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Originally posted by Angel
Why Wiccan's Suck is one of my absolute favorite websites.
Typical me.Image said:Greetings everyone! What a magickal full moon rising tonight! She came over the mountain top so exquisitely it took my breath away... I don't think I've ever so Her so full!
Namaste and Bright Blessings everyone!
Gaia)0(
Hi Kaly... It is so gorgeous out tonight I'm going to brave the cold and go out for a walk in the forest to my circle. It's about 35 degrees and no wind so it wont be too bad. It may just take another glass of brandy...Kalypso said:It has been indeed sweets. I've got a glorious view of it from my living room windows. Amazing. I love how she lights up the entire house!
Love, Light & Laughter!


Image said:Hi Kaly... It is so gorgeous out tonight I'm going to brave the cold and go out for a walk in the forest to my circle. It's about 35 degrees and no wind so it wont be too bad. It may just take another glass of brandy...
I'll say hello to Hecate for youI'm on a bonding mission with The Crone for the next few days
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I'm about to go outside after my bath...a bit later and enjoy the night sky. I have some lambrusco...I like it. I'm not a huge fan of brandy or else I'd take that instead. 
I was going to edit and respond to only some of this post.... but the entire thing was just too good to take apart!hurtme said:I don't follow Gardner's trad, or any of the "older" trads...all the ceremony doesn't appeal to my idea of spirituality...it doesn't make me a pagan, and it doesn't make me a bad Wiccan...
I may put emphasis on different aspects of the religion than someone else, that doesn't make me less of a witch, or make my path inncorrect...it just makes it different...I am tolerant of other paths in Wicca, just as i am tolerant of EVERY other religion...and i am aware that no two witches believe the exact same thing to the exact same degree...
I am not saying i know it all, because i don't, i have never pretended to, i have be learning for years, but i often feel like i have just scratched the surface.
I do however know that there are certian things that tend to drive people, that drive me, certian things that give me power...certian acts that make me feel connected...sex happens to be one of them. It could be because i am a scorpio, in fact, that probably has more than a bit to do with it. But bottom line, at this place in this life, i do feel that sex is a driving force and a source of great power and energy, and is everywhere, all around us all the time...I don't mean in billboards, and TV and magazines, i mean all around us new life is blooming all the time, even in the dead of winter...and it is what makes our species continue on this planet...it is what continues existance as we know it...and that to me is powerful stuff...
oh, and also, have to agree, Why Wicca Sucks is one of my favorite websites of all time...
EdRichards7030 said:BTW, since this is a pagan forum, have you all ever had wierd run ins with fundamentalist christian types? I'd love to hear the stories. I know they are scared of basically everything, and then some.
Ed

Originally posted by hurtme
I don't follow Gardner's trad, or any of the "older" trads...all the ceremony doesn't appeal to my idea of spirituality...it doesn't make me a pagan, and it doesn't make me a bad Wiccan...
I may put emphasis on different aspects of the religion than someone else, that doesn't make me less of a witch, or make my path inncorrect...it just makes it different...I am tolerant of other paths in Wicca, just as i am tolerant of EVERY other religion...and i am aware that no two witches believe the exact same thing to the exact same degree...
I am not saying i know it all, because i don't, i have never pretended to, i have be learning for years, but i often feel like i have just scratched the surface.
I do however know that there are certian things that tend to drive people, that drive me, certian things that give me power...certian acts that make me feel connected...sex happens to be one of them. It could be because i am a scorpio, in fact, that probably has more than a bit to do with it. But bottom line, at this place in this life, i do feel that sex is a driving force and a source of great power and energy, and is everywhere, all around us all the time...I don't mean in billboards, and TV and magazines, i mean all around us new life is blooming all the time, even in the dead of winter...and it is what makes our species continue on this planet...it is what continues existance as we know it...and that to me is powerful stuff...
oh, and also, have to agree, Why Wicca Sucks is one of my favorite websites of all time...
Maybe my "no need" for sex (even though the Great Rite IS a valuable and powerful ritual) stems from the misuse it's had within certain covens. "Harm none" is the creed--and it harms an SO if you're sleeping with your Priest, even if you ARE the embodiment of the Goddess.Image said:Greetings... I know this is kinda long but wanted to share it anyway. I decided not to do the Holly/Oak King theme this time...
We'll be celebrating tomorrow night. We better have a big balefire cause it's going to be really cold!
