Penis woes

[TruPlaya]

Hi,

Im a little nervous about my penis and am hoping one of the ladies or guys could clear it up.

Its not about my size, apparently 15-16 is normal.

Its about circumsizian (spelling?).

Every porn movie I have seen, or even every pic I have seen of guys and guys getting it on, is with a guy who absolutely no excess skins on his penis.

It looks just hard and long with the head showing, and no skin 'over the head' or anything.

I am uncut, and with my penis, even when Im hard, I still have skin on my head. Not hanging over like when im soft, but just on it. Its not pulled all the way back like everyone else's in pics/movies I have seen.

Is this normal?

When I masturbate, the skin is pulled back and forth over the head, but at no point is it constantly behind the head. If this makes sense.

I sometimes try to masturbate starting off by pulling the skin behind the head but it always slides forward and ends on the head.

Can anyone give some advice on this matter please.

If all the pics/movies I have seen is of guys who are circumsized, im sure I would have, in my time stumbled upon an uncircumsized porn star...(which I havent).

 

[Bindii]

Don't panic, you sound perfectly normal to me.

You should however be able to gently pull the skin back over the head of your penis once its erect - this doesn't mean that it will stay there just just you should physically be able to do it.

 

[Lust Engine]

Hi,

Im a little nervous about my penis and am hoping one of the ladies or guys could clear it up.

Its not about my size, apparently 15-16 is normal.

Its about circumsizian (spelling?).

Every porn movie I have seen, or even every pic I have seen of guys and guys getting it on, is with a guy who absolutely no excess skins on his penis.

It looks just hard and long with the head showing, and no skin 'over the head' or anything.

I am uncut, and with my penis, even when Im hard, I still have skin on my head. Not hanging over like when im soft, but just on it. Its not pulled all the way back like everyone else's in pics/movies I have seen.

Is this normal?

When I masturbate, the skin is pulled back and forth over the head, but at no point is it constantly behind the head. If this makes sense.

I sometimes try to masturbate starting off by pulling the skin behind the head but it always slides forward and ends on the head.

Can anyone give some advice on this matter please.

If all the pics/movies I have seen is of guys who are circumsized, im sure I would have, in my time stumbled upon an uncircumsized porn star...(which I havent).

I agree with Bindii. You sound perfectly normal to me. And PLEASE oh PLEASE stop using porn movies as a guide to what we should look like, perform or other wise!

They're hardly realistic about depicting real life! If porn movies were accurate about portraying real life, I'd get laid at every turn. Nurses at the hospital would be stark raving nymphos, every person knocking at my door would be a 38DD vixen wearing no panties, my cumshots could put out fires in the next county, we'd all have the stamina to last for hours on end and perform all those Cirque de Soleil acrobatic poses with four blondes at the end of my cock. Don't use porn as a guide to real life especially when it comes to our own body images; we'd be let down all the time.

If you want an accurate gauge as far as if you're within the norm (and considering some of the people here on Lit, the term "normal" can be awfully vague!), go seek out a medical professional. They can be more of service than those of us here.

 

[Ice Princess]

Sounds normal enough to me too (although I'm not a doctor and so that's not expert advice).

LustEngine is absolutely right. Porn movies tend to be pretty monotonous in that the cocks all look the same, almost all the women are completely shaved with breast implants, and of course they all wail like hyenas when they come. We're all pretty lucky that sex is more varied and more fun than that, with all sorts of bodies and sensations and reactions. You just don't match a porn cliche. Nothing to worry about.

 

[MR.GGG]

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.."NORMAL" , dude. Some people have a bit more skin than others do. It may cum as a shock to you but some women have really huge tits and some are as flat as a 13 yr old boys'. Some guys are hung like rhinos and some are no mre that large clits. Some people have blue eyes - some have green or brown. Some people are short and fat. Some are long and skinny or fat.

If you spend your life looking at what other people look like and wondering, " EWhy don't I look like that?" , you'll drive yourself starkers.

...AND watching porn movies is about the worst thing young people can do when it comes to learning about sex and making love. Shit some of the idiotic things thay do in porn...vaginal to anal and back again is probably the stupidest most unhealthy and dangerous thing you can do during sex yet you see it all the time and UNSAFE sex is the norm. I mean some of these women have had more pricks in 'em than grannies pin-cushion yet here they are all having sex with no condoms. GREAT SEX EDUCATION - NOT
!!

If the loose skin is botherig you it is a fairly simple day surgery to have some of it snipped off so you"look" tight when you have an erection. I'd be more concerned with keeping it super clean though. That is probably the only reason -medically speaking - why people are circumsized. It is a LOT easier to keep clean when you're cut back. You call though. Otherwise, take a deep breath. You're as "normal" as anybody else which means you are DIFFERENT!

 

[Puppi]

Its not about my size, apparently 15-16 is normal.

15 or 16 what is normal? Certainly not inches! 5.5" to 6.5" is considered "average" for human males.

On a side note, I feel UNcut penises are by far sexier than those mutilated ones with the foreskin "ripped" off!


~Puppi

 

[MisterHappy]

i wouldn't worry about it too much

i'm also uncircumsized and around the same age and it has never weirded out any girl that's seen me naked ... most were a bit intrigued at the novelty but that was all ... i guess it makes blowjob technique a bit different so you might need to direct the girl a bit but that's it ... one more thing fyi ... you'd be suprised how many younger men are intact ... i believe in the US it is more than one in ten for people our age and for kids being born today it is about one in two (i'm not positive so correct me if i'm wrong)

 

[sugargator]

Re: Re: Penis woes

15 or 16 what is normal? Certainly not inches! 5.5" to 6.5" is considered "average" for human males.

