Parenthood

[petrel]

Okay guys this isn't really or maybe it is to do with sex. I was talking to soemone a while back and they said that pervs or people with helathy (loud, messy enjoyable) sex lives shouldn't have children. I don't agree with the above statement and i want kids in the not so distant future.
I woudl be interested in hearing from any other praetns or potential paretns about how you manage your sex life and having kids (assuming your long term partner lives with you)

how do you put certain places out of bounds to kids?
how do you ensure privacy?
and how do you make damn sure the kids don't get a whiff of the fact that daddy was up until 2am spanking mom with nipple clamps on?

hope someone has some advice

 

[lovetoread]

how do you put certain places out of bounds to kids?

I have drilled into them the importance of them about staying out of certain areas.

how do you ensure privacy?

Lock the door. Send them to grandma. Do it during the school day. Get some early in the morning. <my fav>

and how do you make damn sure the kids don't get a whiff of the fact that daddy was up until 2am spanking mom with nipple clamps on?

Just dont tell them. In my house the kids dont know alot of what goes on. I dont do anything in front of them and have taught them that even parents need privacy. And if they ever walk in to never ever mention what they have seen.

 

[MissTaken]

Teach the children about privacy.

Save the really good stuff for when they are fast asleep in the other end of the house or at grandma's (or in my case, their dad's).

There is life after parenthood, somewhat modified, but still life!

 

[Gilly Bean]

We do anything sexual at night when they are sleeping, or when they are gone. I am a naturally quiet person in bed. Never was a screamer or scratcher. He is rather quiet, as well. That helps tramendously. Also helps that our room is on the oppisite ends of the house.

 

[DriveSouth]

Give the kiddos a bedtime - make sure you stick to it. They'll like the struture, though they are not likely to say it.

Play outside. Easy for us, we live in the country.

Play while they are away.

 

[EnchantedBeauty]

Can't be a perv and be a parent too?? OMG I should have known that before I had my son?? hehehehe Just because you have kids doesnt mean you cant have a healthy sex life. Bedtime at my house for my son is 8:30. That way mommy and daddy can have fun when they want to. Also my son has grandparents that love for him to come over and spend the weekend. Life doesnt stop just because you have kids.

 

[sweetpeaz321]

We are more kinky now than we were before the kids (3 boys under 8yrs old and 1 on the way) were born.
A lock on both sides of our bedroom door! (the privacy talk does little for a 3 yr old!)
We play when the kids are in bed. On the only occaion our eldest woke to spanking noises, we explained to him that we were playing- even if the sounds may sound a bit scary to him, it's play that both mom and dad like.
We practice DD in our daily lives and have had to come up with punishments that could be done while the kids are up and about. Loss of priv. (like no computer, no orgasm, etc.) works well, as well as a butt plug having to be worn as I go about my regular chores.

Although life changes dramatically with children, your needs and desires do not. You just need to use a little imagination, and a healthy dose of caution.

 

[Elizabeth]

I have 4 kids and we have told them to always respect the privacy of others. Of course, locks on the bedroom door goes without saying. Out room is at the other end of the house and that helps. We try to be as creative as possible (i.e. early morning, during the day, outside at night) but we have only been "discovered" once. I was giving my husband a pretty intense blowjob when out 7 year old daughter walked in. She was still half asleep so I don't think she got the whole idea. I stopped and walked her back to bed. She never did bring it up but that was the last time we went at it in the family room.

I do love those alternative places like outside and sometimes we do it in our van (conversion one with a bed). My husband gets home about 45 min before the kids do. Those "afternoon delights are the best.