Pegging

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We are an older couple and we actually tried this last night for the first time. He has had prostate surgery and has some performance issues. As this was the first time, we went slow and easy and nothing too big but it seem to work well for him and he enjoyed it. I did not orgasm until after but I thought it was hot and fun to do.
 
We are an older couple and we actually tried this last night for the first time. He has had prostate surgery and has some performance issues. As this was the first time, we went slow and easy and nothing too big but it seem to work well for him and he enjoyed it. I did not orgasm until after but I thought it was hot and fun to do.

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Can't be arsed reading all 101 pages of replies so this may have been said before, but my 2p worth is as follows (may be helpful to pegging newbies):

It's a very intense experience, especially if you've not done much or any butt play before. A cock-sized thing right up your asshole isn't the same as a small buttplug or finger. The feeling of not being in control as you're being stretched may well psych you out. You may prefer, as I do, to be in a position where you do feel in control of how deeply and fast you're being penetrated (I like to sit on top, cowgirl style and take my time finding the best angle and position before I really start riding it and taking it as deep as I can). Although the perceived submissiveness of being bent over and taken doggystyle is a hot fantasy to many, the reality can often be the dildo tip banging up hard against the bend in your sigmoid colon, which hurts and is a big turnoff.

You may be surprised how hard it is to maintain an erection while being pegged, especially if there's discomfort or uncertainty involved (back to the feeling in control and positioning thing). I couldn't cum the first couple of times (I also couldn't walk for an hour after the first time, jelly legs!) It's such a different feeling for a guy, it kind of upends your preconceptions about what makes you horny. The cumming will happen though with familiarity

Douching beforehand isn't an absolute essential but if you don't want your lady killing the mood by going "ewwww" if she sees some "residue" on the thing she's thrusting into you, it's not a bad idea to clean up first. Easy enough to do and you don't need special gear, a shower hose with the head unscrewed will get it done (pump warm water in then expel it in the toilet, repeat if necessary then back in the shower for a final cleanup; it feels like having diarrhoea but get over it, feeling confident during the act is nicer).

If you're worried it'll turn you gay or submissive or "less of a man" if those things aren't in your nature, don't. It's just another fun thing a man and woman can do together, and if she's openminded and sex-positive, she should enjoy how turned on you'll get. I personally regard it as a more dominant act, as I'm the one on top during, and it ends with a cum shower for her. If you want to feel submissive and feminised, that's fine too though. Everyone's experience is their own.


Thank you so much for this!!!
 
I think most men "assume" their female partners will be opposed to the idea. I'd say if she's open enough to rim and finger your ass, she's probably willing to peg. Sex should boil down to giving your partner pleasure. If you're honest about what gives you pleasure and your partner wants to please you, it's a no-brainer! I'd strap that cock on and immediately fulfill his wish!

I have never rimmed a man but quite enjoyed the strap on and giving him a good poke. I guess some would find it distasteful but I can't see not doing this for you man if he likes it.
 
I think most men "assume" their female partners will be opposed to the idea. I'd say if she's open enough to rim and finger your ass, she's probably willing to peg. Sex should boil down to giving your partner pleasure. If you're honest about what gives you pleasure and your partner wants to please you, it's a no-brainer! I'd strap that cock on and immediately fulfill his wish!

I think for the same reason some men don't like it (they may feel they're surrenderring their masculinity) some female partners might begin to wonder if their partner has bi or homosexual tendencies. They can feel threatened. I know it took some research and lots of talking with my wife to peg me and be comfortable with it. Now she seems to enjoy it. She gives me crap for being a size queen though :D
 
I think for the same reason some men don't like it (they may feel they're surrenderring their masculinity) some female partners might begin to wonder if their partner has bi or homosexual tendencies. They can feel threatened. I know it took some research and lots of talking with my wife to peg me and be comfortable with it. Now she seems to enjoy it. She gives me crap for being a size queen though :D

I feel like everyone is a size queen once is taking something inside them
 
Wife had one of her friends over, had her wild time while I watched, I ended up cumming while slowing jerking it to the porn show my wife was putting on. He finished and went to take a shower, my sexy little wife pulled her strapon out, slid her "cock" up inside her and then told me to come bend over, she pulled the creamy dildo out and slid it up inside me, was still fucking me when he walked out and watched for a bit, kissed my wife while she was in mid hump and said we can have some fun with this later. Cannot wait till the next time he is over to see where it's going to go.
 
I think most men "assume" their female partners will be opposed to the idea. I'd say if she's open enough to rim and finger your ass, she's probably willing to peg. Sex should boil down to giving your partner pleasure. If you're honest about what gives you pleasure and your partner wants to please you, it's a no-brainer! I'd strap that cock on and immediately fulfill his wish!

Yes please
 
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I have never rimmed a man but quite enjoyed the strap on and giving him a good poke. I guess some would find it distasteful but I can't see not doing this for you man if he likes it.

i have found that most men fantasize about there woman taking them, there just scared of the taboo of it i love it and would encourage any one thinking about it just do it, once you have you will ask for it again
 
I think most men "assume" their female partners will be opposed to the idea. I'd say if she's open enough to rim and finger your ass, she's probably willing to peg. Sex should boil down to giving your partner pleasure. If you're honest about what gives you pleasure and your partner wants to please you, it's a no-brainer! I'd strap that cock on and immediately fulfill his wish!

Whole heartedly agree, if feels good do it!
 
Good for you! And try rimming him sometime when the mood is right. It can be very erotic and pleasurable. Just remember good hygiene is key with it! Then slap on some flavored lube and have fun!

Hygiene is definitely important, slip a finger in a rub his prostate, he’ll love it! And have him rim you too!
 
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