Our first threesome, advice post.

[Happyguy25]

About 6 months ago I confessed to my GF that I might be Bi. Since then she has accepted it and we have started exploring our bi sides together (she had thought about it too). We joined a website and started looking for both guys and girls to experiment with. It looks like I will be going first. We found a guy who meets all our criteria and are probably going to meet up with him in a few weeks. We have all ready set the groundrules but we can't think of a way to break the ice when we meet up. Has anyone ever walked down this road? Any advice would be great. Thank you.

 

[hoodooman]

same kind of flirting you would do with anyone...a compliment..a blush perhaps..a friendly hand on the thigh or shoulder after any initial awkwardness...and i recommend you don't put too much pressure on yourself....after all he may make the first move..if you're both too shy it's ok..schedule another meeting, sodas or a beeer or whatever

 

[mansome]

flirt with them online or on the telephone before you meet and have a few drinks not too many but a few when you do meet...... and just have FUN.......

 

[RickyRooster]

All Good Advice

My wife and I went down the same route. We contacted a guy through a swingers site. We chatted for about four weeks on line and by telephone. We also had some sexy chats, webcammed and exchanged pics when we all thought that we were all genuine. So by the time we met we had seen each other nude, masturbating etc so that helped to remove SOME of the embarassment.

We also decided to meet on neutral ground. We booked a hotel room within a taxi ride of our house as we all decided we might need a few drinks to loosen up. This would obviously rule out driving. We thought that if we met in our own home at first and things didn't go well our guest would have had nowhere to go and that would have been awkward. With a hotel room we could have caught a cab home and he could have stayed in the room.

When we met we did indeed start by flirting, mutual compliments, shared relief that none of the company was a 'nutter'/weirdo/freak, and a few drinks.
We retired to the hotel room and popped a naughty movie on the laptop. After a few more drinks my wife, bless her, declared that she was going to 'freshen up' and that when she got back she expected to see some cock. Giggles all round, ice broken, cue hot horny night.

Couple of tips. Go easy on the alcohol. Nerves try to get the better of you.
Try to meet a guy from a swingers site that has a verification system. You can then check the guy out with others that have met him and removes the 'is he a nutter' factor.
Don't be afraid to say 'it's been nice meeting you but we don't want to take it any further'.

Hope this is of some use. Take care and have a great time. You'll love it.

Cheers,
Ricky

 

[mansome]

Very nice advice....

I'm a member of Swinglifestyle.com .. I highly reccommend it.... I've already certified and been certified by a couple there........

 

[sexfan23]

Very nice advice....

I'm a member of Swinglifestyle.com .. I highly reccommend it.... I've already certified and been certified by a couple there........

It is excellent advice.

Is that a paysite, Mansome?

 

[mansome]

It is excellent advice.

Is that a paysite, Mansome?

You can join for free and thousands of people do.... I'm paid up for a few months... I originally paid so I could look at the naughty pics others displayed but now that they took the "X" rated pics off of there because of pending litigation from the new "obscenity" laws.. I'm not sure what extra perks I get from paying... so I'll re-address that when my payment time is up... I had several naughty pics of myself and with another woman that I can't show anymore on there....

BUT either way the place is wonderful for connecting you with people in your area... I've had several offers... the timing hasn't worked out.. but I have met one couple.. had an incredible time... he wasn't into being with me but that's cool.......

I have a date with another couple as soon as they come back from vacation.......... I've been flirting with her online for about a month... there's no doubt that the first encounter will be sexual... well unless she's completely lying about who she is.. but I doubt that...


I hope I'm not hijacking this thread with my personal experiences..


Swinglifestyle.com seriously is a place to check out.. many people on there want to webcam first.. and some that's all they want... I'm looking for real encounters with real people.. and there ARE plenty of those on there looking for the same thing....


hope this helps.... if you do get on there my username is "1969er" check me out and leave me a message if you like....

J.R.

 

[sexfan23]

You can join for free and thousands of people do.... I'm paid up for a few months... I originally paid so I could look at the naughty pics others displayed but now that they took the "X" rated pics off of there because of pending litigation from the new "obscenity" laws.. I'm not sure what extra perks I get from paying... so I'll re-address that when my payment time is up... I had several naughty pics of myself and with another woman that I can't show anymore on there....

BUT either way the place is wonderful for connecting you with people in your area... I've had several offers... the timing hasn't worked out.. but I have met one couple.. had an incredible time... he wasn't into being with me but that's cool.......

I have a date with another couple as soon as they come back from vacation.......... I've been flirting with her online for about a month... there's no doubt that the first encounter will be sexual... well unless she's completely lying about who she is.. but I doubt that...


I hope I'm not hijacking this thread with my personal experiences..


Swinglifestyle.com seriously is a place to check out.. many people on there want to webcam first.. and some that's all they want... I'm looking for real encounters with real people.. and there ARE plenty of those on there looking for the same thing....


hope this helps.... if you do get on there my username is "1969er" check me out and leave me a message if you like....

J.R.

Great, thanks for the info. I will check it out. Sorry if I was a thread-jacking enabler.

 

[mansome]

Great, thanks for the info. I will check it out. Sorry if I was a thread-jacking enabler.

Just be a "jacking" enabler... presents his cock to him... now all we need is a sexy lady for a third... *laughs* now we are back on point.....

 

[sexfan23]

Just be a "jacking" enabler... presents his cock to him... now all we need is a sexy lady for a third... *laughs* now we are back on point.....

What a great way to bring us back full circle! Hmmm... 'circle' and 'jacking' in the same idea.... wonder what's going through my mind..?

 

[mansome]

What a great way to bring us back full circle! Hmmm... 'circle' and 'jacking' in the same idea.... wonder what's going through my mind..?

hopefully.. your cock, my cock, and a delicious pussy ;^)

 

[gregor_16]

free

anyone know of any free sights,i've never found one here in canada except bisexual.org