Over stimulation?!?

[BassT-Bone]

hey everyone... my girlfriend has a problem with not being able to have an orgasm while having sex (penetration). oral is fine...in fact great...multiples and all, it almost completely wears her out. she enjoys sex a lot and has told me so. however, it seems, by her description, that it is almost like there is to much pleasure at once. i guess you could call it over stimulation. anyone have any thoughts on this?
i will say that i am average size and that she is a little smaller than average so it takes a little bit of time for the comfort factor to be reached for her, but that has never been a problem really.
i really love her with all my heart and i want to please her with penetration as much as i please her with oral (as far as orgasms are concerned anyway) but i am having difficulty. no matter how slow we go to start out, it seems to not make a difference in the result.
any ideas??

Bass

 

[Mustang Sally]

I think many women can't reach orgasm through vaginal stimulation (penetration) alone. Maybe she needs clitoral stimulation to get there. Try positions that increase friction on the clitoris, or use your fingers to help her out.

Just my very un-expert-like thoughts. Anyone else?

 

[jcgirl]

Sally's right. Many women cannot have orgasms with penetration. Or at least not yet. Maybe as they get older, learn to relax more, go with the feeling, or maybe not at all. Help her out a little. Besides, its great to have it both ways.

 

[Maria]

Orgasm through penetratoin, Hmmmm, let's see.......

Perhaps it is the position that may need to be changed. I have found that orgasm come easily with penetration when my head is actually hanging off of the bed. Also getting it from behind tends to stimulate what some refer to as the "G"
spot, which inturns sets off an incredible orgasm. Try changing to one of these positions or choose from many more.

Also, as mentioned earlier, stimulate her clit while you are inside of her. Use your fingers, or even ask her to use her own. My favorite though is a vibrating egg placed directly on my clit, while either sitting on top or even good old missionary. Doesn't matter if I hold the egg or he does, the end result is the same.

Good Luck and Happy Hunting!