Peeing in front of your new Dom

[WriterDom]

Would this be a limit, turn on, or just plain stupid? You have to pee and he makes you crawl while on a leash and shuts the door. you ask if he really expects you to piss in front of him. He says yes, in the shower. you try but you just can't pee. So he takes you out and makes you drink water until you just have to pee no matter what.

 

[Pure]

So what say you, O czar of pain and pleasure? Do your subs pee for you, on you, in you? or does the reverse occur?

 

[ethereal~minx]

OMG! it certainly would not be easy but... if i trusted this Dom enough to be "my" new Dom, it would be done... blushingly of course but done nonetheless. it would not be a limit for me. the firmness of voice, the control of the Dom... that would be enough of a turn on for me~~ the actual peeing in front of the Dom is by itself not arousing but doing it under command, YES!

oh, and i wouldn't be w/ a Dom that i could ask 'do you really expect me...'
no no no *shaking her long locks* ohhhh nooooono
tooo much power in my hands... i cannot have that much control!

we subs have enough as it is! : )

 

[WriterDom]

So what say you, O czar of pain and pleasure? Do your subs pee for you, on you, in you? or does the reverse occur?

So far I have only peed on. This is for a story. Like ethereal~minx
said, it does have a powerful power play element. We learn early as little kids that our bathroom habits are the one thing we do have control over.

With the drinking of the pint, the embarrassment is long overshadowed by the need, and she pleads for release.

"Sir, have mercy and please let me pee."

 

[Etoile]

This was one of the first things Daddy taught me to do - pee in a big plastic cup. I was allowed to take it behind an armchair at first, so I was sort of hiding. It took me a looooong time to work up to being able to pee in the cup while Daddy held it. I'm not generally allowed to pee in the toilet unless I'm also having to do something else...then it's just sort of secondary. Sometimes I'm allowed to pee in the shower.

 

[lovetoread]

Turn on.

 

[WriterDom]

This was one of the first things Daddy taught me to do - pee in a big plastic cup. I was allowed to take it behind an armchair at first, so I was sort of hiding. It took me a looooong time to work up to being able to pee in the cup while Daddy held it. I'm not generally allowed to pee in the toilet unless I'm also having to do something else...then it's just sort of secondary. Sometimes I'm allowed to pee in the shower.

I love the different perspective you bring here.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Interesting question. For almost 3 years now, I have had to drop trou and pee on a stranger's command, with them present for mandatory drug/alcohol screening related to my job. At the beginning it was awful, and I spent many an hour drinking till I nearly burst to get a sample. Now it is a walk in, pee, walk out procedure.

Add the Dominant factor though...???

I wonder?

~anelize

 

[WriterDom]

Interesting question. For almost 3 years now, I have had to drop trou and pee on a stranger's command,

oh don't remind me. I hated pee tests.

 

[Etoile]

I love the different perspective you bring here.

Thank you - how is it different?

Anelize, it's a "walk in, pee, walk out" procedure for me now too. I don't mind it at all, whenever I have to pee I just fetch my cup and Daddy holds it for me. (Sometimes I have to nudge a shoulder to wake Daddy up enough to hold it!) Occasionally Daddy can't be bothered, and I hold the cup myself...it feels so funny when it gets warm in my hand. I dump it in the toilet and then washing it out is always my responsibility; fortunately Daddy's bathroom sink has really high water pressure!

 

[bunny bondage]

it would be a turn on, but VERY embarrassing. i don't even know if i could do it, no matter how much i had to go.

 

[WriterDom]

it would be a turn on, but VERY embarrassing. i don't even know if i could do it, no matter how much i had to go.

Ok, so here is another pint. you have 5 minutes

 

[bunny bondage]

Ok, so here is another pint. you have 5 minutes

 

[BlueSugar]

Its difficult enough for me at check ups... before college every now and then I had to pee with someone in the room, usually a boyfriend type person at the time and it was because "well, we see eachother naked, i have one bathroom I have to go to work... just pee." or in a hotel or what have you... now in college, there is always someone around (in the next stall anyway) I don't care anymore ...

I've wondered about having etoile's situation or just being in a dom/sub relationship that covered that though...it just bring a whole new aspect to it.

