pee desperation

[MydarlingGiRl]

Hey,after the great info I recieved from my last thread, I wanted to get some more. I really enjoy the feeling of having to pee, and having my husband tell me I can't. Then having sex with a very full bladder. We have only played a couple times... It really doesn't do as much for him as it does for me. What kind of ideas can yall offer to us to explore this further? We have never tried golden showers, neither of us at this point really finds anything arousing about it, more the desperation. For me, it's more of a complete submission.... something that I can't control even if I wanted to.

 

[partygal49]

My Husband and I have fucked so hard we both cum and pissed at the same time. The first time this happened we had just been playing around and he told me I had to wait till he took a fucking piss before he fucked me. NO FUCKING way I told him ... so he FUCKED me hard and when he cum he also pissed OMFG what a true on so we have both been doing it and I tell you I FUCKING LOVE IT......... XOXO

 

[DVS]

Hey,after the great info I recieved from my last thread, I wanted to get some more. I really enjoy the feeling of having to pee, and having my husband tell me I can't. Then having sex with a very full bladder. We have only played a couple times... It really doesn't do as much for him as it does for me. What kind of ideas can yall offer to us to explore this further? We have never tried golden showers, neither of us at this point really finds anything arousing about it, more the desperation. For me, it's more of a complete submission.... something that I can't control even if I wanted to.

I've never tried this and I don't think it's something I'd enjoy. But, from your explanation, it sounds a lot like orgasm denial and that's something I do enjoy. And I know there is a feeling when you first start peeing that is almost sexual. So, I'd guess this is a part of what you're experiencing, too.

For me, peeing is not at all sexual, but I know I'm in the minority there. I can sometimes be a stick in the mud about things. And I agree with you about golden showers, but this is different. The control aspect of it is very similar to orgasm denial and the feeling of finally getting to pee is very similar to that explosive orgasm after denial. I'd maybe suggest looking into orgasm denial stories and develop something similar, to go with your peeing denial fun.

 

[knot_sweet]

Just as a word of caution...

Bladder control is something that needs to be done with extreme care.
Especially if you're talking about maintaining an extremely full bladder for extended periods.
During my pregnancy, with the repeated ultrasounds (full bladder, not being allowed to relieve myself) it caused permanent damage.
Something went wrong (there's a whole pile of medical stuff I could put in here), now I have absolute zero bladder control. When I need to go, I've got about a minute to find a bathroom. When I really really need to go...let's just say I don't let myself get to that point.
And no, all the kegels in the world can't help me.

Please, I know it's great to have a kink you enjoy, but sometimes there are risks that you need to be mindful of.

 

[MydarlingGiRl]

Just as a word of caution...

Bladder control is something that needs to be done with extreme care.
Especially if you're talking about maintaining an extremely full bladder for extended periods.


I agree completely knot_sweet. We don't do it often, and have really just touched the surface of it. I think before we delve too far, I certainly need to do my research. Thank you for your word of caution.

 

[Kim_Burly]

I had no idea there were hazards involved with this. Sir likes to make me drink a bunch of water or whatever. When I ask permiision to go to the bathroom. Then I beg and grovel and of course he says no. Long story short, I end up standing next to him naked, with my legs spread and my hands laced behind my neck, standing on a towel. He carries on doing whatever he is doing. In the mean time my pressure is building. He'll poke, squeeze and tickle me. He'll also finger me which is totally not fair. This is very uncomfortable since you really can't think of anything else but how bad you need to go. He likes to have me follow him into the bathroom and I hold him while he pees, or kneel next to the toilet and watch. The power of suggestion is incredibly maddening.

Anyhow, there is no way for me to win, and while I can trickle, if I spurt at all I lose. This of course leads to more fun play. We only do thing once, maybe twice a month, do you think I should be worried?

 

[AaronAardvark]

If you hold yourself in for too long you can rupture your bladder, not good, in fact bad; no idea what your USA medical insurance would make of it! This happened to a participant in a radio show contest (in Canada?) and made the national UK news a year or three ago. If you continue I would be very careful not to go too far. Inform Sir it's good fun to allow his slave to pee into an empty galvanised metal bucket, if you gush the noise is something else. If you miss you can clean up your mess. If he's mean he can stretch clingfilm (Saran wrap?) across it and make a much smaller hole!

Worried no but careful, most definitely.