Feel free to use this... Yes, I wrote but it's not all mine. Bits and pieces borrowed and shared, as it should be, with and from others. I don't recall the individual covens to give credit to, that it came from so my apologies. Plagerism was not the intent
RITUAL OUTLINE
YULE/WINTER SOLSTICE 2003
ALTAR SETUP – Evergreens/(signifying life in death)/ Ivy/Pine/Clubmoss/Wreath around cauldron
INCENSES – Frankincense & Myrrh (charcoal)
CANDLES – Red/ Blue/Yellow/Green for elements
Gold/Silver for God & Goddess
Votives set in circle around altar perimeter
TRIPLE CANDLE in cauldron or Balefire
Candle snuffer
Lighter
NORTH – flat stone with salt
SOUTH – Dragon image
EAST - heat proof bowl with dirt/charcoal/incense
WEST - Seashell with salt water
CHALICE toward west & Goddess candle
ATHAME toward right & God candle
SMUDGE STICK
CAKES & WINE (teapot and hotpad)
WAND
BESOM
CAULDRON
BOOK OF SHADOWS
PRIESTESS – Gaia
PRIEST – Turtle
GUARDIANS
EAST – Brian
SOUTH – Danu
WEST – Wolfshield
NORTH – Talon
CLEANSE CIRCLE
The entire perimeter of the house and deck will be the circle so visualize it all
Priest Sweeps with Besom and purifies with flame walking deosil
Priestess aspurges with seawater and salt
* Celebrants enter space – Priest smudges Priestess 1st Then Priestess smudges Priest and passes smudgestick to next and in turn each smudges the next around the circle (copyright Wolfshield J)
CAST CIRCLE (Priest)
HP: “Between and ‘twixt the worlds stand I
A childe of Earth
A childe of Sky”
“By the Earth that is Her body
By the Air that is Her breath
By the Fire of Her spirit
By the Waters of Her womb
Is this Circle cast…”
HPS – “This Circle is now blessed as sacred space. May all that seek here find the weave of many threads…
May all who desire find nurturing here, a home for the spirit and a cradle for the heart
May all the energy raised here tonight always be for the Earth and all Her creatures
And may it always be a meeting place of Love, of Peace and of Unity of mind!
QUARTER CALLS
Personal invocations - beginning in the East
GOD & GODDESS INVOCATIONS
HPS – “Lady, you who are the beauty of the snowy Earth
And the White Moon among the Stars
The mystery of the Waters
The desire in the heart of humanity
We invite you to come among us and attend this rite
For you are the Soul of Nature that gives birth to the Universe”
HP - “ Lord, You who are the freedom of all wild things ,
The bright Sun that lights the Day
The mystery of the forest
The resolve in the heart of humanity
We invite you to come among us and attend this rite
For you are the body of nature that gives life to the universe”
STATEMENT OF INTENT
HPS: Welcome friends and family to The Solstice Eve Circle…
Since the beginning of time we have gathered in this season to celebrate the return and rebirth of the Sun. Ancient people saw the flow of time as circular, not linear, and the changing seasons were understood as a Great Wheel, the Wheel of the year. To this season was given the name “Yule, meaning Wheel.
Tonight we are gathered to observe as Darkness gives way and changes to light. We gather to celebrate this Holy Night of the Winter Solstice, the longest night of the year. Yet this night, in the time of greatest darkness, the light is reborn. The infant Sun will grow stronger and stronger with each passing day until we reach the Summer Solstice, where, as He knows He must, give way to the waning year. All things ebb and flow…
The ancients believed the people must help the light to be reborn, by honoring the time of darkness. The people were to watch and wait, holding hope in their hearts. The return of the light was not taken for granted. And people never forgot how their very lives depended on it’s return. While the people waited, they prayed and feasted. They decorated their homes so that the new light would find welcome and beauty in the new year. They exchanged gifts with one another in honor of the life-giving gift of increasing light. And while they waited, they told stories… Stories to explain the light’s coming and going…
HP: Tonight we will tell one story of how the light makes rich our lives. We will tell a story of the turning Wheel of The Year and how the light will be reborn.
Standing now, under the “Long Night’s Moon”
Let us join The Goddess in greeting the newly born Sun!
CRONE: I am the Crone, The Olde One who rules the time of Winter. Do you know my names? I am Hecate at the crossroads. I am Cerridwen , Keeper of the Cauldron of rebirth, the Grail dispensing inspiration and wisdom. I am Spider Grandmother, midwife of life and death, the Changer. I am the storyteller…
This night I have brought the guardians of the four directions to tell the story of The Sun God, A story of Life and death and rebirth… Listen!
* As each quarter speaks their part The Sun God snuffs out the ring of candles from quarter to quarter beginning North to East* Finish with Quarter candle last…
EAST
I am the east, the place of dawn, ruled by the element of Air. I am the breath of Life, of speech and song. I watch over all the winged ones. I am the season of spring, the season of birth and new creation surging forth..
