Partner doesn't like oral because she gets too wet

[Lueretius]

So I'm hoping I can get some advice from the community.

I love going down on my wife, honestly if I had the chance I'd spend hours with my tongue buried in her tasty pussy and ass.

But like all good love stories there's a problem.

She dislikes not the oral sex itself but how wet and sticky she gets because of it, even having a shower afterwards she still leaks and gets paranoid that people can smell her the next day. Not to mention feeling uncomfortable due to damp underwear and feeling sticky.

Now I can certainly understand her dislike of that, but it means I don't get to go down on her often.

So I'm here looking for advice that people may have to overcome these issues so that maybe I can give her a proper goodnight kiss more often.

 

[EStaccato]

Sticky is interesting. Tacky maybe, but not sticky. What about, like, a panty liner? I'm wet all the time. I wear panty liners most days, and that safety net is helpful.

 

[UtilityCurve]

All I can offer is this: Your (her) body was not designed for the 21st Century. More like the negative 50,000th first Century.

It's not her fault she responds to you the way she does. She is what Nature made her, and there is no end of unhappiness fighting that

If it means that much to her than she is not  sopping wet for you, you can tell her she is a woman trapped in a person's body. Not the easiest thing for "good girls" in Western cultures to accept (the duality between their female bodies and their more genderless minds), but if she's honest with herself--and you--it's the truth you BOTH need to acknowledge. I hope you both find male and female identities that differ--and are purely magical when they come together.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I use this after showering when I have been particularly messy.
I use it other tines too
And I agree with panty liners.

https://www.amazon.com/Super-Powder...99d&psc=1&ref_=pd_bap_m_rp_aisle_wdg_203_0_sa

 

[Toylovr]

That's a shame for her, for both of you. The fact the two of you can't enjoy this to the fullest because you're both worried about what will happen later. I hope you find a solution soon and can continue to pleasure your wife this way. It is a beautiful thing, that's for sure!

 

[tristantrotsky]

I use this after showering when I have been particularly messy.
I use it other tines too
And I agree with panty liners.

https://www.amazon.com/Super-Powder...99d&psc=1&ref_=pd_bap_m_rp_aisle_wdg_203_0_sa

I've never yet met a lady who doesn't enjoy getting her pussy well-licked, and - as far as I'm concerned, the more lubrication she produces the better, it proves that I'm using my tongue effectively. A woman should never be embarrassed or self-conscious about enjoying the messiness of good sex.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I agree 100%. I try to always have a towel handy for when it gets good.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I have known two women who were not into receiving oral sex. One was totally into penetration. She liked to be fucked hard and fast with no foreplay. She would let me go down on her because she knew how much I loved eating pussy, but she was just counting the minutes until I was fucking her hard and deep. Once I shot my load, she wanted me to use a dildo on her until I was hard enough to go again.

The other woman could only cum once in a session. She preferred getting fucked by a cock to being licked to orgasm. Once she came, she was done. I learned that lesson the hard way, when one time I continued licking her even though she was begging me to fuck her. She came, and was done. I was left to jack myself off.

 

[IndianaStevenJones]

My wife's friend squirts when I eat her pussy but I'm out of the way right before.