I'd like to know if there are any closet men or women here who fantasize about their sexuality being publicly revealed. I was seeing an openly gay man who respected my privacy but every so often during play he'd tease me with ways he'd out me. Of course he was joking but it made me very rigid for some reason. Perhaps it's the shame and secrecy being opened into a humiliating reveal .. that gives such an erotic charge. Am I the only one?