Ownership

[samantha647]

Almost 30 and still looking for my owner …. He’s out there somewhere… sigh

 

[BarbieDoll1982]

So primal but also feels right.

Yes please

 

[average_red]

I love the thought of turning myself over to someone. Even as a lifestyle. Sex, obviously, whenever and however they want, but also the everyday stuff that I've never been free of- dressing, what to cook/eat, financial stuff, what we do, where we go, how I address and interact with people.

I've also never been able to find someone I trust enough to do this with- I want a connection, to be treated as valuable as a person even if, maybe especially because I'm submitting to them. I don't think I could do this as a scene, or a weekend, or even just a new relationship.

Basically, I want to trust someone irrefutably, I want to be cared for in obvious ways, I want to feel wanted and desired. I want to make someone happy, and give them things of value, and take some stress away by doing things they don't like to do or be a kind of stress ball or just be someone THEY can trust.

The thought of it is primal, and all the things I shouldn't want; It's also incredibly personal and emotional.

That being said, I doubt I could ever actually get to this point of trust. Too much risk of me being the rest of the way destroyed, even if they don't mean to. I'm also not into being degraded or humiliated, which for most seem to go hand in hand. So alas, 'tis but a dream.

What you are looking for is what I would have wanted, and to be honest would still want from a woman, I'm just old enough to realize that it won't happen for me, but I would like you to know that we have too many voices in our heads. The women who have offered me a taste of what you are looking for all seem to want, actually DEMAND degradation and humiliation. I've come to accept that if I want it I have to accept that I must degrade them, and that if I slip up and let myself be too nice I will inevitably loose them. Honestly at this point I don't know if I would even trust a woman telling me that I can just be nice to her.

 

[average_red]

Almost 30 and still looking for my owner …. He’s out there somewhere… sigh

since I can't seem to message you directly, can I ask you where/how you are looking for your owner?

 

[Leana_M]

Almost 30 and still looking for my owner …. He’s out there somewhere… sigh

I know men who are good Masters and who are actively looking for a serious submissive without finding the right one, and here, it seems to be the opposite, it's the submissives who are looking for a Master. The world turns upside down sometimes ^^

 

[apom]

To me, being owned isn't play. When I give myself I give everything, and I love the feeling I get when they take it all.

The law says I may not give my freedom away, but for a solitary female there are ways around that.

 

[PleasureDaddy]

To me, being owned isn't play. When I give myself I give everything, and I love the feeling I get when they take it all.

The law says I may not give my freedom away, but for a solitary female there are ways around that.

When it’s shared and fundamentally understood, (and agreed upon, mutually/joyfully) it’s amazing. Its incredibly powerful. When its right you feel it from head to toe…

 

[PlayWDaddy]

It is natural and primal for me to want to own a submissive. It has nothing to do with me being more powerful or better than someone else for me. It’s about having someone trust in me so much that they’re willing to do whatever I ask to please and support me. At the same time, they trust me enough to know I would never put them at real risk, but I’m there to provide them structure and a good time.

 

[JessiQueVix]

for us, we all submissive ladies always look for being owned. that gives us the confidence and power

 

[DaddyLovesKitten]

To me, being owned isn't play. When I give myself I give everything, and I love the feeling I get when they take it all.

The law says I may not give my freedom away, but for a solitary female there are ways around that.

For me it is a romantic gesture of trust and intimacy.

Anything she is willing to give me, I give her- Love, respect, intimacy, trust, control over her body, being locked up, put in a submissive posed, spanked, whatever.

I do not feel it is a power trip or authority thing for me, we are just two hearts who love each other, and she wants to give me this trust and power and authority, but it's a game.

If she's asking for it to be harder, softer, slower, faster, or to stop or do something different, we do.

We also do nothing she hasn't explicitly consented to prior.

These are very simple rules and it allows her to be vulnerable with someone in a completely safe way.

Yes, you can be naked and tied up around me and not only will you not be harmed, you will feel good and be free the instant you need to be.

It is safe.

And this intimacy extends to all her thoughts and feelings and fantasies she wants to share.

I will not use them to hurt her, ever.

I think doms who actually ignore consent or are coercive with their authority are striking at the very basis of the relationship.

This is the sub's freedom to choose, who to be with, how much power to give away, and when and if it returns. With the right person it can be incredibly romantic, erotic, freeing, intimate, and you will feel no closer to anyone else you will ever know or love.

Some bonds are special like that between a parent and a child, but if we're not trying to compete with that, nothing comes close to that of the bond between a loving dom and the submissive who chooses to give him or herself over to the person they love and trust.

That is an incredibly romantic act. And it should be honored and treated as something special and sacred. Not just a kink.

 

[Samantha47]

It is natural and primal for me to want to own a submissive. It has nothing to do with me being more powerful or better than someone else for me. It’s about having someone trust in me so much that they’re willing to do whatever I ask to please and support me. At the same time, they trust me enough to know I would never put them at real risk, but I’m there to provide them structure and a good time.

Very nice

 

[kathyisgr65]

Almost 30 and still looking for my owner …. He’s out there somewhere… sigh

hopefully so soon

 

[mow707070x]

^^^^EXACTLY THIS! ^^^^
I HAVE this with my Lovely Wife Domme Goddess and the utmost trust in being OWNED by Her is unlike anything I've ever experienced! It's the most freeing thing... I refer to it as "Freedom Through Captivity."View attachment 2592721

I like this: "Freedom Through Captivity." I understand what you mean and I believe it to be true and real. Well said.

