Pegging Question

[dashd]

For those of you engaged in pegging I have some questions:
1) Realistic dildo or doesn't matter?
2) For a more realistic experience, does anyone use a squirting dildo?
Inquiring minds want to know.

 

[Goldenfinger]

For those of you engaged in pegging I have some questions:
1) Realistic dildo or doesn't matter?
2) For a more realistic experience, does anyone use a squirting dildo?
Inquiring minds want to know.

The answers to you questions are all personal preference. It doesn’t matter to me if its realistic or not. We do like them to have a bigger head. My wife likes the sight of it pushing into me and I like that it hits my prostate like a speed bump.

After reading story here my wife thought it would be a fun to try a squirting dildo. It can be a very erotic play.

 

[JSM5TX]

Realistic didlo for sure. I don’t like the smoothness of a plane dildo.

I also like a large head to hit the prostate just right.

 

[SissySalina]

It is a very personal preference, sissy a 12" large head dildo with large hanging balls. Do know someone that prefers a horse cock shaped head for the feel of it going in.

Never had much success with squirting ones, prefer the real thing when it cums to that feeling.

 

[Akinkymind]

It is completely subjective. One thing that has always been of utmost importance imo, is that whatever dildo she uses, it needs to be something that she feels confident and sexy with. The difference in the experience is really noticeable when she knows she looks hot, so I would get her perspectives on what she would find sexy. Size, color, shape, options…etc.

 

[bjlatx]

We only use realistic looking dildos. We have several that we use of differing sizes and colors. I wouldn’t want one that isn’t realistic looking.

 

[dadbod4u]

Having one that is realistic and one that isn't, I much prefer the realistic one. But that is totally personal preference. She could go either way with it.

 

[Goldenfinger]

It is completely subjective. One thing that has always been of utmost importance imo, is that whatever dildo she uses, it needs to be something that she feels confident and sexy with. The difference in the experience is really noticeable when she knows she looks hot, so I would get her perspectives on what she would find sexy. Size, color, shape, options…etc.

I agree. When it comes down to it she’s the one wearing it. It helps if she’s excited about what she’s wearing. Over the years we have bought quite a few. Different sizes and shapes, ones ment for prostate stimulation. The only ones she puts a show on with are more realistic ones.

 

[Just2Kinky]

For those of you engaged in pegging I have some questions:
1) Realistic dildo or doesn't matter?
2) For a more realistic experience, does anyone use a squirting dildo?
Inquiring minds want to know.

Well, I've only been lucky enough to find one lady that would peg me and she used the only one she had. It was a little bigger than average size and quite fun.
This led me to trying out the real thing and based on more than a few of those, I'd have to say 1) realistic is best, and 2) I definitely like them to squirt.... I'll add a third... they are better when they are warm.

 

[cubbyfire04]

My S.O. likes to match her dildos to her outfit.... That's more a color preference, but as the receiver I do prefer a more realistic shape. Even in the unrealistically large sizes, I find that an actual cock shape (vs like a dragon dick lol) is far more comfortable.

Squirting dildos are fun, but kind of clumsy for us I think. We have one that has kinda just turned into a lube injector to warm up with before going big.

 

[buckboy]

The joy and pleasure are the realistic part by my account, aspects that help are things that reduce discomfort or require extra effort to use. Starting out 2 things seem to be helpful regarding the toy, a pliable material soft enough to give before the muscles do which is 'almost' subjective and less texture rather than more as friction isn't really helpful to begin with and is part and parcel with the lube and relaxation. One more note is length over girth, extra length helps the wearer not slip out by accident thus providing more freedom to move rather than for more penetration. Buy some durable condoms in bulk, they're designed for such things and help keep it tidy

 

[Goldenfinger]

we’ve never used out squinting for the sole purpose of applying lube. We have a lube applicator. but if she thinks we need a little more lube while using in she does just cum a little. I do agree that they aren’t the best dildos to use but they have there purposes. In our case it is mostly for my wife. She wanted to get the most out of switching roles And believe me she got(I got) her bang for her buck.

We have put my cum in it as we a fake cum. I have sucked her off and she has cum in my mouth, I’ve sucked her off and she has blew her load on my face. She’s pegged me a came in me, she’s pegged me and pulled out and came on my stomach. If I’ve done it to her she’s done it to me.

My wife’s choice of dildos really only depends on the activities and positions we will enjoying that evening. We’ve been doing this for a while so we’ve figured things out.

