I tried cyber a few times many years ago and once the novelty wore off I found I was much better off just looking at pictures or videos to get my jollies.
Had to settle for phone sex for a while with my lady. Greatful that we don't have to do that anymore. It's ok in a jam I guess but I don't ever find myself wishing I could have it.
Though we do from time to time still have some pretty hot text message exchanges. That's always fun, but I consider that 'extended foreplay' as opposed to a main event.
Ugh. Should have said this thread was closed b/c I lost interest but I'll respond. There are advantages to phone sex. No typing (other than dialing a number if you are the one initiating)
and you do get to hear an actual voice.
And these are but just a few "direct" phone sex threads. Many other threads mention phone sex somewhere or another in their conversation. My search pulled up 266 threads in total. (And, then, if you encompass all of the other boards on Lit I'm sure you'll receive even more!)