Perception of moods on Lit forums.

ShaneoD

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Just a quick question.

I'm fairly new to using the forum a lot so I might have this wrong, but a couple of times in the last couple of days I've got PM's from ladies on here assuming that I'm horny because I'm online. I'll admit it can be a reason I log on, and even when I'm not particularly in the mood the right image or certain messages can lead me in that direction. But other times I log on just to pass time.

Is this a general expectation of people who are online are horny or do some come on to pass time?
 
I'm pretty much always horny, but that doesn't mean I come here for sex. I like to flirt and play silly games in the Playground.
 
I'm pretty much always horny, but that doesn't mean I come here for sex. I like to flirt and play silly games in the Playground.

That actually made me think, when I thought horny, I was thinking of the physical aspects of it, whereas the PM's were probably referring to the mood you've described.

Thanks that's quite eye opening.
 
Some come when horny to get satisfied, others come to kill time or to learn things and ask questions.
But some come to be obnoxious and to poke fun at others. There are many reasons to come here.
 
But some come to be obnoxious and to poke fun at others.

you admitted to being here behind your wife's back
- that you didn't inform her of the sexual or emotional liaisons you formed on Lit.

Does that give you the right to be judgmental of us?
 
you admitted to being here behind your wife's back
- that you didn't inform her of the sexual or emotional liaisons you formed on Lit.

Does that give you the right to be judgmental of us?
Sorry to spoil your tune, She allows sissy to play here and has the option to read everything sissy writes here.
Not being judgemental just stating fact, shall we ask the others?
 
Just a quick question.

I'm fairly new to using the forum a lot so I might have this wrong, but a couple of times in the last couple of days I've got PM's from ladies on here assuming that I'm horny because I'm online. I'll admit it can be a reason I log on, and even when I'm not particularly in the mood the right image or certain messages can lead me in that direction. But other times I log on just to pass time.

Is this a general expectation of people who are online are horny or do some come on to pass time?

As the others have observed, people have all sorts of reasons. I enjoy the fascinating parade of humanity that troops through these forums, and the well-written stories, and the pictures of sexy men.

To your point about assumptions, many men on Lit hit on women like they get a Euro for every PM they send. It's easy to make a sweeping generalization that all men do that when you've seen so much of that behaviour.

Do what makes you happy and remember the delete key exists for a reason. :)
 
I’m here to pass time and a interesting pm or two wouldn’t hurt.
 
Just a quick question.

I'm fairly new to using the forum a lot so I might have this wrong, but a couple of times in the last couple of days I've got PM's from ladies on here assuming that I'm horny because I'm online. I'll admit it can be a reason I log on, and even when I'm not particularly in the mood the right image or certain messages can lead me in that direction. But other times I log on just to pass time.

Is this a general expectation of people who are online are horny or do some come on to pass time?

I have this same problem with the women in the isolated blurting thread of Harry.

They pretend to hate you in front of others but are sending private emails filled with explicit passion.

It can be confusing, but I enjoy the private photos!
 
I just come on to check, see what litsters are up to, visit a bit, argue on the general board. My sexual interests are elsewhere
 
I just come on to check, see what litsters are up to, visit a bit, argue on the general board. My sexual interests are elsewhere

Hey, Miss Noor, I hope you are well. Things are okay here in the north. I'd say things were good, but there's this fucking virus lurking about.
 
I've been reading lit for years, but only started coming on the forums recently. Mostly here to play games (now I've found them) and chew the fat.

Any additional PMs or Kik messages from ladies is a bonus, and I couldn't just shoot off PMs at every woman on here. That just comes across as rude and intrusive.
 
wait - people are horny on Lit?! That's disgusting - I'm gong to use my covid-wipes to sanitise my keyboard and monitor immediately. I'll go sanitise my eyes and genital next.

I don;t know if it's been said already, but the OP should be mindful that we have a number of semi-literate Alsatians and one Siamese cat who post regularly. If you get a suspect PM, send back a photo of a bone and see how it goes from there ;) Have fun!
 
I don't come for sexual reasons at all. I have friends here who I come to see - usually in the mornings while having coffee.

That's it. Any Sexual related pm's go straight to trash and I block the person.
 
I don't come for sexual reasons at all. I have friends here who I come to see - usually in the mornings while having coffee.

That's it. Any Sexual related pm's go straight to trash and I block the person.

Ffs I said I was sorry about that. Will ya let it go?
 
I just come to Lit to send sexually explicit PMs to Mona.
Me too! But then she blocked me.
I don't come for sexual reasons at all. I have friends here who I come to see - usually in the mornings while having coffee.

That's it. Any Sexual related pm's go straight to trash and I block the person.

This. The same for me as well.
Add in some boredom and venting.
 
Just a quick question.

I'm fairly new to using the forum a lot so I might have this wrong, but a couple of times in the last couple of days I've got PM's from ladies on here assuming that I'm horny because I'm online. I'll admit it can be a reason I log on, and even when I'm not particularly in the mood the right image or certain messages can lead me in that direction. But other times I log on just to pass time.

Is this a general expectation of people who are online are horny or do some come on to pass time?

Most of the "ladies" offering text based frolics are probably not. Catfish infested waters.
 
I just come to Lit to send sexually explicit PMs to Mona.

I think I will subvert expectations and send her some exotic recipes, and maybe some suggestions for adventure travel excursions. I'll still be beating off of course, but she won't know that.

This is an interesting topic though. I never came here for any sort of real life interaction or mutual PM diddling. I only ever came here to express some creativity in a space where the ethos was "create whatever you want, don't be an asshole* and don't hurt anybody".... *entertaining assholes could earn favor.

Never in all the years have I been approached cold and had it insinuated that I was hot to trot. Maybe I use too many syllables.
 
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