Can you remember the Spring? Life surges forth in buds and sprouts. The trees dress their branches in new leaves as the sap rises to rouse them from sleep. The birds return from the realms of the south to raise their children. New life comes forth and multiplies. The Earth warms and leans toward the sun as She greens and blossoms. Each day the young Sun rises in the East and each day grows stronger. Each day the time of light lasts longer. Did you think it would last forever? The wheel turns!
*Candles snuffed East to South
SOUTH I am the South. The place of midday, ruled by the element of Fire. I am the passion and laughter of life. Keeper of Earth’s fertility. Guardian of all that walks and crawls on the Earth. I hold the gift of fertile Earth from whence your crops come forth. I am the blessing of children, the keeper of truth and innocence. I am the season of Summer.
Can you remember the Summer? The fruit sets upon the vines and the branches of the trees. The herds fatten on the thick grass of the upper pastures. Young animals scamper and play under the watchful eyes of the older animals. The young birds learn to fly. Your own children take shade under the glorious leaf canopy of the trees. The Earth leans nearest the Sun, in Her radiant beauty. The Sun, strong and hot, is at the peak of His power. And the light exceeds the darkness. Did you think it would last forever? The Wheel turns!
*Candles snuffed South to West
WEST
I am the West, place of dusk, ruled by the element of Water. I am the guardian of life’s water – from the Oceans’ depths to the waters of the womb that rocked you before your birth. I am the sweet rain satisfying the thirtsy Earth, and keeper of all that swims and lives in water. I am the place that lies below the surface of intuition and dreams. I am the season of Fall and I rule the time of harvest.
Can you remember the time of Fall? Do you remember the backbreaking labor of harvesting the grains and fruits and vegetables? The vines and trees heavy with their bounty? Now the young animals take their places beside the elders and begin the great migrations to the realms of the South and the pastures of the lowlands.
The trees transform from deep green into glorious gold, orange and red – their true colors shine forth before they drop their finery, leaf by leaf, to the ground. Your own children must be dressed against the chill and you labor to make room for the coming darkness. The Earth stands apart from the Sun who grows cooler, and the light begins to die. Did you think it would last forever? The Wheel turns!
*Candles snuffed West to North
NORTH
I am the North, the place of midnight, ruled by the element Earth. I am the place of the ancestors and ancient wisdom, of all that has walked the Wheel through millennia and knows the way. I rule the time of Winter.
The time of darkness is now upon us. A time of cold and scarcity when the Northern –most Earth leans farthest from the sun. The Sun gives brief light and little warmth. The life that was lies shattered and still – retreated like refugees in the migrations of herds and the flight of flocks. The trees stand stripped and naked in their poverty, imprisoned in ice, bowed and broken by storms. In suffering and hardship you learn what is essential. Your wealth is taken, your weakness exposed, your dreams perish.
Even The God, too, dies!
*Sun God goes to the center of the circle and dies laying in fetal position
* Crone covers him with shroud* He remains there until Goddess announces birth
CRONE: My children, there are many kinds of darkness – the darkness of death and suffering, of hatred and war, of bloodshed. The darkness of fear and despair, the darkness of cruelty and injustice. The darkness of sorrow and loss.
Yet, all these, as great and terrible as they are, are held within another and far greater darkness – the womb darkness – the darkness of the Great Mother, she who is the source of creation.
And you, Her Children, She does not forget. You are not abandoned or forsaken. Even now the Goddess labors to birth the Sun. Trust the laboring darkness, for the time of awakening and light comes. A time when burdens shall be lifted, and refugees welcomed. Grief will be healed, dreams reborn and all of life renewed! The slumbering animals are dreaming of it. The seeds in hardened shells know the time and push forward through darkness, seeking light. Reach with your life towards The mother as She reaches with unconditional love toward you, Her children. The Winter Solstice promises new dreams, new hope, new light…. Be not afraid!
Will you help the Light to be reborn? *YES! YES! YES! Do you, the people hold the light in your hearts? *YES! YES! Then help The Wheel turn! Help the Light be reborn!
· Guardians come to altar and relight candles in their quadrants beginning the chant for all
“Hoof and Horn, Hoof and Horn!
All that dies will be reborn!
Corn and Grain, Corn and Grain
All that falls will rise again!”
Drumming, singing, chanting continue for a bit
Crone than takes Goddess Candle and lights it from the Yule Candle in cauldron or balefire…
*Lights God candle
CRONE: The Earth Goddess, pregnant with life, once again gives birth to the infant Solstice Sun!
