Outright flame thread.

[Starfish]

I just downloaded this fire thing for my desktop thinking it would be cool, and it is until it nears the end and is some dumb year 2000 bullshit. Like that was even the beginning of the Millenium, or something.

You'd think more people would have realized that that was the END of the millenium and that 2001 is the beginning.

*jah*

*rastafari*

 

[Starfish]

Not juicy enough for you...


People I hate...








































































. The end

 

[Savage Kitten]

you light my fire bay-be

Some flames are good!
http://evil.websitegalaxy.com/_uimages/waxtoungue.bmp

 

[Starfish]

Oh wow, my goodness!

You can melt my candle anyday!




You know who else I hate?





Krusty the Clown for manipulating children











. That is the end for real

 

[Angel]

STARFISHY IS FUCKING ADORABLE.

 

[bluntforcemama]

Anyone who wants to chat.... I'm in the new chat room!

 

[Starfish]

New chat room!!!!!!! runs like hell! I did that before and got hooked. Ahh shit!

 

[cymbidia]

Here's a flame pic...
one of my kind.

 

[cymbidia]

...and one more, for you Dommes out there:

 

[Guest]

Here's a flame pic...
one of my kind.

Now why would they cover her pussy? That's one of the best places for wax!

 

[Mensa]

A wicky stick-it

Here's a flame pic...
one of my kind.

WOW! And to think she only came in for a bikini wax!

 

[Starfish]

I have never tried any of this, but it seems really interesting.

I am a bit confused about the candle in the penis. Is that uncomfortable for a man.


I am going to ask you all a question that may seem nieve, but since I havn't done this before I guess it is.

What is the turn on, sensation, sexual benifit of using hot wax as opposed to other media, like nipple clips, and whatnot?

Is it that it is more randomly placed, and the reciever gets a thrill from the unknowing of where it will splatter next? Is this more for the Dom who is inflicting it?

 

[Laurel]

Re: A wicky stick-it

WOW! And to think she only came in for a bikini wax!

LMAO!

 

[cymbidia]

The candle in the penis is uncomfortable, probably, darlin' - and that's part of the allure. You gotta be at least a little bit of a masochist, maybe, to understand that.

Playing with hot wax is only one of the choices BDSM'ers have when considering sexual outlets. Clamps are another. Bondage, flogging, spanking, orgasm control - all are more choices. There are *many* such ways to be innovative, to play with one's partner in ways that benefit both.

No one, nilla or not, is sexual with their partner in the same way all the time. (At least not in really good relationships, i think.) All of us seek some bit of newness to mix into the comfortably exciting on ocasion.

Playing with candle wax is that bit of newness for some people; for others, it's a regular way to be sexual with one's partner.

Finally, playing with hot wax is done, always, in a Safe, Sane, and Consensual manner. ("SSC" are the watchwords of BDSM lifestyles worldwide.) Both people agree to it, both want it, both will derive benefits from the experience.

Those benefits vary from person to person, of course.

For me, i love the hot splash of the wax, the burn and the fading warmth, all happening in an instant - to be followed, at ragged intervals and falling i-never-know-where, by more and more drops of burning hot wax.

Afterwards, of course, is the clean-up. Wax peels off, but one must be still and let her Master pick it away at his leisure. A shower (together) usually concludes the play.

For the Dom, for my Dom, i think it has to do with my not knowing where the hot drops will land, or how frequently, or when it will start and stop. He controls it all, he controls what i feel and how deeply i feel it - he controls my response.

Hmmm.
This is pretty rambling.
I hope it makes some sense.

 

[Starfish]

Makes perfect sence.. Thank you for taking the time to explain the idea that it is different for each person *smacks forhead*, and then giving your perspective.

Do you know of anyone, or groups who are into what I call...

Classical fetishes? What I mean by that is something of the degree of re-enacting ancient sexual antiquity.

This would include the means of which they used for sexual pleasure, and the setting would be made to give the feel of a period of choice, to the best of ones ability, via clothing, excesses like fresh flowers, wine and fruit, peacock feathers, and very elegant fabrics draped from the celing and walls.


This may not even be an existing fetish in the minds of most, but I am truely absorbed into the idea of it, and have been striving to work up a re enactment, here for my husband and I to take part in.


I am just wondering if you know of any sites on it, groups or individuals.

(standard BDSM garb and styles aren't in my personal taste, although I am interested in the origins of these fetishes.)

 

[Savage Kitten]

Flamers Unite

http://www.astroinfo.org/~bnies/gallery/switzerland/thumb/Candle.jpg
White Magic

Softly chanting mantra,
Defiantly working contra.

White;
peace and serenity,
heaven's divinity.

Red;
loyalty and devotion,
sacred emotions.

Blue;
cleanse and clear,
erase the fear.

Black;
cloak of darkness,
concealing the starkness.

Dancing flame, wax and wan.
Slowing dying, before the dawn.

 

[cymbidia]

SCA - The Society for Creative Anachronism, Inc.

Do you know of anyone, or groups who are into what I call...

Classical fetishes? What I mean by that is something of the degree of re-enacting ancient sexual antiquity.

This would include the means of which they used for sexual pleasure, and the setting would be made to give the feel of a period of choice, to the best of ones ability, via clothing, excesses like fresh flowers, wine and fruit, peacock feathers, and very elegant fabrics draped from the celing and walls.

Of course you know about these people, right? http://www.sca.org/

At least one of the very kinkiest people i've ever rubbed up against was heavily involved in this stuff, and told me that many similar perverts were likewise enmeshed within its foundations. They don't advertise the sexual angle, of course, but once you're involved with them, i think their "enactments" take a private turn as well as the more public spectacles we're all used to.

I'm sorry i can't help you any more with this. Perhaps a good thorough net search might get you some more focused info?

 

[Starfish]

Thank you so much, Cym, for the link!


It is more than I've gotten from starting a thread about the subject.


Cool!


SK, you are so sweet. I really love having you here at lit..

And that kitty is too fucking cute, leaping like that! Nearly makes me cry with happiness.

 

[Never]

I know this isn't really on topic but I've poured hot candle wax on me and it never seems to hurt all that much, are some candles hotter than others?

 

[cymbidia]

I know this isn't really on topic but I've poured hot candle wax on me and it never seems to hurt all that much, are some candles hotter than others?

Ever poured it on your nipples, darlin', just after the clamps came off? What about dripping it all around and even into your pussy or the crack of your ass or in a line down between your breasts toward your mons as your bound and cannot move at all?

As they say in real estate: location, location, location!

 

[doctor_insanus]

Nice to have you back among us, Cymbidia...

By the way... was that an offer?

*pulls up a chair*

 

[Starfish]

Never, go back to the Scary Ghost thread and look after your post...... you are in for a spook if you do.....

 

[cymbidia]

Nice to have you back among us, Cymbidia...

By the way... was that an offer?

*pulls up a chair*

Thanks, d_i.

Well, i suppose.
I've never actually done this, you understand, just had it done to me. I know one thing for sure though: it would be best for you to stay very still.

Now, if you'll just take off your clothing and spread your legs, we'll get started. Will you clasp your hands over your head please, to get them out of the way? Hmm. Just let me get this candle lit...

 

[doctor_insanus]

Mommy!