Past partners

The subject of this thread hits a spot for me.
I've had a dreadful record of loving and losing female partners over the years and have fallen for too many of the wrong women.
Having said that I've got no regrets because the short time I spent with the majority of them certainly boosted my ego.
To help soften the blow of being dumped by a girl who I loved unconditionally I would masturbate to the thought of her being fucked by whoever else she was with.
Definitely some of the most exciting and pleasurable wanking which took away the pain for a short while.
As a postscript please don't feel sorry for me as I'm now settled in a long term relationship.
 
I don't have any past partners, but my wife has several memorable ones. I asked her if she ever fantasized about any of them, and she said that she did think about one of them quite often during sex or when masturbating. He was her most frequent lover in college.
 
I don't have any past partners, but my wife has several memorable ones. I asked her if she ever fantasized about any of them, and she said that she did think about one of them quite often during sex or when masturbating. He was her most frequent lover in college.
That's unusual. Wives don't normally admit they are thinking how other men fucked them while their husbands are. They do, but they won't tell their husbands for fear of hurting their ego.
 
I never fantasize about my past partners but I do fantasize about my girlfriend's past partners. Not while I am having sex with her (that demands ALL my attention) but on the rare occasions I am jerking off by myself.
 
Until I read the postings in this thread, I thought all my "ex-" thoughts were about the exes of my ex-partners, and what kinds of naughtiness they did with my exes. The many threads and stories in Lit that focus on a hub asking his wife to give details about her past assignations do strike a nerve with me. But I realize I have been thinking about at least one of my exes and wondering how she is doing with her now-husband. She wasn't exactly "the one that got away," but damn she was fine. Funny, smart, two degrees, 5-10, 140, natural D's, and a captivating smile - at age 50 when I met her! But stupid me was too kinky for her so we split. But now I "see" her rocking it with her guy, and wonder if I made a huge mistake.
 
I often think of my ex partners and the fun we had, my current partner knew some of my ex girlfriends and shared some times with one of them with me. I feel very lucky about it and we often talk about the those things we done in the younger years.
 
I often think of my ex partners and the fun we had, my current partner knew some of my ex girlfriends and shared some times with one of them with me. I feel very lucky about it and we often talk about the those things we done in the younger years.
One of my Significant Others talked her best friend into a threesome with me. That was the first threesome of all three of us. Fucking two women together was fantastic.
 
One of my Significant Others talked her best friend into a threesome with me. That was the first threesome of all three of us. Fucking two women together was fantastic.
When you’re in the middle of it there’s not much in life that’s better! Well done!
 
Alright who was your kinkiest ex, what did she look like and what did she love to do to you?
I dated a girl who had been divorced for 2 years. Mutually separated, his job was relocated (2 states away... aircraft mechanic) and she couldn't move due to caring for elderly parents. He eventually married a girl there. My girlfriend had 2 children with him, and he would travel up to visit the kids and his parents. At first, I would not come around the weekend he visited. I didn't find out for a couple months that he actually stayed at her / their house. Its something that happened since before they mutually split, and long before me. I understood it. And later during pillowtalk found out, he still fucks her, almost everytime he visited. They never stopped fucking.
 
I dated a girl who had been divorced for 2 years. Mutually separated, his job was relocated (2 states away... aircraft mechanic) and she couldn't move due to caring for elderly parents. He eventually married a girl there. My girlfriend had 2 children with him, and he would travel up to visit the kids and his parents. At first, I would not come around the weekend he visited. I didn't find out for a couple months that he actually stayed at her / their house. Its something that happened since before they mutually split, and long before me. I understood it. And later during pillowtalk found out, he still fucks her, almost everytime he visited. They never stopped fucking.
How did you feel about that?
 
I was the extreme jealous type but with this situation. She explained that his wife knew, and sometimes participated. It was happening long before me. I felt more turned on than upset. She told me everything, the more she told the more tore up I became.
I definitely didnt react like I thought I would. It changed me.
I wrote a story about it.. there are 4 chapters.

Girlfriend's Ex-husband

I changed the names but not much else.
 
I do think about and miss many of my former lovers.

Where are they now?
What do they look like, now?
What is their sex life now?

Some were really great, sexually. Some were just really great people.

I do t really think of them while I am having sex tho.
 
My wife is amazing but not great at dirty talk. My ex used to embrace my breeding/pregnancy fetish by saying things like 'put a baby in me' or 'please cum inside ne, fill me up' etc. So sometimes i think of her as im about to cum in my wife. My wife sometimes gets the benefit of what feels like an extra big load!
 
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