 

[Goldenfinger]

we’ve never used out squinting for the sole purpose of applying lube. We have a lube applicator. but if she thinks we need a little more lube while using in she does just cum a little. I do agree that they aren’t the best dildos to use but they have there purposes. In our case it is mostly for my wife. She wanted to get the most out of switching roles And believe me she got(I got) her bang for her buck.

We have put my cum in it as we a fake cum. I have sucked her off and she has cum in my mouth, I’ve sucked her off and she has blew her load on my face. She’s pegged me a came in me, she’s pegged me and pulled out and came on my stomach. If I’ve done it to her she’s done it to me.

My wife’s choice of dildos really only depends on the activities and positions we will enjoying that evening. We’ve been doing this for a while so we’ve figured things out.

Thanks for the messages but we can keep the thread going if you post for all.

The question was what dildos do we have and for what.

We have a large packer. This is one that my wife wears out and about and around the house. It’s too soft to be pegged with but it’s good for oral. My wife likes to sneak up on me when I’m sitting in my chair and smack me in the face with it.

we have 2 squirting ones. One squirts by squeezing its balls the other has a tube and plunger. The ball squeezer is kinda stiff and is the same thickness from tip to base. You can suck on it but it’s not too easy to go down on. best used if on hands and knees. The tube squirter is better. It’s softer and tapered down the shaft. You can use it any way.

we have multiple different sizes that are softish most have bigger heads that taper down a little. 7-9” long and 1.5 - 2.25 in girth. 9” is a little long but that’s all I can take. The reason we like the tapered dildos is if your sucking it it’s easier on your jaw. If she’s fucking me with it, you still feel full and the head hits the prostate like a speed bump but you don’t feel stretched the hole time. We have some non tapered ones that have their uses. We do have a 10.5” one that with a little lube I can deep throat. Last weekend she asked about getting a longer one.

They are all different skin tones, sometimes you don’t get a choice. Even have one that glows in the dark.

that’s about it, but this is over 10-15 plus years

 

[Goldenfinger]

Damn ! That’s so hot

It really is.

 

[partsecond]

I really like a dildo with balls.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I really like a dildo with balls.

some of ours do and some don’t. The biggest difference is what my wife says. If it has balls she goes ”balls deep” and sometimes comments like “can you feel by balls slapping your ass”. If it doesnt it‘s ”to the hilt”.

once we got a clone a Willy kit and cloned my Willy. It’s started to crack the first use, that was it.

 

[Goldenfinger]

some of ours do and some don’t. The biggest difference is what my wife says. If it has balls she goes ”balls deep” and sometimes comments like “can you feel by balls slapping your ass”. If it doesnt it‘s ”to the hilt”.

once we got a clone a Willy kit and cloned my Willy. It’s started to crack the first use, that was it.

Ya got to be careful

 

[Goldenfinger]

I really like a dildo with balls.

You can buy balls that slide on a dildo that doesn’t have them. Every time I see them I think of truck nuts.

 

[Goldenfinger]

You can buy balls that slide on a dildo that doesn’t have them. Every time I see them I think of truck nuts.

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[Goldenfinger]

Thursday bump

 

[curiouschattycouple]

We have some black silicone dildos smooth and small to medium and "twisted". None at all realistic, but that isn't a requirement for either of us.

 

[Goldenfinger]

We have some black silicone dildos smooth and small to medium and "twisted". None at all realistic, but that isn't a requirement for either of us.

it’s whatever ya like

 

[Goldenfinger]

it’s whatever ya like

Yep

 

[fma20fma]

Has any guy asked the woman what she felt and how she enjoyed during the pegging happened.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Has any guy asked the woman what she felt and how she enjoyed during the pegging happened.

Me and my wife have talked about it a few times over the years. Feelings are hard to explain so here we go. It has evolved for her over time. My wife is a nurse and while covering vacation time she worked in urology. The nurses talked about sometimes guy would leak from prostate exams and that the prostate could be a source of pleasure for men. We started off with fingering during a bj. Then as we learned more we started pegging. My wife has always been a dominant person so this played to her. She was nervous at first but was hooked after the first time. Like I said feelings are hard to explain. When I have sex as the the penetrator its not a dominant thing. I don’t feel that I’m dominating my wife. My wife on the other hand feels it as a dominate act and likes that a lot. She likes the control.