painful sex

[Sib83]

hey, ive got a problem and i was wondering if anyone out there could help me.

sex is painful for my gf. now, we have had sex before (lots of times) and it hasnt hurt. lately when we have sex (same positions as before) it hurts her. we have tried lube, different positions, and that dosent seem to help.

she is a bit shy, and is unwilling to go to the doctor.


can anyone give me some ideas of why this is hurts her?


thanks

 

[Hotred911]

Ask your girlfriend where it hurts? I know that sex is painful for me also, and the cause for me is a tilted uterus. There's another thread on here about having a tilted uterus, you may want to do a search for it. Sex didn't always hurt for me, so I'm not sure if this is something that can just happen or not. I would definately suggest she go to the doctor, it might give her peace of mind to know it's not something serious. And in the unfortunate case that it is something serious, at least she'll know and be able to get it treated correctly.

 

[Ezzie]

If something just starts hurting without reason like injury or whatever, you need to go to a doctor. I'm shy, too, but, that wouldn't stop me from going to see a trained professional who deals with these kind of issues day in and day out.

Your girlfriend needs to make an appointment and go get herself checked out. It could be something serious.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

I have to agree. Regardless of how shy she is, it's pertinent that she has this checked out by a gynecologist. I don't know how old she is, but if she's sexually active she should be going to a gyn regularly (once a year) anyway. It's of the utmost importance that she does this, so support her, maybe even go with her, but make sure she goes. Chances are, it's nothing to be concerned about, but better she be told that by a professional. Good luck to you both.

 

[Lust Engine]

Silly not to go to a medical professional! Especially when there's pain involved. It could be something that's serious or hopefully it could not be but isn't the uncertainty even worse? Please encourage her to find out what it is. Don't take a chance and hopefully the BOTH of you can get back to enjoyable sex.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Silly not to go to a medical professional! Especially when there's pain involved. It could be something that's serious or hopefully it could not be but isn't the uncertainty even worse? Please encourage her to find out what it is. Don't take a chance and hopefully the BOTH of you can get back to enjoyable sex.

There you are, my friend!! Good morning LustEngine, I've been waiting for you to come around. I hope your long weekend was a good one.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

well i never........

Why do people answer such a friendly post in a pm?? Now everyone thinks I was ignored. Hmpft

 

[Lust Engine]

No no, m'dearest N&N. I'd hardly ignore you. I just didn't want the folks here thinking we were hijacking a thread.

Besides you're hardly ignorable!

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[Trainerman]

Just an idea...

As others, I think she should really see a Doc...better to start treatment if required..BUT (and I am not being rude here) I did have a girlfriend who at the end of her period forgot there was a tampon in there. Result not nice !! Worth checking this one perhaps?

 

[Naughty n Nice]

No no, m'dearest N&N. I'd hardly ignore you. I just didn't want the folks here thinking we were hijacking a thread.

Besides you're hardly ignorable!

And now a word from our regularly sponsored thread...

lmao You are so cute!!! *waves* hi jack

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Re: Just an idea...

As others, I think she should really see a Doc...better to start treatment if required..BUT (and I am not being rude here) I did have a girlfriend who at the end of her period forgot there was a tampon in there. Result not nice !! Worth checking this one perhaps?

That's not rude at all. Actually, it's a very good point. I've heard of that happening too. Thankfully, never to me, but to a former friend of mine. What a hassle that was for her to get it out. Definately something to look into (if of course, she uses tampons)

 

[ApplesMcgee]

Doctor, ASAP

You should get her to see the doctor as soon as possible. If yu guys have been having sex just fine and then suddenly there is pain, that could be real bad. You guys might have poked or torn something that shouldn't have been hit.

PowrDragn

 

[curvacious]

I also suggest seeing a professional, but I have another suggestion too.
Are you spending the same amount on foreplay as you did in the past? If not, she may have not been as aroused as she could have been, which means her cervix was not lifted (happens with arousal as vaginal canal elongates slightly) and you may have bumped against it. Happened to me once and it definetly didn't feel good to me.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Sib83, If I may add my .02 cents??

I agree with all of the posters above. If I might add to check for a Planned Parenthood clinic in your area. These clinics are geared to shy and inexperienced women. Usually they are staffed by women, who understand what many young women feel about going to a gyn. Another good thing about these clinics is that you are welcomed there as well. If you have any questions, they will answer them. So please, get her into a doctor as soon as possible. She will feel more comfortable once she has an answer to the problem.
Best wishes!

Less than 6 weeks to go!!! YIPPEE!
-k-