 

[James G 5]

In some of my reading about brainwashing, interrogation, and psychological torture (yeah, I read that stuff for fun, got a problem with it? ) it's been stated that one of the first thing you do in breaking someone down mentally is force them to break their toilet training, goign in front of you and/or on themselves

It's ingrained early on as both a measure of self control to do it alone AND in the proper place/fashion

Forcing someone to break from this can have a huge psychological impact

So I can see where it would be useful with a sub

Etoile, I am curious tho as to the reason you ALWAYS have to pee in a cup?

 

[Ebonyfire]

My males subs

are not allowed to close the bathroom door without permission.

However I always give it if they are gonna do something stinky!

 

[Quint]

Turn on. Huge humiliation. Doesn't always have to be, and at the beginning I tried and tried, but the more humiliated and afraid I was, the less able I was able to let go. So we actually had to take it down a few notches in sexy humiliation and just get me used to doing it at all.

Phase 1: He stands above me but watches my face, not looking into the toilet. Offers incentives. What eventually works is when he holds his cock in front of my face and tells me I'm not going to get it until I pee for him. Woosh.

Phase 2: I whisper that I have to pee; he says "Can you do it for me?" Answering in the negative means I don't get to pee at all. I say yes and I am expected to do it pretty damn soon. This one failed a few times before I started timing it like my orgasms--only asking for permission to when I KNEW I was about to burst.

Phase 3: Doing it in the shower, squatting, feeling it hit my feet and splash back up on me, feeling his scorn burning into my back, hearing his laughter and still knowing that it'll be worse if I stop before I'm really finished.

Phase 4: Doing it on the toilet while he is kneeling and examining me, spreading me open and actually watching the urine come out. No more privacy.

Oh yes, turn on.

 

[Etoile]

Etoile, I am curious tho as to the reason you ALWAYS have to pee in a cup?

That's just what Daddy wanted to train me to do, I guess. I think it was also going to incorporate peeing on command in public places, but we've never really gotten to that point. I am supposed to pee in a cup all the time, i.e. at home when I'm not visiting Daddy, when I'm at work (bring one with me), etc., but Daddy doesn't enforce this. When I'm visiting, though, it's always the cup unless I'm also emptying my bowels (either voluntarily or by enema).

I'm not humiliated by it much at all anymore, I don't know why. Sometimes it takes me a few seconds to start the stream, which is slightly embarrassing, but not common.

 

[Netzach]

I once kept a whole staff at a testing facility late, much to my chagrin. They stayed, I simply could NOT piss on expectation.


I can, however, piss on my fiance. Maybe if his slave name is "expectation" I will learn to do that.

 

[James G 5]

I once kept a whole staff at a testing facility late, much to my chagrin. They stayed, I simply could NOT piss on expectation.


I can, however, piss on my fiance. Maybe if his slave name is "expectation" I will learn to do that.

ROFL!
I have to write that down.........

 

[Chicklet]

I'm not humiliated by it much at all anymore, I don't know why. Sometimes it takes me a few seconds to start the stream, which is slightly embarrassing, but not common.

I guess anything can become familiar over time...we were made to think that this was something that *should* humiliate us...it's sort of like how I'm not afraid to be seen naked by my boyfriend anymore, maybe?

(i know i could have it all wrong)

 

[Etoile]

I guess anything can become familiar over time...we were made to think that this was something that *should* humiliate us...it's sort of like how I'm not afraid to be seen naked by my boyfriend anymore, maybe?

(i know i could have it all wrong)

No, I think you're right! It's become totally normal for me, but it did take me a good long time to get used to it.

 

[Netzach]

Yes, but I want tips and tricks for us pee-shy Tops into GS!

Imagine the horror, lovely butch piss-pig boi at my feet, had just let go of my coffee from a half hour before, me, swigging water..

"any moment now...any moment"

Waaaaaahhh!

 

[REDWAVE]

Now that's sick!

Interesting question. For almost 3 years now, I have had to drop trou and pee on a stranger's command, with them present for mandatory drug/alcohol screening related to my job. At the beginning it was awful, and I spent many an hour drinking till I nearly burst to get a sample. Now it is a walk in, pee, walk out procedure.

Add the Dominant factor though...???

I wonder?

~anelize

Mandatory drug testing on the job should be outlawed. It is a ritual humiliation and degradation of workers by bosses.

Bad BDSM, not good BDSM.

 

[Netzach]

Mandatory drug testing for salespeople, secretaries?....bad.

For pilots...cops....due dilligence.