On a side note, I feel UNcut penises are by far sexier than those mutilated ones with the foreskin "ripped" off!


~Puppi

oh yes I agree...I enjoy un-cut men a lil more than cut...not that it makes a huge difference. Mister-happy seems correct about blow jobs being slightly different. different sensitive areas. Dont be nervous!!!!!!!!!! Im sure your great looking

 

[Minout]

Its not about my size, apparently 15-16 is normal.

I think he means centimeters not inches. 15 centimeters is 6 inches.


Minout

 

[peachykeen]

definitely cm puppi

tru you are completely normal! just remember to keep it clean.

most porn movies come out of LA. People in LA are (largely) not normal. So for god's sake don't compare yourself to them.

 

[Lust Engine]

definitely cm puppi

tru you are completely normal! just remember to keep it clean.

most porn movies come out of LA. People in LA are (largely) not normal. So for god's sake don't compare yourself to them.

I think if we compared oursleves to porn stars and based our own self worth based on those comparisons, we'd all be monks & nuns.

 

[TruPlaya]

Well, Im not talking out of purely porn movies, alot of the ones Ive seen on lit purely for 'curiosity' are totally cut and clean.

 

[Lust Engine]

Well, Im not talking out of purely porn movies, alot of the ones Ive seen on lit purely for 'curiosity' are totally cut and clean.

Regardless of what you've seen out there whether it be in porn magazines, films, here on Lit or even while changing in a locker room... the good Lord made you what you are. Be proud of what you've got. If it's a medical malady then I'd take it up with a medical professional, but from everything that you've described to the loyal Lit crowd here you sound as normal as normal can be!

 

[TruPlaya]

thanks

 

[dobin]

The only thing I would add here is that as long as the foreskin comes back over the head easily and is not tight you have nothing to worry about. I speak from experience here, my foreskin was getting tighter as I am getting older, and sometimes during sex when it came back would slightly tear, so at the grand old age of 45 I have been circumcised. If it had not gotten tight I would never have had it done. You have nothing to worry about, as lots of people on here have said just make sure you keep it clean.

 

[Booty Bandit]

Ouch !

 

[Different Guy]

Penis Foreskin

Ok I am in the same boat as TruPlaya here. I am, believe it or not, a virgin heh heh. Nah, never wanted someone enough to sleep with but away from that. I am sexually active all bar the intercourse ok?

Now, like what TruPlaya is saying, when I masturbate, my foreskin repeatedly goes back and forth over the head. I can go long or fast in terms of cumming, depends how turned on I am.

What puzzles me, is and I'm afraid I have to use porn here as an example. In a porn flick, whenever they use a condom it's always perfect stuck to the penis. Like, there is no foreskin therefore nothing to move on the penis.

On myself, (I have experimented of course, better to be sure than sorry) I pull my foreskin past behind the head no problem, no pain and roll on the condom. But once the condom is on, my foreskin still goes back over the head and say when I masturbate my foreskin is moving back and forth over the head. The condom stays on fine, y'know, no danger of it coming off but it just don't look right

Do you follow what I'm saying? I am planning on having sex with my partner in the next week so it'd be good to know if this is normal rather than her saying, that condom isn't on properly yeah?

And thanks to TruPlaya for wording a question that I wanted to ask but didn't know how to

 

[pinklipstick]

Re: Penis Foreskin

On myself, (I have experimented of course, better to be sure than sorry) I pull my foreskin past behind the head no problem, no pain and roll on the condom. But once the condom is on, my foreskin still goes back over the head and say when I masturbate my foreskin is moving back and forth over the head. The condom stays on fine, y'know, no danger of it coming off but it just don't look right

Not to sound crass, but it's hardly a fashion show. As long as it's firmly ensconced in the wrapper, you're fine. And more than likely, you'll be hiding it fast enough anyways.

Originally posted by Puppi
On a side note, I feel UNcut penises are by far sexier than those mutilated ones with the foreskin "ripped" off!

Amen to that!

 

[peachykeen]

hey dif guy- take your time eith your partner, let her 'get to know' your cock, and let her put the condom on you...

 

[Narcosis]

lmao@16 inches

 

[Lust Engine]

lmao@16 inches

That's practically a diving board for Smurfs!



But to answer some of the earlier concerns by Diff, try a bit of lube INSIDE the condom. It might help somewhat and give it a wee bit more play without risking slippage. Good luck!

 

[Different Guy]

There's no more risk of it slipping off than anyone else I would imagine but for other guys out there, if you're willing to, say how you wear one? How many guys out there wear a condom and have their foreskin move with it on during sex?

 

[TruPlaya]

Ive never put on a condom.

 

[Huggles]

There's no more risk of it slipping off than anyone else I would imagine but for other guys out there, if you're willing to, say how you wear one? How many guys out there wear a condom and have their foreskin move with it on during sex?

Yes, it moves, but as long as you put a small drop of lube on your foreskin before you roll it on, then the foreskin moves inside the top of the condom, and all is fine.

Also, get the right sized condom..
If it's too loose, it will fall off, if it's too tight, it will snap off like a rubber band across the room!

 

[Huggles]

Well, Im not talking out of purely porn movies, alot of the ones Ive seen on lit purely for 'curiosity' are totally cut and clean.

Don't worry about it, it's very uncommon for circumcisions to occure now, except for medical or religious reasons.

I lived in a small town, were Im pretty sure I was the only kid in the whole town who wasn't circumcised. It was pretty traumatic when kids would hang around in the toilets while you went so they could catch a peak of "The Freak"..

Luckily for kids born now, they won't have to be mutilated anymore.