Phone Sex PLEASE

[dirtyd-99]

Ok, my boyfriend just moved away from me and lately we have been cybering...he wants to try out phone sex. I am all for it except i have never done it before and i am worried that i will let him down! I am not very expiernced and i have been the most sexually invloved with him..so if u could please give me tips it would be great! feel free to email me also..rosy2880@hotmail.com

~*thank you all for your help!*~

 

[R Nitelight]

dirtyd-99

Ask him what he's wearing....

 

[Guest]

After the "hello"s and "I love you"s are done...

Change the mood and tone of the conversation to something sexual. Perhaps tell him what you'd love to be doing to him at tht moment, or what you would love him to do. Or, you could start to go into detail of what you are actually doing while talking to him. Don't worry about being "good" or not. It's your boyfriend, not a job. Just have fun with it and go with the flow. Perhaps over time the two of you may get into role playing or discurring fantasies you have.

 

[cymbidia]

I am wildly amused that anyone would think this dirtyd-99 poster is a real girl.

Real girls don't post thier email addy on public boards, not even dumb real girls, not even brand-new-to-the-net real girls. Real girls have been told by MANY people before they ever logged on for the first time that such a thing was a big ole fat "no-no". Real girls are more afraid of stalkers and crazies than to do something so utterly stupid.

Real girls don't feed line-by-line perfect fantasies to the legions of... well... to the legions of those who would believe such a thing, either. Not unless they're getting paid for it. Not unless they're actually real little boys or real old men.

C'mon! Ever heard the saying, "If it seems too good to be true it usually is"?

~g~
cym

 

[Guest]

I must not be a rel girl then.





Oh wait! I'm a woman. Nevermind then.

 

[Everts4]

be yourself

Its just like cybering, and you have to be yourself.

Instead of typing you just talk to him. Its hot babe, you will both love it

 

[cymbidia]

I must not be a rel girl then.

Oh wait! I'm a woman. Nevermind then.

But you didn't post the original post, did you? You didn't really believe "her", either, i'm assuming. You simply replied in case there's someone in some kinda similar situation out there who won't post and who really could use the info.

 

[Guest]

I've seen other females post e-mail addys in threads before. I've done it too.

 

[GulfCoastAquarian]

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[cymbidia]

A sober and heartfelt warning

It's never smart to post personally identifying details on a public BB. This would include your email addy. It's kinda like having unprotected sex with someone who told you he's a slut and has unprotected sex all over town... and you're midway through your cycle and probably fertile. Eventually, something bad is GOING to happen to you as a result of your actions.

Ever been cyber-stalked? I've been online since the very early '90's, since a time LONG before women were present in any appreciable numbers anywhere on the net. You learned FAST back in those days to keep your private info private, and that included even supposedly anonymous email addys.

There was an infamous case of cyber stalking (around 1994? 1995?) in which a man found out about a woman from details she posted on a public BBS. She felt safe cuz she had a anonymous email addy. He was a good hacker, though, and got into her acct and found all her real life info and then came after her for real. She was injured. The courts were forced to adopt new definitions of harassment and stalking and, coincidentally, the term "cyber-stalking" was born.

Once upon a time, shortly after i'd come online and was still very innocent about the how to protect myself, a casual online "friend" showed up on my doorstep (he lived several states away, big western states, not little eastern states) and announced he'd come to stay awhile and get to know me better. Freaked me out in a way that has stayed with me.

You're better to never ever ever post any personally identifying details, including a supposedly safe and anonymous email addy, on a public BB. Good hackers can get the info anyway. Hobby computerists can do searches of your name and come up with stuff if you've been online any length of time. Anyone who really wants to find you, can, unless you've taken extraordinary precautions to avoid that. Give personal details via email, not out here in public. Don't make it easy for the nuts to get to you.

 

[Guest]

Cyber-stalked? I'm not worried about that. I've been online since about '94, so I've been around too.