*The Sun God throws off the shroud and rises*
CRONE: Behold the Light that can never die! Born anew in the Solstice sky! The childe of promise! The Star Childe! The Winter born King, bringing new light and hope to the world!
*The Newly born Sun then walks deosil to each quarter acknowledging each and every person, then takes his place again at the Altar*
CRONE: The people in darkness have seen a great light and though this light is yet small, it grows stronger as it grows in each of us. As we join the Goddess in greeting the Sun, we also welcome the new light within ourselves…
Namaste!
BLESSING OF CAKES AND WINE AND ATHAME
*The HPS faces the altar, taking the chalice of wine in both hands, raising it in offering to the Lord & Lady saying
HPS: We give thanks to the Gods for the fruits of the vine and the water of life that sustains us.
*The HP faces the altar, taking the basket of cakes and offers it to the Lord & Lady saying
HP: We give thanks to the Gods for the fruits of the Earth that sustain us.
*HPS holds chalice in both hands and raises it in salute, facing altar
HPS: O Holy Mother, bless this fruit of the vine for use in our rite, that we may honor the Light!
*HP holds Athame upwards in both hands while facing the altar
HP: O Great Lord triumphant, bless this athame that we may use it in honoring the light, so the wheel shall not pause in it’s eternal turning.
ENACTMENT OF GREAT RITE
Priest and Priestess face each other … Priestess offers chalice/Priest raises Athame between both palms above Chalice, slowly dipping the blade into the wine
HP – “As the Athame is to the male”
HPS – “So the Chalice is to the female”
BOTH – And conjoined they bring blessedness
*The Priestess holds the chalice for the Priest to sip and then in turn Priest holds it while Priestess drinks.
· Priest takes up cakes, facing Priestess. She touches the cakes with the point of the Athame and says:
HPS: This food is the blessing of the Gods to nourish our bodies, so that our souls shall have a healthy temple.
· The Priest takes a cake and offers it to the Priestess and then she feeds him one in return…
OFFERING TO GOD & GODDESS
*Priestess pours a portion of the Sabbat wine into Cauldron (or ground)
*Priest crumbles a portion of cake into Cauldron (or ground)
HPS: Lord & Lady accept this gift of wine and bread and bless us with your light
OFFERING TO FEY AND ELEMENTALS
*Priestess raises chalice, tips to the four directions
HPS: Faeries and blessed creatures of the elements - we offer you a portion of the Sabbat Wine, blessed of Water
*Priest elevates cakes and tips to the four directions
HP: Faeries and blessed creatures of the elements – we offer you a portion of the Sabbat bread, blessed of Earth
Offers to celebrants Wine and cakes…
“May you never thirst”
”May you never hunger”
After simple feast is done – Now may be the time for celebrants to speak of remembering and appreciating the year just ending… letting go of the negative things we wish to leave behind and setting direction for the New Year.
If weather permits, and we are outdoors with a balefire, we can use our wood and/or bark pieces to throw into the fire. As they burn and turn to ashes so too does the things we want to see go. As the smoke rises visualize our prayers for the coming year rising for all the Universe to hear and assist us…
HPS: Between the worlds we stand in this sacred space
All time is here and now. As we leave this circle, the season will have changed
And we will have changed with it. For there is no escape from the wisdom of the Universe…
HP: The sacred dance goes on and on. Seasons change and change again. From where we came we will return. The Circle remains unbroken…
THANKS & FAREWELL TO THE GOD & GODDESS
HP: God of the Sun, we thank you for attending these rites in your honor and for sharing your gifts of freedom and rejuvenation… Hail & Farewell!
HPS: Goddess of the Moon, we thank you for attending these rites in your honor and for sharing your gifts of compassion and wit… Hail & Farewell!
* Priest and Priestess snuff out Gold and Silver candles
THANKS AND RELEASE OF QUARTERS
Beginning in North going whiddershins
Priest and Priestess extinguish candles as the quarters are dismissed (Priestess snuffs North and West/Priest snuffs South and East)
After East is dismissed…
HP: Out of darkness the light has been reborn. Carry this moment like a torch in your hearts through the coming year. Let it sustain you in your times of darkness and be a symbol of blessing in your times of joy. Let peace be with you!
HPS: These rites are now ended. Thanks to all who shared in this celebration tonight. We’ll close this circle by clapping three times together.
WOLFSHIELD: May the Circle be open but never be broken. May the peace of the Goddess be always in your heart… Merry ye meet and Merry ye part and Merry ye meet again!
ALL CELEBRANTS CLAP 3x – the circle is opened!
Lycan said:you're not from around here are you?