sex is really hot most of the time, but I'm looking for more ideas. We've tried quite a lot, including BDSM...I've learned mostly it all comes down to having the trust in knowing that we are each doing EXACTLY what we say we are...or what we are asked to do...

So now I'm looking for ideas to surprise him with. What do you do to make phone sex the most enjoyable it can be? Are there little secrets and tips that seem to always get a response?

Thank you!

S.

 

[sheath]

Hmmm...no response?

I take it not many people have discovered the joys of phone sex????

S.

 

[Guest]

I assumed you were being buried in PMs......

 

[His_kitty]

Re: Hmmm...no response?

I take it not many people have discovered the joys of phone sex????

S.

Maybe not wanting to give out their trade secrets, or perhaps a little shy.





Erm, in the past when I was with someone just saying something naughty in mid conversation, or during a lull, was rather effective. If you haven't tried toys while talking to him that's another idea, and describe exactly what you are doing.

I always enjoyed directing him on his end as well, involve some items into his play. Toys, lube, lotions, etc etc.

Also I don't know if you and/or he even enjoy porn, but that can be a fun thing to do together... and reading each other erotica from here or something that you've written for him.

 

[sheath]

Sigh...

No...

I should probably go to another forum on Lit...the General Board seems to be more flirting than anything else.

But if anyone DOES have tips on great phone sex, please...I'm paying attention!

S.

 

[sheath]

Re: Re: Hmmm...no response?

Maybe not wanting to give out their trade secrets, or perhaps a little shy.





Erm, in the past when I was with someone just saying something naughty in mid conversation, or during a lull, was rather effective. If you haven't tried toys while talking to him that's another idea, and describe exactly what you are doing.

I always enjoyed directing him on his end as well, involve some items into his play. Toys, lube, lotions, etc etc.

Also I don't know if you and/or he even enjoy porn, but that can be a fun thing to do together... and reading each other erotica from here or something that you've written for him.

Thank you, His_Kitty. I appreciate your answers. One of our most enjoyable things is reading one of my stories to him. I'm a writer by trade, so that is one of the FIRST things we tried. For anyone wondering if that really works well, it does...especially if you write something that he can "act out" as you read.

Thank you for answering! Anyone else?

S.

 

[st4nton]

its all about the heavy breathing and the moaning.. see when im having phone sex i like to get crazy and combine these two things.. occasionally throwing in the "oh my god" just to spice things up a little bit. then right back to the heavy breathing and moaning.

 

[HeavyStick]

I have a hard time putting a condom over the receiver. She says she's on the pill but you never know.

 

[Trail48]

I have a hard time putting a condom over the receiver. She says she's on the pill but you never know.

Judging from your muscle man av, your normal condom will fit over the cell phone with room to spare

 

[His_kitty]

I have a hard time putting a condom over the receiver. She says she's on the pill but you never know.

Chicks today, just can't trust 'em.





Sheath yw....


Another thing, when you direct him (that is if you do or your interested in doing so) when you can tell he's getting close, make him stop. Just like ya'll might take breaks IRL, get him to wait here. Tease him up till he's almost at the point of whimpering.... ask him how much he needs you, how much he needs it. Keep asking if he's doing anything after you've told him not too...

Lord, I think I need to do something so that I can actually remember how this works myself.

 

[Killswitch]

One word.......SPEAKERPHONE

 

[Agent99]

If you are cooking dinner, just tell him how hot you are.
If you are brushing your hair, tell him you can feel your scalp tingling.
If you are eating dessert, tell him you taste such sweetness.
If you are washing your hands or are in the tub, tell him how wet you are.
If you are stuffing your face with snack foods, tell him how full you feel.

What? It aint like you're lying or anything.

 

[Lancecastor]

Rent "Girl 6" at Blockbastard. Good tips in there.

 

[sheath]

Thank you!

I appreciate all the responses.

Thanks again!

S.

 

[juicylips]

When "JL's Guide to Phenomenal PhoneSex" is published, I'll send ya a copy.

 

[Ginny]

letting him hear how wet you are....pussy juice noises....is always...umm...funnn...lil tricky getting phone down there....and fucking yourself with perhaps a dildo at the same time, but it's manageable....of course.....just a finger...tapping your hole....the crackly, wet noises as your finger slides in and out.....

hmmmm...

do you ever leave him phone sex voice mail messages?.....so he can have them saved on his phone and listen to them when he needs to....that's always appreciated....just let him know when you're calling....have his cell or other phone off....mmmmm fun city.....

falling asleep together afterward....rocks, too....

 

[RawHumor]

falling asleep together afterward....rocks, too....

But it can be expensive if you forget to hang up the phones first.

 

[DarkAngel]

Hehe..

I have fallen asleep on the phone..

 

[Ginny]

But it can be expensive if you forget to hang up the phones first.

lol...yesss...turtle used to just listen to me breathe....hating to hang up....after several times of us both going way over our cell minutes....we decided we might be able to cut back on the minutes expended just listening one another sleep....though it's very yum....he swears i don't snore at all, but the lil miracle says otherwise....and after a massive turtle induced orgasm....i'm sure i'm lying there...passed out....mouth open, drooling....sawing away......sexy, huh?....

 

[juicylips]

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[sheath]

But it can be expensive if you forget to hang up the phones first.

We were spending well over 1500 a month on phone bills.

Then we discovered...

UNLIMITED CALLING PLANS!

I'm sure a particular long-distance company is reconsidering their unlimited offer, considering all the money they are losing on us! LOL

S.

 

[sheath]

Thank you so much...

letting him hear how wet you are....pussy juice noises....is always...umm...funnn...lil tricky getting phone down there....and fucking yourself with perhaps a dildo at the same time, but it's manageable....of course.....just a finger...tapping your hole....the crackly, wet noises as your finger slides in and out.....

hmmmm...

do you ever leave him phone sex voice mail messages?.....so he can have them saved on his phone and listen to them when he needs to....that's always appreciated....just let him know when you're calling....have his cell or other phone off....mmmmm fun city.....

falling asleep together afterward....rocks, too....

WOW...

Damn, made me wet just imagining those!

S.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

When "JL's Guide to Phenomenal PhoneSex" is published, I'll send ya a copy.

Can I order two copies please..... I'm sure one of them is gonna get sticky pages....


Sheath... be VERY discriptive.... pretend the person you are talking to is blind and there with you..... discribe in details.....

 

[Ginny]

UNLIMITED CALLING PLANS!
I'm sure a particular long-distance company is reconsidering their unlimited offer, considering all the money they are losing on us!

lol....those unlimited plans rock for your home phone....almost seems too good to be true, but scoreeeeee.......and Sprint has some amazing plans out right now....for cell users...plus free phones....wooohoo for all of us phone sex freaks....

 

[Naughty Elf]

Shitty phone cards. 'nuff said