Our First Threesome (Help Planning)

[WCbiguy27]

Hello all. I am a bisexual man with a GF of over 4 years. Over a year ago I confused by Bisexuality and we have worked through it. We discussed fantasies and have done most of them up to this point including gender bending with strap ons.

We recently met a gentleman of whom we both liked and agreed would be a good threesome partner. She likes his personality and looks and I his respectfulness of our rules, many that she will only perform oral sex on him, no vaginal or anal. This is her rule and I have let her know that she is free to do as she pleases as she is giving this gift to me.

We are planning our evening in about two weeks. We agreed not to do it in our bed and to meet at a hotel. I am eager to her others suggestions on how we should approach the evening. What have others done to ease into the first encounter? This will be ou first venture and I'm sure everyone will eb a little nervous. Any advice?

 

[emap]

Well first, buy a box or three of condoms, no matter if he says he is clean and produces the results of his test, wear condoms all the way around.

It's possible to have something and come out clean, depends on how many of the STD's he got tested for and when he got any of them in relation to the test.

Ok, so after that, bring lube, lots of lube, make sure it won't destroy the condoms of course.

So after you get condoms and lube, don't have any plans on what you will do with each other, bring some wine or whatever sit around talk drink and whatever happens is what happens.

Yeah I know, not what you wanted to hear, but really, it's the best thing I can think to say since I don't know you, her, or him.

 

[M's girl]

Check out the Blank Manual , post #8 too. Lots has been written about this in other threads already.