I enjoy ownership and control. I very much see my partners as equals and I don't think I should own them because I'm male and they are female. More that I'm a Dom and they are a sub who desires my ownership over them.
I don't think it should always be easy. Ownership, and obedience, are easy when it untested or something someone really desires. I don't make people do things they hate, and I respect hard limits. But that area where a submissive is doing something just for my pleasure. Very hot. That feeling of ownership and power. mmm
