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[ZenMonster]

Okay,

I have a "burning" question for you fine folks.

I am in a new relationship with a wonderful woman and the sex is AWESOME...

Man oh man, best I have ever had.

But...Everynow and again, my cock becomes really really sensitive and raw looking , usually in the same place. Sex become painful unless she is seriously lubed. The penis is sensitive to the touch for a while afterwards and kinda red.

The is no swelling or discharges of anykind. It doesn't itch either. I am assuming I am just rubbing the poor guy raw. Typically, at these times, my GF isn't fully wet in the outer labial area, just inner. I think this is when some chaffing occurs.

I have already figured out the getting her more ready (and more patient)

My question is this: What can I do to protect the delicate skin of Mister Buster McThunderstrike here? Lotions? Oils? What do you folks suggest?

 

[BrazenFellow]

You're chafing. In my experience I've had to use condoms until the chafing heals, then be more careful the next time. You may want to try switching up positions a little more.

While you're chafed, if you're going bareback and she enjoys very deep penetration have her lay on her back, legs spread about as wide as her shoulders and knees back towards her chest. Enter, and she can rest her legs over your shoulders. Feels great but the pressure is lesser on your shaft than other positions, so it shouldn't irritate the chafed area as much.

Extra lube might also help avoid chafing.

 

[SweetErika]

Yep, use a condom with a couple of drops of lube in the tip before you roll it on, then extra lube on the outside of the condom. If this is a new relationship as you say, condoms are a good idea anyway, unless you're wild about risking bringing pregnancy and STIs into your new relationship. My husband has psoriasis, and when it was really bad, condoms and lube totally saved the skin on his cock, so we used them even when we didn't need them for birth control/STI protection.

Apart from that, add extra lube (silicone lube is great), perhaps at different points throughout the session. And if your lady has pubic hair on her labia, removing it might help reduce your irritation if the rubbing of the hair could be contributing to the raw skin.

How long does penetration/thrusting generally last? And are you having sex on top of a good amount of masturbation? I'm thinking if you're getting irritated in a shorter amount of time w/ plenty of lube and not over-stressing your skin, you might actually have some kind of skin condition or something like a yeast infection that's making you sensitive to friction. If that's a possibility, or you're still getting raw after trying the suggestions here, go talk to your doctor or a dermatologist.

 

[romantic_always]

The more foreplay, the better. I've had this same problem-I would dry up and the pain would be really unbearable. However, using oral sex as a foreplay method is wonderful for both partners, because there is lubrication on the penis and more lubrication in the vagina.

It really helps! And it feels great, of course.

 

[ZoeBird]

I don't think you should rule out infection or some kind of skin condition without seeing a doctor. That's not something you can really diagnose on your own unless you are a medical professional.

 

[anoncuriousm]

this happened to me once, and it was because i'd got too excited, my girl wasn't shaved, and the head brushed up a bit too much against her hair... if it's her hair getting in the way, lube won't help any. hard for me to think anyone is that dry INSIDE even if she's not fully wet (of course getting her more wet would help).

 

[VelvetDarkness]

My question is this: What can I do to protect the delicate skin of Mister Buster McThunderstrike here? Lotions? Oils? What do you folks suggest?

R O F L M A O

 

[ZenMonster]

R O F L M A O

Hey, she came up with the name...

Good advice all around. I think the best option is to let it heal and talk to my Doctor next visit. I do not think it is a virus/infection however. I think i am just screwing BMcTS a little raw.

Consider this as well: Until this woman, I had not had sexual activity for about 10 years. In that time, Buster worked just fine, as my left hand can affirm. Now, I have a lovely woman who not only loves me, she loves to screw me silly. Needless to say...I have a REAL difficult time saying no. Sadly, a raw and sore Buster is sufficient to cause me to decline (in more ways than one too )

One thing that has helped was Lanolin (sp?). She had no ointment left over from when The Little Terror was breastfeeding. It was to help her abused nipples recover. It worked wonders on Buster.