 

[Samantha47]

I like this: "Freedom Through Captivity." I understand what you mean and I believe it to be true and real. Well said.

Ownership would be wonderful

 

[mow707070x]

I have owned several slaves and still own one. I feel like I can contribute to this topic but can't decide where to start. I guess I'll start by saying my "Memoirs of a Master" writings detail my early slave ownership. As I said, I still own one slave and have for 20+ years. But the ownership is probably different than most would think.

 

[Want2get2knowu]

I know I secretly have feelings of possession and ownership. I know this can be a taboo topic. Let’s consider this a safe space to discuss. My feelings of ownership feel primal or natural. Where are you at? Do you like to own or be owned? I’m not talking about leashes and collars. I’m talking about that feeling in your heart and mind.

I love it when I'm owned, knowing of and fulfilling His expectations for me. I love it when He explores my body's nooks, cranies, and holes to expose me and satisfy His curiosity. I love it when he disciplines and even punishes me. I've been owned a couple of times before and it is my favorite part of submission.

 

[Samantha47]

I want to be completely owned

I love it when I'm owned, knowing of and fulfilling His expectations for me. I love it when He explores my body's nooks, cranies, and holes to expose me and satisfy His curiosity. I love it when he disciplines and even punishes me. I've been owned a couple of times before and it is my favorite part of submission.

Would be wonderful to experience that

 

[Samantha47]

I want to be completely owned

Would be wonderful to experience that

I'm trans girl anyone want to own

 

[Want2get2knowu]

What you are looking for is what I would have wanted, and to be honest would still want from a woman, I'm just old enough to realize that it won't happen for me, but I would like you to know that we have too many voices in our heads. The women who have offered me a taste of what you are looking for all seem to want, actually DEMAND degradation and humiliation. I've come to accept that if I want it I have to accept that I must degrade them, and that if I slip up and let myself be too nice I will inevitably loose them. Honestly at this point I don't know if I would even trust a woman telling me that I can just be nice to her.

Please don't give up. You sound like the kindest of Doms and it would ge an honor to be owned by someone like you. I enjoy humiliation and a bit of degradation, but would never want my Dom to do something He isn't comfortable with.

 

[Samantha47]

Please don't give up. You sound like the kindest of Doms and it would ge an honor to be owned by someone like you. I enjoy humiliation and a bit of degradation, but would never want my Dom to do something He isn't comfortable with.

You sound perfect for me

 

[Samantha47]

I think true ownership comes from the end of the whip...My pro Mistress believes the whip is a necessary reminder of who owns who...especially when, like in our case, money is involved.

Oh yes

 

[PleasureDaddy]

I love it when I'm owned, knowing of and fulfilling His expectations for me. I love it when He explores my body's nooks, cranies, and holes to expose me and satisfy His curiosity. I love it when he disciplines and even punishes me. I've been owned a couple of times before and it is my favorite part of submission.

It’s a threshold that you mutually crossover. From playful sex spanking, to admitting that you want your man to use his hands to dominate your body, and the will to control your mind/soul. It’s intoxicating.

 

[average_red]

Please don't give up. You sound like the kindest of Doms and it would ge an honor to be owned by someone like you. I enjoy humiliation and a bit of degradation, but would never want my Dom to do something He isn't comfortable with.

Thank you for your encouragement. I'm exploring a bit more, and I'm actually finding that for me the words themselves are irrelevant. They just provide cadence and tone for me, I could probably do everything that I want with little more than grunts and gutteral sounds, so while I am still "uncomfortable" with letting myself, and remembering, to say humiliating and degradating things it really only bothers me on a conscious level and when I can get myself to sort of shut off the ' civilized ' voices in my head I don't mind it at all.

I don't think that I could keep a sub that needed constant humiliation, and I would need a sub that enjoyed praise, and being cared for, especially outside of 'the bedroom', but I am definitely coming around.

 

[Samantha47]

Thank you for your encouragement. I'm exploring a bit more, and I'm actually finding that for me the words themselves are irrelevant. They just provide cadence and tone for me, I could probably do everything that I want with little more than grunts and gutteral sounds, so while I am still "uncomfortable" with letting myself, and remembering, to say humiliating and degradating things it really only bothers me on a conscious level and when I can get myself to sort of shut off the ' civilized ' voices in my head I don't mind it at all.

I don't think that I could keep a sub that needed constant humiliation, and I would need a sub that enjoyed praise, and being cared for, especially outside of 'the bedroom', but I am definitely coming around.

Would be so nice

 

[Allisonlee]

I've been with my husband for 11 years and married for the past 7.im now 34 and he started sharing me with his friends after wed been together for about 18 months and then with the occasionally stranger we'd meet in a club or contact site.a few years ago I was mistaken in a hotel bar for an escort as I was in a nice but revealing dress and I told the guy I was with someone so he left and when I told my husband he suggested I go back to him as it was a fantasy of us both.my husband followed us as I went to his room so he knew where I was and an hour later I returned as after having sex with the guy.we carried on doing it occasionally then I got the need for a pimp to control everything and yes take ownership.my husband wasn't sure at first but after a while excepted my feelings and said asking as at home I'm he's he's ok with me giving myself to another guy or guys.

Omg I love it